Introduction and Context
1. The Leader's Test
a. Goal = building up (12:19,13:10)
b. Motivation = sacrificial love (12:15)
c. Standard = truth (13:8)
d. Posture = humility (13:9)
e. Emotions = fear and grief (12:20-21)
DIAGNOSTIC Qs:
i. Why am I upset or angry or frustrated?
ii. What fears and grief are underneath those emotions?
2. The Christian's Test
a. Sins to watch out for (12:20-21)
DIAGNOSTIC Qs:
i. Why am I upset or angry or frustrated?
ii. What fears and grief are underneath those emotions?
b. Not perfection but repentance (13:11)
DIAGNOSTIC Qs:
i. When God last revealed sin in your life, were you quick to repent or quick to ignore?
ii. In conflict and disunity, have you done everything you can to forgive, and/or repent, and/or reconcile?
c. Look outwards (see 1 John 3:20)
DIAGNOSTIC Qs:
i. Is there an objective command that you have broken or are your feelings of guilt and unworthiness vague and general?
ii. Have you confessed and repented of these sins? What does God say of you and your sin because of Jesus?
iii. What will you do with those lingering feelings of guilt and shame and unworthiness?