Starter Marriage

Sarah & Grace are back to explain that on 11/11 we don’t make wishes we suffer trauma. It’s also our 4 year Friend – anniversary and the days our ex-husbands traumatized us. We walk you through how we handled the day each year and how this year we’re happy, healthy, and not traumatizing ourselves.

Sarah & Grace are back and talking all about how the boundaries they didn’t have in the marriages and the ones they have now. Additionally talking about how setting expectations and holding your person accountable are new and fun for them!

Sarah & Grace unpack the suitcase that is dealing with your timeline and it not being what you thought it was. Being jealous of someone else’s timeline, quick relationships, instant love, babies; and the fact that bad bartender was a dumpster fire of red flags and where dreams go to die.

Additionally all audio issues have been *fixed* and everyone is coming through loud and clear!

Made it guys - proving all our exes wrong that we can stick with something. Sarah & Grace talk about how your tribe develops and changes through all the seasons of divorce and after. Some stay, some go, some have nothing to give, and others are ride + die besties for life.

Sarah & Grace dive into the story of bad bartender who Sarah briefly dated and then had a failed relationship and break up with. Contains scenarios of gaslighting, emotional and mental abuse, and all the red flags on why you don’t date a bad bartender.

Sarah & Grace look back at their marriages and all of the brightly colored red flags they should have heeded prior to getting married.

Sarah & Grace dive into doing therapy before, during, and after your divorce. How to find the right therapist, what the wrong one feels like, and how the need for therapy changes as the divorce progresses. Additionally they touch on why some people don’t do therapy, and what the reasons are for avoiding it until much later in life.

Sarah & Grace chat about how to deal with jealousy post marriage and whether or not your feelings are valid against old social media.

Sarah & Grace walk you through the return to sex and how you get over the initial shock of sleeping with someone new. From there it’s a fun ride through the bad and the good and the funny moments in between.

Today Sarah & Grace walk you through how to position yourself on dating apps, especially when you’ve never been on them before. The times they were dumb enough to almost get kidnapped. Best bios, pick up lines, and how to create a hook. And why targeting abs and tattoos isn’t always the best criteria….