Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!

This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Damian to talk about sex in relationships, what happens when desire fades, and things start to feel routine or unsatisfying.

They unpack the Madonna-Whore complex, the impact of predictability on libido, and how a lack of sexual satisfaction can affect emotional connection. It’s an honest conversation about the challenges that come with long-term sex and the work it takes to stay connected.

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Themes: Relationship Sex, Desire, Libido, Emotional Connection

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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!

This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Valerie for a conversation about non-sexual turn-ons and the power of sensory triggers.

They explore how things like scent, sound, gaze, and energy can spark desire, even when it’s not tied to physical touch or sex. From deep eye contact to the texture of a voice, to the intimacy of tattoos and the allure of piercings, they unpack the subtle, surprising ways our bodies respond to the world, and how it all ties back to intimacy, attraction, and self-awareness.

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Themes: Non-Sexual Turn-Ons, Sensory Triggers, Body Modifications, Sexuality & Self-Awareness

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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!

This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by certified fat loss coach and wellness educator Gbemi Giwa to talk about fitness, nutrition and how it all ties into our sex lives.

They chat about how what we eat can influence desire, why moving our bodies can boost confidence, and how that confidence can show up in the bedroom, sometimes in the form of better orgasms and much more 

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Themes: Sexual Wellness, Body Confidence, Fitness & Desire, Nutrition

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On this new episode of the Spit or Swallow Podcast, Hausa Chocolate sits down with the brilliant Dr. Onyii to break down the very necessary conversation around sexual health.

From regular checkups to STIs, contraceptives, pleasure, and myths we really need to unlearn. 

They get into what safe sex actually looks like, why shame should have no place in your sexual health journey, and how to advocate for yourself in the bedroom, and at the clinic.

Themes: Sexual Wellness, STI Awareness, Safe Sex, Pleasure + Protection

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 We didn’t mean to ghost you, but we’re back!

In this episode of the Spit or Swallow Podcast, Hausa Chocolate is joined by creator and artiste Sheila as they explore the deeper, spiritual side of sexual connection. From the merging of bodies to the merging of energies, and no, we don’t mean soul ties, they talk about how sex can be a tool for healing, awakening and transformation.

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Themes: Spiritual Sex, Emotional Intimacy, Energy Exchange

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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast!

Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal.

Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more.

Themes: Long Term Relationships, Infidelity, Madonna-Whore Complex

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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy.

Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "Sauce,", unpack the complexities of casual yet ever-present sexual encounters and so much more!

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Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Casual Sex

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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow!

On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the social challenges of non-conformity head-on and so much more!

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Themes: Gender Identity, Labels, Queer Existence 

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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth, the importance of safe and affirming spaces for all types of sexualities and much more.

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Themes: Mental Health, Therapy, Sexual Wellness

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What’s the difference between love and crack?

Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between desire and vulnerability. Does love make bad sex feel better than it actually is? They explore it all in a heartfelt conversation about love, relationships, and everything in between.

Themes: Love, Vulnerability, Relationships

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