Stacked Keys Podcast

In today's episode, we're joined by an extraordinary 11-year-old horse rider and pianist named Brantley Barrett. Brantley shares her remarkable journey of balancing her two passions: horse riding and piano playing, all while excelling in her homeschooling education.

We dive into Brantley's love for horse riding, particularly her experiences in barrel racing and pole bending. She eloquently explains the intricacies of pole bending and how she first got involved in horse riding and rodeo competitions through the guidance of family friends and local rodeo events.

Brantley opens up about the fears and challenges she faces while riding horses, emphasizing the importance of trust in her equine companions and the safety precautions she takes to ensure a positive riding experience.

We also get a glimpse into Brantley's typical day, which includes homeschooling sessions, horse riding practice, and cozy family movie nights where they enjoy discussing the themes and life lessons from their favorite movies like "The Lord of the Rings" series and "Star Wars."

As Brantley dreams of becoming a horse trainer in the future, she shares her insights on the virtues of mentorship, leadership, and the life lessons learned through her experiences with horses. She reflects on the delicate balance between logic and emotion, the importance of positive self-talk, and the empathy she feels towards her beloved horses. She encourages herself and sometimes she reminds herself that she's made in the image of God and she trys not to be self conscious. 

Brantley discusses the importance of time management as she juggles her various interests and responsibilities, highlighting the significance of making mindful choices about how to spend her time and the value of engaging in meaningful activities. You'll some insight on competiton and we talk about temper--it's humbling to hear her talk about self control.

The episode also explores Brantley's views on overcoming fear, building trust, and staying true to oneself in the face of challenges. She shares personal stories of perseverance and the satisfaction that comes from hard work and dedication. She talks about her relationship to God and her relationship with family makes her feel rich. 

Brantley's aspirations to become a horse trainer are deeply rooted in her respect for animals and her commitment to humane training methods. Her insights on leadership, mentorship, and maintaining a healthy self-image offer valuable lessons for listeners of all ages.

Join us as we delve into Brantley's inspiring journey filled with passion, determination, and a profound love for horses and music.

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Have you ever reached a crossroads, feeling the pull of your passions but shackled by the fear of the unknown? Kirsten Wild stands as an emblem of transformation, gracefully navigating the terrains of rock climbing and the philosophy of yoga. Her inspiring odyssey from a yogi to an entrepreneurial spirit embodies the essence of living a purpose-driven life. Kirsten’s candid revelations about overcoming personal challenges, including a partner’s addiction, illuminate the potent life lessons drawn from the eight limbs of yoga and the art of mindfulness.

Imagine harnessing the courage to follow your intuition, to leap into a nomadic lifestyle under the stars, and to start a business amidst the wilderness of the western United States. Through Kirsten's experiences, we uncover the intricacies of balancing heart and mind, fear and desire. Her narrative is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the wisdom in embracing our emotional nature. As she shares her unique approach to teaching yoga, focusing on personalized practices, we are reminded of the power of creating connections – with ourselves, our students, and the world around us.

This conversation isn't just about flexibility on the yoga mat; it's about the flexibility in our daily lives and the significance of self-forgiveness. Kirsten's personal routines and the harmony she strikes between rock climbing, yoga, and work serve as an ode to the beauty of adaptable living. Delving into her philosophy on finding the right yoga teacher and the accessibility of yoga, she offers a gentle nudge to take those small, transformative steps toward self-care. Join us for a heart-to-heart with Kirsten Wild that transcends mere conversation and becomes a guiding light on the path to personal growth.

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As we peel back the layers of educational leadership, Stephanie Emmons stands out as a beacon of dedication and insight. Her role as assistant superintendent in Scott County Schools, Kentucky, along with the unwavering support she provides for her team of 19 principals, is balance between professional rigor and deep-seated family values that she totally loves. Stephanie's narrative weaves through the complexities of overseeing 18 schools, each with their unique challenges, and sheds light on the delicate balance of autonomy and guidance she maintains. 

Venture with us through the transformative tales of schools risen from the ashes under Stephanie's watchful eye. Witness the metamorphosis of a once-struggling high school climbing its way to the top 50 in the state, a testament to the tenacity and strategic vision of its leaders. The stories shared reveal the critical nature of relationship-building, fostering positive cultures, and the thoughtful celebration of achievements in the realms of education. Stephanie's approach to leadership not only champions academic excellence but also cherishes the human element at the heart of educational success.

