In this follow-up to one of our most-requested topics, we’re digging deeper into the difference between won’t and can’t—and what to actually do when a student appears unwilling, unmotivated, or shut down.

Behavior is communication, but interpreting that communication isn’t always straightforward. In Part 2, we move beyond identifying the difference and focus on actionable steps educators and families can take to support students when it seems like they “just don’t want to.”

When a child acts out, shuts down, or seems to “refuse” to follow directions — is it really defiance, or is it a skill gap? In this episode of Sped Decoded, we’re breaking down one of the most misunderstood areas in education: the difference between won’t and can’t.

Join Lenesha aka Neesh as she unpacks how to tell whether a student’s behavior is a choice or a communication of need. You’ll learn practical ways to recognize disability-related behaviors, shift your mindset, and respond with both compassion and strategy — not punishment.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• How to tell if it’s behavior or a skill gap

• Why the “why” behind behavior matters

• Real examples from classrooms and families

• Tools to teach, not just discipline

🧡 Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or advocate, this conversation will help you see behavior in a new light — and build stronger, more supportive connections with your students.

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Special education advocacy isn’t about confrontation—it’s about collaboration, clarity, and empowerment. In this episode of Sped Decoded, Lenesha breaks down what advocacy really is, why it matters for families and educators, and how it ensures students with disabilities receive the support they deserve. Learn practical steps to start advocating, with an emphasis on equity for Black and Brown families.

In this insightful episode, we delve into the dynamics of the IEP table, exploring the crucial roles each participant plays in shaping a child's educational journey. From educators to parents, discover how collaboration and understanding can lead to more effective and personalized learning plans. Tune in to learn strategies for fostering a supportive and inclusive environment that empowers every voice at the table.

Starting the school year with an IEP? 🎒 This episode of Sped Decoded walks you through a quick, practical back-to-school IEP checklist so you can feel prepared and confident. From reviewing last year’s goals to connecting with teachers, we share simple steps to set your child up for success.

In the inaugural episode of "Sped Decoded," host Lenesha AKA Neesh, a seasoned special educator, delves into the complexities of special education. With over a decade of experience, Neesh shares her mission to empower families, particularly those from marginalized communities, and enhance educational systems. Tune in to discover practical IEP tips, insights on fostering collaboration between parents and educators, and how to navigate the special education landscape with confidence. Join us as we decode special education together, ensuring every child receives the support they deserve.

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Sped Decoded gives parents, educators, and advocates clear, practical tips for navigating IEPs and special education—minus the jargon. Host Neesh shares real stories and strategies to help every child get the support they deserve.