There was a family that had moved to a new city, and after they got settled in their new home, they did all the other things you might do in order to get acclimated to a new place.
They learned where the grocery store and posts office was.
They asked locals about which restaurants were the best to visit.
And of course they took time to get their two kids settled into their new school.
Well – next came the important part – it was Easter Sunday and they were on their way to celebrate Easter Mass in a new church.
The parents, not wanting to be embarrassed, tried to give their kids a quick brush up on their catholic knowledge. So the mother asked the kids – “Do you know what Holy Thursday is?”
Their 10-year old daughter in the back seat answered: “That is when Jesus called his friends over for one last dinner with him.”
Next, she asked: “Do you know what Good Friday is?”
Again, their 10-year old daughter answered from the back seat: “That is when Jesus was put on the cross and died, and then they put him in a cave.”
“Very good,” she said.
Her last question: “Do you know what the meaning of Easter is?”
Yet again, their 10-year old answered: “That is when Jesus came back to life!”
Well – not wanting to be upstaged by his older sister anymore, their 7-year old son called out from the back seat: “Yeah, and when he came out of the cave he saw his shadow and there was six more weeks of winter!”
The mystery and wonder of the resurrection is certainly somewhat hard for children to grasp the meaning of – but it’s often hard for even ADULTS to grasp the mystery of the resurrection, too.
In the gospel today we get a first-hand account of how hard it was for even the first disciples to grasp the resurrection.
It says that Jesus stood in their midst and said PEACE BE WITH YOU – and they were so startled and terrified by his presence they thought they were seeing a ghost.
The first question Jesus asks them is “Why are you troubled and why to questions arise in your hearts?”
Why are we troubled???
Why are we troubled? Um – maybe because a couple days ago we saw you die and now you’re standing in front of us. Right here in front of us. ALIVE!
Could it be that the TRUTH of the resurrection was too much for the first disciples to grasp? Could it have been that their hearts and brains could not process fast enough what was unfolding in front of their eyes?
Have you ever experienced something so unbelievable that it was scary? So unbelievable that your brain refused to send information to your heart that is was real?
Many years ago I was at a conference, and one of they keynote speakers was a woman named Maria.
Maria was the mother of 4, and her oldest son served in Desert Storm.
After a bombing in Kuwait, word came that her son had died. His whole unit could not even be found in the disaster area.
Her son, however, did not die in the bombing, but it was simply assumed that he did. His unit fled the area. Without radio communication they had no contact with the rest of their troops, and in order to stay alive they had to go into hiding.
After being found, his unit was sent home, and when he got off the plane and greeted his mother, she was frozen. She couldn’t move – not even to embrace him.
Maria said that she was terrified to grab a hold of him to hug him and kiss his face – because she thought – what if this isn’t real? What if I go in for a hug and feel this extreme love and joy only to wake up from a dream and find out he’s really not here.
The truth can scare us sometimes. It can rock our world and even at times change our perception of reality.
As humans we also have a tendency to doubt in an instant when we feel something is too good to be true – even wh