Amidst the backdrop of Stephanie's professional chronicles, we also explore the intricate dance of managing career aspirations alongside family time. She opens up about the competitive drive that fuels her resilience, addresses the stark realities of educational inequities, and recounts the adaptive leadership required during unprecedented challenges like the pandemic. Stephanie's journey is a poignant reminder of the power of support systems, the art of setting boundaries, and the profound impact that seizing growth opportunities can have on both personal and professional landscapes. Join us for this heartfelt reflection on gratitude and the pursuit of excellence in the ever-evolving world of educational leadership.

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Have you ever wondered what it takes to craft a truly unforgettable guest experience in the short-term rental market? Steph Weber, a maestro in branding and marketing, joins us to share her wisdom and journey from the fashion industry to revolutionizing destination real estate with The Weber Co and Hosted by the Webers. Together, we unpack the intricacies of leadership, discussing how a clear vision, mission, and values are paramount, and why embracing collaboration and feedback propels businesses forward.

Navigating the fine line between personal growth and the demands of entrepreneurship can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when family life joins the circus. I open up about parenting philosophies that encourage children's independence, while also wrestling with maintaining our own identities through life's seismic shifts. The episode provides a candid look at the art of juggling these roles, finding solidarity in the shared experiences of feeling lost, and celebrating the transformative power of change.

Relationships and personal growth are the heartbeats of our journey, and in this episode, we explore how they shape us. From the contrasting styles of hospitality across different regions to the profound importance of a supportive network during life's tumultuous rides, this conversation is a treasure trove of insights. Prepare to be moved by our stories of entrepreneurship, parenthood, and the occasional fear of success, all wrapped up with a heartfelt reflection on the power of gratitude. Join us for a conversation that's as enlightening as it is heartwarming, and don't forget to catch the Stacked Keys podcast for stories that resonate with the trials and triumphs of everyday life.

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Ever find solace in the pages of a compelling book or wrestled with emotions through a soulful writing session? That's what we discover and explore with our guest, Stephanie Affinito, a passionate educator, and self-proclaimed "bookologist" from upstate New York. She shares a deeply personal narrative about her relationship with books, and how they became a lifeline during her challenging teenage years. This episode is a testament to the transformative power of reading and writing, and Stephanie's unique heart rating system for books offers a fresh lens through which we can engage with literature.

As we journey through the world of books, we uncover their potential to heal, inspire, and serve as powerful tools for personal growth. We delve into the importance of diverse voices in literature and the impact of daily reading and writing on our emotional, social, and cognitive well-being. Stephanie, with her infectious zeal, opens a treasure trove of recommendations for books and journal prompts that can guide individuals through life's challenges. This episode will leave you with a renewed appreciation for literature and its role in our lives.

Amidst this bookish adventure, we don't shy away from the harsh realities educators face in our evolving educational landscape, especially in the post-COVID era. Stephanie lays bare the struggles and frustrations around literacy instruction in the digital age. But despair not, for we conclude on an optimistic note, shining a spotlight on resources and strategies to support struggling readers and foster a love for reading. So, buckle in and get ready for an enlightening journey that underscores the magic of reading and the profound importance of literacy.

You can find Stephanie on instagram @afffinitolit or her website alitlife.com

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Ever wonder what it's like to be a woman of color in a male-dominated field? Tune in to hear the empowering journey of our guest Monique Lee, an active duty JAG attorney for the United States Air Force. Monique is not just a lawyer but she is a mother, a wife, and a trailblazer who refused to let discrimination stand in her way. From changing her first name to dealing with bias against her natural hair, she never backed down. Instead, she used these experiences to foster diversity and create change in the workplace.

Monique's story doesn't end there. She offers a captivating insight into her personal life and how she strikes a balance between being a dedicated professional and an involved parent. Experience the joy of 'Family Fridays', her favorite family activity, and get a sneak peek into her son's budding interest in science. She also candidly discusses the struggles she faces with self-confidence and how her supportive partner helps her overcome them. This episode celebrates the triumphs and tackles the challenges of womanhood, motherhood, and selfhood.

But there's more. Monique also shares her experiences with race, identity, and personal growth. She offers invaluable wisdom on standing up against  bias, the fear of not being successful, and the importance of leaving a better world for future generations. Round off this thought-provoking journey with a discussion on Monique's inspiring online presence and her message of resilience in the face of adversity. So, are you ready to be enlightened, inspired, and challenged? If so, this episode is just for you!

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Ever wondered how faith could guide and provide strength through the challenging journey of parenting, homeschooling, or even adopting children? Dawn Baggett, a lawyer turned homeschooling mom and post-adoption coach, joins us to share her remarkable story of change, growth, and resilience, powered by her strong belief. Dawn opens up about her life transitions and how she navigated the complexities and challenges of her various roles.

