This last week of events has shown me that we need to dive in and speak on toxic mama's. This  issue has been suppressed in many communities. It is effecting the men we date via the way they were raised. It is effecting us as women via the way we treat our men. A toxic mother is just as bad as an absentee or abusive father. I know the bible says to honor thy mother and father. Some mother's make it hard to do that. Let us have CHUCH about it.

Once we have unplugged, we sit in the consequences then we set boundaries. Setting boundaries sounds a lot like being a bitch. It's not. It is to protect your inner bitch so he/she isn't summoned.

Last week I did a show about learning how to UNPLUG. That choice does not go without consequence. Every week I am answering ,"Dear Auntie" questions.  Each action in the universe has a reaction. You may actually lose that person totally or you enter a new space with someone new. When you unplug you have to be ready for the consequences. You have to be ready for the fact that the other person may not actually give a damn. If they don't care you need to be ready to move forward in what is best and healthy for YOU.

In recent times it has been very easy for people to adopt a cut off culture. As soon as a MF does something you don't like you cut them off. You don't take into consideration their mental health, Maslows heirarchy nor how they were raised. YES I will cut a person clean off. Only after they have done me filthy several times. You were asked many times not to do it. You were told it upsets me. You were given examples of a better way to communicate your issue. You FAILED to listen. The better thing to do for ME in my evoved healed state is to just UNPLUG. Let me explain the difference.

Here we are again! I have some amazing truth's to tell and share. This week we were hit with the whole Will and Jada "entanglement" situation. Personally I mind my Black owned business. Yet it was in my face so I responded for the culture. I'm noticing a lot of MEN are butt hurt. Which proves my point that a LOT of men lack the ability to put the shoe on the other foot. Welp your shoes now fit sir. Wear em. Jada did nothing more than act identical to men when caught out there. She is our toxic queen.

Cheers to making it to July! We will discuss my week and of course the August and Jada drama.We are in Mercury retrograde AGAIN. Most of us moon children are doing fine. We are NOT in our feelings. The rest of yall are having some watery emotions.Terrible endings usually are beautiful beginnings. If you function as your highest self, you would understand that YOUR energy is vital. If you walk away from a situation that was NOT sanctioned for you it will die. YOU are the only thing that was giving it life. If that situation is revived by the other person and you allow it, we call that a work in progress. We also can label that as retrograde. Love is a choice. Love is not a feeling. If I love you I have to choose you over other things. If you do not choose me, that is not love. It may have been. That is o.k. People have these extended relationships because they continue to choose to be in them. YOU are the power source. YOU are the plug. Once you realize that where you go your energy follows, you will understand why protecting and nurturing your energy is so important.

We manifest the MOST extravagant things. Are we really ready for them? We talk a lot about alignment. This means that we are in divine order to receive what we asked for. Some of you are asking for things you aren't in alignment or agreement with. A want is NOT a need. Once we get what we manifested, are we able to maintain it? The maintenance phase is the hardest to agree with and accept. We asked spirit for something divine. Even those whispers are heard. You lied and told spirit you were ready. Spirit knew you weren't. Sometimes they give you what you want to HUMBLE yo azz. This way you stay in your damn lane next time. It doesn't negate the KARMIC consequence of NOT staying in your lane. You took someone else's blessing and wasted it with your unprepared azz and nature. Go sit down.

It is beginning to be an ,"I said what I said" kind of month.

Rest well George Floyd. Praises be that the Eric Garner law gets passed. Last week was very heavy for me. My spirit was at war. It wanted all the smoke. So I left. Flew to Los Angeles to visit my niece. It was supposed to be a quick refresh but turned into a longer stay. Protests and riots swarmed the streets of Los Angeles. My business side was active the entire time.Soul was still unrested. Rage began to fill my veins. I was horrified to find out a protest was had near my parents house back home. My son watched in amazement. I watched in horror. I flew home the next day. Defied curfew, terrified, rested and ready for anything. The protest in my home town was peaceful. I wish we could slather that on my soul.

Tonight with all the planets sans Mercury in retrograde NOW there is a Cancerian moon. People are in ALL the feels, I can share what my feels were for this week. They definately had me concerned,confused and lifted,