We're talking about why we stay in relationships that aren't happy, supportive or mutual. One way street relationships where you do everything for someone who does nothing for you. Hanging with negative, selfish, or mean people who create drama and conflict.
We may justify our being with them by claiming we aren't that way. "That's just how so and so is.", or, "They don't realize they're being this way." None of it really flies. The fact is when we continue to stay in relationships with nasty people, we cosign their behavior and sit in silent agreement.
So, when are you going to reach for better? Because you deserve better. Your tribe should be an endless source of inspiration, admiration and strength. Everyone makes each other better! Division isn't even an option, gossip, betrayals, not even a consideration. Sometimes we're with people like this because we too, are in some negative headspace. And you feel at home. But you're not.
You have too to say to the world to be with anyone who isn't radiating positivity and light. And you should find your way to that light if you are in some dark place, and a new circle of people who will help you stay there.
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