Deep dive into the world of parenting and homeschooling as Dawn imparts valuable insights on striking a balance between roles and responsibilities, leaning on the power of prayer, and the importance of seeking guidance. Experience the raw emotions and the highs and lows of parenting a child with extreme behaviors. Dawn walks us through how trust in the Holy Spirit eased her journey and provided her with the wisdom to handle challenging situations with grace.

In the last part of our enlightening conversation, Dawn takes us through her journey as an adoptive mom. She speaks candidly about the trials and tribulations of raising money for adoption expenses and the dire need for proper resources for parents of children with extreme behaviors. Listen in as she narrates her struggle and ultimate victory over the fear of flying. Embark on this inspiring journey with us, and let Dawn's powerful story of faith, resilience, and growth guide you through your own life pathways.

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Have you ever wondered how it feels to face adversities head-on, overcome them and emerge stronger than ever? We've had the absolute pleasure to sit down with the remarkable Quan Buckhannon, a chemist whose journey is a testament to the power of self-motivation, courage and resolve. Quan walks us through how the untimely loss of her brother galvanized her resolve to value time, stay goal-focused and how it led her to develop an analytical skill set that eventually set her on the path to her current career in chemistry.

In the second part of our conversation, Quan shares her experiences in the male-dominated world of JiuJitsu. We explore the concept of fairness from various perspectives and discover how Kwan uses her passion for the sport as a source of motivation. Her unique approach of adopting a different attitude to stay committed to her gym routine, and her efforts to mentor others when she can, serve as a powerful reminder that with the right mindset, we can overcome any obstacle life throws at us.

As we wrap up our illuminating conversation, Quan takes us on a journey through her love for adventures, her travel stories, and her plans for road trips. We delve into her perspectives on self-trust, navigate the challenges of single life and career transitions, and emphasize the importance of self-knowledge and individual identity within relationships. We also explore the intriguing concept of invisibility, the joy of inward exploration, and the power of direct conversations. Quan's wisdom and experiences provide a wealth of insights for anyone in pursuit of personal and professional growth. Tune in to listen to this riveting conversation and get inspired to conquer your own life's challenges.

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Prepare to be inspired as we share the incredible journey of LaVerne Toombs. From her humble upbringing to her tenure as a political operative, grant writer, and fundraiser, LaVerne's story serves as a testament to the power of perseverance and hard work. She talks about her struggle with low self-esteem, how she transformed it into a powerful tool to advocate for women and children, and the role of her mother and mentors in shaping her resilient character.

Dive deep into LaVerne’s personal life as she discusses the challenges she faced in balancing her thriving career with her personal life. She reveals how her role as a public servant took a toll on her life, leading to two divorces, and how she learned to prioritize self-care. Her story of reinventing herself and adjusting to a slower-paced life underscores the importance of finding time for oneself and one's families, no matter the career path.

In an emotional climax, LaVerne sheds light on systemic racism and the divisive nature of politics. She stresses the importance of forgiveness and understanding our differences. Her proudest moments include meeting the first Black President of the United States. LaVerne envisions a world without color bias, sharing her inspiring trip to Montgomery, Selma, and Tennessee, and her dream to use a 24-hour superpower to create a more equitable society. This conversation will not just touch your heart but will also inspire you to think deeply about our society and the changes needed for a better tomorrow.

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Out of a love for stories and a dream to create a welcoming space for fellow bookworms, Diane Castro, the owner of Sweet Home Books, took the courageous leap to open her own bookstore, despite having no prior experience in the industry. Let her take you behind the scenes of her incredible journey, from taking an online course to learn the ropes of owning a bookstore, to the overwhelming support she received from her community. Dive into a world where historical fiction, fantasy, and escapist titles reign supreme and self-help books take a backseat to meaningful conversations and relationship building.

But what happens when the influx of customers becomes overwhelming, or when the store experiences slow days? Diane gives us an honest account of navigating these challenges, and the delicate art of finding balance in running her bookstore. She shares how intentional daily actions have helped her maintain that balance, and the lessons she's learned about scaling up or scaling back to avoid customer burnout. She also emphasises the crucial role of mentors and the importance of trust, not just in business, but in life.

Beyond her role as a bookstore owner, Diane Castro is also a mom to young adults. Hear her wisdom on parenting, where granting freedom, admitting mistakes, and being vulnerable play a major role in building strong relationships. She also shares her unique approach to empowering women, and how she navigates difficult political situations as an introverted people person. Join us in this heartwarming conversation and take a peek into the world of independent bookstores, the passionate communities that surround them, and the inspiring woman at the helm of it all.

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