Step Wise

"It's not going to happen to my niece." That sentence, Sarabeth Rees says, is the most dangerous one we tell ourselves. It feels true, it feels protective, and it is almost always wrong.

Sarabeth is the Executive Director of Everstrong (formerly Stolen Youth), a Seattle nonprofit working to prevent the sexual exploitation and trafficking of children through education, empowerment, and advocacy. Before stepping into this role, she spent more than 20 years in corporate strategy and change management, most recently as a Senior Director at PwC advising Fortune 500 leaders around the world. She's served on the board of the Joyful Heart Foundation and previously chaired the board of Haven.

In this episode, Foster and Sarabeth talk about:

• Why the comfortable assumption that "it doesn't happen here" is the exact narrative that keeps trafficking invisible, regardless of zip code, income, or education
• Why Everstrong is moving away from fear-based messaging and the word "trafficking" itself, in favor of "exploitation," a word more people recognize from their own lives
• A real story about an eight-year-old, a video game chat feature, and the calm, non-punitive conversation that made him feel safe enough to speak up
• Why grooming doesn't discriminate, and what it actually looks like in the ordinary, everyday places kids spend time online
• What made Sarabeth walk away from a high-powered corporate path to take what she calls her dream job, and what it means to actually live the values you claim to hold
• The nonprofit funding myth that drives Sarabeth up a wall (hint: it involves the phrase "eat the scenery") and why underpaying mission-driven people is bad strategy, not virtue
• A leadership parallel Foster pulls from the conversation about power and silence, and why the same dynamic that silences trafficking victims shows up in boardrooms too

Learn more about Sarabeth's work, download free conversation guides for parents and educators, or get involved at everstrong.org.

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Margaret Aitken spent a decade as press secretary to Senator Joe Biden, and what she watched up close wasn't political strategy. It was the quiet, specific way one person could make a room full of strangers feel genuinely heard. She took that education and built a career helping leaders do the same thing, mostly for companies navigating the kind of uncertainty where people stop talking and start making up their own stories.

That last part matters. One of the sharpest things Margaret says in this conversation is that silence from leadership isn't neutral. Human beings are wired to fill the blank. And nine times out of ten, what they fill it with is worse than the truth.

Her first week working for Biden, she wrote a press release with the phrase "a cadre of concerned citizens." She was proud of it. He crossed it out and wrote "group of people." That lesson that connection isn't about clever words, it's about reaching someone's heart where they actually are, has shaped everything she's done since.

Foster and Margaret get into:

• Why leaders who go quiet during uncertainty make things worse, not safer
• What empathy actually is as a skill: the ability to make someone feel seen and heard, not a personality trait you either have or don't
• How a single word can uplift a room or quietly pull it apart
• What multi-generational teams actually need to hear from their leaders right now
• Why authenticity in leadership writing isn't a style choice, it's the only thing that lands
• The narrative leaders tell their teams, and why that story shapes performance more than most people realize

Margaret also writes a Substack worth following. She's unvarnished in it, which is exactly why it resonates.

Learn more about Margaret here: https://www.margaretaitken.co/

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Seven NCAA championships. An Olympic silver medal. A breast cancer diagnosis. A torn Achilles. Between them, Valorie Kondos Field and Sam Peszek have racked up more defining moments than most people face in a lifetime. What they've learned from all of it isn't what you'd expect.

In this conversation, Foster Mobley sits down with legendary UCLA gymnastics coach Miss Val and Olympic medalist-turned-entrepreneur and NBC broadcaster Sam Peszek for a frank, funny, and genuinely moving discussion about what leadership actually requires. Not the version you read about in business books. The real thing.

They cover a lot of ground: why "walk with them" changed how Sam leads, what happens when a safe space becomes an excuse to stop growing, how Val's battle with breast cancer reframed her entire relationship with choice, and why the most effective thing a leader can do is ask better questions instead of giving better answers.

There's also a story Sam tells near the end of the episode. About a young gymnast who stayed quiet through an entire session and then said something that stopped everyone cold. It's worth the whole conversation.

Topics include leadership development, generational differences in the workplace, building team trust, coaching philosophy, resilience, reverse mentoring, identity after sport, and what it means to lead from a place of purpose rather than fear.

Valorie Kondos Field is a Hall of Fame coach, 7x NCAA gymnastics champion, TEDx speaker, and author of "Life Is Short, Don't Wait to Dance." She coached UCLA gymnastics for 29 years without ever having competed as a gymnast herself.

Sam Peszek is an Olympic silver medalist, 3x NCAA champion, NBC Olympics commentator, and founder of Beam Queen, a confidence-focused gymnastics training program.

Foster Mobley is a leadership advisor, executive coach, and host of Step Wise. His book "Leadersh!t: Rethinking the True Path to Great Leading" is available at fostermobley.com.

Links: Foster's website: fostermobley.com Follow Miss Val: @officialmissval Follow Sam Peszek: @samanthapeszek Beam Queen: beamqueengymnastics.com

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Something is different about Season 3.

