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In this episode, I sit down with certified sexologist and intimacy coach Mandy Hart for an unfiltered look at what men rarely admit out loud. Drawing from her time on OnlyFans, her clinical work, and her deep observations of men on Reddit, Mandy and I dive into male loneliness, sexual shame, and the pressure surrounding penis size and body image.

This conversation gives a raw and compassionate view of modern masculinity and the emotional needs men often hide.

Learn more about Mandy’s work at harts-desire.com.

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 In this episode, I’m exploring a Thanksgiving mix of gratitude, sexual curiosity, and unfiltered honesty. I start with my Pepper’s Perspective on the holidays and how I balance gratitude and desire, especially during a season that can feel tender for so many of us. Then I dive into a real listener confession from Curious Carl, who’s wrestling with a very intimate secret he’s scared to share at home. I break down his confession with compassion, clarity, and a little spice. And finally, I sit down with Andy, a former stripper who opens up about empowerment, money, secrecy, and the unexpected lessons the club teaches you. It’s a thoughtful but spicy blend of reflection, confession, and raw storytelling to warm up your holiday week. 

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
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Skyeblu Cutchie: intimacywithblu.com

In this episode, I sit down with Skyeblu Cutchie, a Certified Relationship, Intimacy and Sex Coach for Women, to talk about what real sexual empowerment looks like. We get into confidence, shame, desire, communication, libido shifts, and how women can show up more fully in their intimate lives. We also explore what healthy adult content consumption actually means, the difference between fantasy and reality, and how to create a balanced relationship with both.

Skyeblu’s work can be found at intimacywithblu.com.

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
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 Vote for me in the Playboy Inside Cover Semi-Finals 

In this episode of Spicy Spectrum I talk about my cruise and vacation experiences, including navigating attention, confidence, and moments of relational aggression. I share funny, unexpected, and insightful stories about being a sensual woman in public and how I stay grounded in my energy. Then I transition into my pre-recorded segment Trying to Be Perfect, where I open up about pressure, self-expectations, and embracing my true self. Don’t forget to check out my Playboy Inside Cover Semi-Finals journey and join me in celebrating this milestone. 

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
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Cast your *daily* vote now at vote.playboy.com/pepperkat

I’m in the semi-finals for Playboy’s Inside Cover competition and I need your help to reach the finals. There are only 11 days left and votes reset every 24 hours, which means one vote isn’t enough. Every single day counts.

If you’ve already voted, thank you so much. Now it’s time to do it again. 💋
 Free votes help, but boosted votes make a huge difference and can push me even closer to winning.

Please take a second right now to go to vote.playboy.com/pepperkat and cast your vote. Let’s make these last 11 days count. Pepper for Playboy!

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
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I made it to the semifinals and it was a close call. Every vote counts and votes roll over daily, so please keep voting. Your support could help me become a finalist in Playboy’s Inside Cover competition. Let’s make this happen together

💋 SEMI-FINAL ROUND - HELP PEPPER REACH THE FINALS!
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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast

or
https://designyourdreamgirl.com

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I share my experience at a nude beach in the Canary Islands and how it awakened my sense of freedom, confidence, and sensuality. I also get real about women’s sexuality, busting myths that women are less sexual than men. I talk about desire, double standards, and empowerment, and why living authentically is the ultimate turn-on.

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast

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https://designyourdreamgirl.com

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A quick reminder that tomorrow, November 3rd is the last day to vote for me in Playboy’s Great Playmate Search and Inside Cover. I’m so close to breaking into the top spots and every single vote helps! You can vote free or boost if you feel like giving extra support. It only takes a few seconds. Vote here: vote.playboy.com/pepperkat

You can also visit designyourdreamgirl.com where the voting link is right at the top. 

Let’s finish strong together 💋 

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I am competing in Playboy’s Semi-Finals Inside Cover competition 🎉 Voting ends November 23rd, 2025 | Every vote counts, vote every 24 hours!

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🎉 3 Years of The Spicy Spectrum Podcast 💋

Today marks three years of The Spicy Spectrum Podcast, and I can’t believe how far we’ve come. I’m celebrating this milestone while also competing in Playboy’s Great Playmate Search, and I need your help to stay in the game.

I’m just 34 votes away from securing my spot in the second chance pot, and there are only five days left to make it happen. Every single vote truly counts.

Be my hero and help me close the gap. You can vote for free or send paid votes to give me an extra boost.

 ✨ You can also visit DesignYourDreamgirl.com
for more of my work and updates.

Let’s celebrate three spicy years together. 💖

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I am competing in Playboy’s Semi-Finals Inside Cover competition 🎉 Voting ends November 23rd, 2025 | Every vote counts, vote every 24 hours!

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I dive into some of the most unique and gruesome requests I've received in the adult industry, exploring how people reveal hidden desires through fantasy. I discuss my experiences catering to these unconventional requests and the creativity behind them. Later, I chat with Dr. Stacy Friedman (https://drstacyfriedman.com/), a certified sex coach, about helping individuals feel safe and confident exploring their sexuality. Together we cover myths around porn, healthy ways to consume adult content, and the importance of communication in relationships when navigating fantasies. This episode blends exploration of taboo interests with practical guidance on intimacy, creating a space to understand desire without judgment.

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Vote for Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards
We are officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the AVN Awards. Voting is open now and ends Saturday, January 24th, 2026 at 3 PM. You can vote up to five times per day.

Make your vote count by visiting:
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast

or
https://designyourdreamgirl.com

Thank you for supporting Spicy Spectrum and helping us shine on the red carpet!

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🎙 Be Part of the Show - Dreamgirl Hotline

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2. Check out my What He’s Thinking — https://thespicyspectru...