"The divorce rate for special needs parents is 87%. Here’s why we’re still standing."

Welcome to Season 2 of Specialness! One of the biggest questions we get is: How have you stayed married for 30 years while raising a special needs child?

The truth? It hasn’t been easy. The stress, the unknowns, the financial strain—special needs parenting tests a marriage in ways most people will never experience.

💡 In this episode:
✔️ The biggest challenges that nearly broke us
✔️ How we navigated resentment, finances, and emotional burnout
✔️ The mindset shift that kept us from becoming part of the 87%

✨ Whether you’re married, divorced, or just trying to survive, this episode is a real look at what it takes to keep a relationship strong in the face of special needs parenting.

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"When your special needs child becomes an adult, everything changes—but not in the way you expect."

In this episode ofSpecialness, we’re reflecting on the last five years of Cason’s life—from turning 18 to where he is today at 23. Adulthood brought new challenges we never saw coming, from securing guardianship to transitioning into adult medical care. We’re sharing the realities of what happens when the system no longer sees your child as a child—and why the fight never really ends.

💡In this episode:
✔️ The emotional & legal battles of transitioning into adulthood
✔️ The struggle to find proper medical care after aging out of pediatrics
✔️ How we found hope and a new community in the process

✨ This episode is for any parent wondering what happens after 18—because the truth is, it’s just the beginning.

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#ParentingJourney #SpecialNeedsParenting #Guardianship #Adulthood #SpecialnessPodcast

"When Your Child Turns 18: Guardianship, Medical Battles & The Harsh Reality of Adulthood"

"Becoming an adult means freedom—but what if your child will never be able to live independently?"

In this episode ofSpecialness, we take you through one of the biggest transitions in Cason’s life—turning 18. But unlike most teens, Cason wasn’t preparing for college or getting his driver’s license. Instead, we were navigatinglegal guardianship, mounting medical bills, and the heartbreaking reality that the system isn’t built for special needs adults.

💡In this episode:

• Theemotional and legal challenges of securing guardianship
• The$50,000-a-year medical treatment we fought nine months for
• Thelack of support for adults with disabilities and what families can do

This phase of our journey was one of the hardest yet—a time when the weight of reality set in. But through it all, we found ways to adapt, advocate, and keep moving forward.

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#ParentingJourney #SpecialNeedsParenting #Guardianship #AdvocatingForYourChild #SpecialnessPodcast

"What do you do when you’re told your child is 1 in 740 million?"

In this episode ofSpecialness, we dive into one of the most pivotal moments in our parenting journey: receiving the results of Cason's genetic testing. The discoveries? A rare chromosomal deletion (15q25.2), unknown mitochondrial mutations, and a list of conditions that left us with more questions than answers.

💡In this episode:

• The emotional rollercoaster of waiting for genetic testing results
• What it’s like to parent a child with an ultra-rare condition
• The balancing act of managing diagnoses, symptoms, and treatment plans

✨ For any parent navigating a special needs journey, this episode is a reminder that even in the unknown, there’s validation and hope to be found.

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#ParentingJourney #SpecialNeedsParenting #RareDiseases #SpecialnessPodcast #AdvocatingForYourChild

“We never imagined we'd be here—new medications, new doctors, and facing words we hoped we'd never hear."

In this emotional episode of Specialness, we dive deep into the life-changing moment when our son’s diagnosis of schizoaffective disorder became a reality. As his hallucinations worsened and fear took over his daily life, we were forced to make the difficult decision of trying Clozaril, a powerful but risky medication.

💬 In this episode:

• The signs that led us to seek new treatment
• The emotional toll of navigating complex medical systems
• How we balanced hope and fear in the face of unknowns

For any parent navigating a special needs journey, we hope our story offers insight, support, and a reminder that you are not alone.

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When your child is in crisis, you expect the hospital to step in immediately—but what happens when you’re left waiting?In this episode of Specialness, we recount a terrifying hospitalization where our son Cason faced lithium toxicity, a life-threatening condition. Despite clear symptoms, the stigma of being labeled a ‘psych patient’ delayed his treatment for hours. It was up to us to advocate relentlessly to get him the care he needed.This is a raw and emotional look at what it takes to fight for your child in an imperfect system.💬 In this episode:What led us to the hospital and how we recognized lithium toxicityThe challenges of navigating medical systems with a special needs childWhy advocating for your child’s care can make all the difference🔔 Subscribe for more stories of love, resilience, and parenting a special needs child.#ParentingJourney #SpecialNeedsParenting #LithiumToxicity #SpecialnessPodcast #Advocacy

What would you do if your child began hallucinating and acting completely unlike themselves?

In this episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff share the raw and emotional journey of navigating their son Cason’s worsening symptoms, from intense fear and hallucinations to a medical crisis that led to his first hospital stay. They reflect on the hard decisions they had to make, the struggles of managing a cocktail of medications, and the emotional toll of feeling isolated as a family.

This heartfelt episode sheds light on the resilience required to parent a child with complex needs while offering hope to other families in similar situations.

💬 In this episode:

How fear and hallucinations escalated into a medical emergency

The emotional and logistical challenges of a child’s hospital stay

Navigating isolation as a family with a special needs child

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Parenting a child with special needs is a journey unlike any other. In this episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff recount the emotional rollercoaster of discovering their son Cason’s diagnoses, from ADHD to pediatric onset bipolar disorder.

This is a raw, heartfelt account of perseverance, unconditional love, and learning to advocate for your child when the road ahead seems uncertain.

💬 In this episode:

Navigating a maze of evaluations, therapies, and medications

The chaos of trial-and-error with treatment plans

Breakthrough moments that gave them hope amidst the challenges

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#ParentingChallenges #BipolarDisorder #SpecialNeedsParenting #SpecialnessPodcast

Becoming parents is supposed to be a joyful experience—but what happens when the challenges feel overwhelming?

In this episode of Specialness, Kim and Jeff recount the early days of parenting their adopted son, Cason. From the excitement of bringing him home to endless crying, sleepless nights, and navigating behaviors they didn’t understand, their story offers a raw and relatable look at the early signs of parenting a child with special needs.

Whether you’re a parent, a caregiver, or someone who wants to better understand the complexities of raising a child with special needs, this episode is an honest and heartfelt look at finding hope amidst the chaos.

💬 In this episode:

Navigating the emotional highs and lows of parenting a child with special needs

Struggling to understand Cason’s constant crying and restlessness

The first signs of sensory and developmental challenges

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#AdoptionStory #SpecialNeedsParenting #ParentingJourney #SpecialnessPodcast

How do you move forward when life delivers the unimaginable? In this episode of Specialness, we open up about a tragedy that shaped the rest of our lives.

Join us as we share the heartfelt story of how loss brought us together, taught us the power of connection, and prepared us for an even bigger journey ahead.

💬 In this episode:

Recognizing the signs of someone struggling

Finding connection through grief

How one pivotal moment reshaped our future

Whether you've faced loss, are navigating life’s challenges, or want a story of resilience, this episode is for you.

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#HealingAfterLoss #Resilience #SpecialnessPodcast