Step Wise has always been about the kind of wisdom that doesn't make the highlight reel. The decisions made at 2am. The moment a coach says the thing nobody else will say. The quiet conversation that changes everything.

This season, we're going wider and deeper. The guests coming to Season 3 aren't all from the same boardroom. A coach who built seven national championships by teaching young women to become humans first. An Olympic gymnast figuring out who she is when the sport is over. Executives, emerging leaders, athletes, coaches — people whose wisdom has been earned in completely different rooms, all pointing at the same thing.

Everyday wisdom doesn't belong to any one generation. It gets passed between them.

Season 3 of Step Wise drops June 3rd. Subscribe now so you don't miss the first episode.

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In this reflective season finale of Step Wise, the mic turns toward our host, Dr. Foster Mobley. Interviewed by Jana Devan, Foster explores what it means to lead with empathy, presence, and wisdom in a world defined by speed and complexity. Together, they unpack the non-negotiables of modern leadership and the best leadership advice, self-awareness, emotional grounding, and authentic connection, and how honoring yourself, others, and your organization can transform results.

From reverse mentorship and inter-generational leadership to the discipline of slowing your soul down, Foster offers practical tools and stories that help leaders navigate turbulence with clarity and compassion.

Whether you’re a seasoned executive or a rising leader, this episode challenges you to ask the deeper questions: What do I value? How do I listen? And how can I lead from wisdom rather than fear?

Key themes: empathy in leadership, mindfulness, honoring relationships, self-awareness, reverse mentorship, multi-generational teams, authentic connection, the role of wisdom in modern leadership.

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What does it take to lead with wisdom in a world that never stops changing? In this episode of Step Wise, Dr. Foster Mobley sits down with Dr. Matt Brubaker, Chairman and CEO of FMG Leading, a premier human-capital firm transforming the healthcare industry through leadership.

Together, they explore how modern leaders can stay grounded in their humanity while driving performance in complex, investor-backed environments. Dr. Brubaker shares lessons from his early years in ministry, the burnout that shaped his philosophy of “amplifying light” instead of darkness, and how transparency, humility, and focus have become his greatest tools for guiding both people and organizations through change.

The conversation touches on:

• Finding spiritual and personal balance as a leader
• Holding humanity and high performance in tension
• Guiding teams through burnout and transformation
• What makes a successful founder-to-CEO transition
• How to build leadership structures that evolve with your organization

If you’re leading a team, coaching others, or redefining what leadership means in your world, this episode will leave you with practical insight and grounded inspiration for your own journey.

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Conflict isn’t something to avoid—it’s something to understand. In this episode of Step Wise, Dr. Foster Mobley sits down with Mark Eckhardt, co-founder and CEO of Common and founder of 1 Million Truths, to explore what it means to lead in a time when every system around us is changing.

Mark shares how neuroscience and conflict science reveal the hidden pressures leaders face today, why self-awareness and presence are essential, and how his work has helped reduce polarization—even during the 2024 U.S. presidential election. Together, they discuss practical tools leaders can use to navigate complexity, the inner work required to show up fully, and the importance of moving adjacent to conflict rather than tackling it head on.

This conversation offers a rare window into the mindset of a global conflict mediator, Buddhist priest, and entrepreneur who has mentored over 1,700 leaders worldwide.

🎧 Tune in to learn why emotional regulation, reflection, and connectedness may be the most important skills a leader can develop today.

To learn more about Mark, visit these links: 

• https://common.is/
• https://www.onemilliontruths.com/
• linkedin.com/in/mark-hamilton-eckhardt-98a770
• linkedin.com/company/one-million-truths-llc/

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Jim Fielding has spent more than three decades leading some of the world’s most iconic brands—Disney, DreamWorks, and 20th Century Fox. Today, he’s an author, speaker, coach, and host of the Jim Fielding & Friends podcast.

In this conversation with Dr. Foster Mobley, Jim reflects on his journey from corporate executive to solopreneur, sharing the wisdom he’s gained along the way. Together, they explore themes from Jim’s book, All Pride, No Ego: A Queer Executive’s Journey to Living and Leading Authentically, and discuss what leadership requires in these unpredictable times.

From “controlling the controllables” to leaving space for the possible, Jim offers a fresh perspective on the skills leaders need now: clarity, courage, compassion, and above all—humanity.

If you’re navigating change, balancing authenticity with resilience, or wondering what it takes to lead in today’s complex world, this episode is for you.

Purchase Jim Fielding's book here: https://www.amazon.com/Moments-Truth-Lessons-Leading-Authentically/dp/1394165285

Or, listen to his podcast: https://www.hijimfielding.com/jim-fielding-friends-podcast

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In this Step Wise conversation, Dr. Foster Mobley sits down with Roberta Tinch, President at Inova Mount Vernon Hospital and healthcare leader in the Inova Health System. Roberta shares how presence, reflection, and intentional pacing shape her leadership—and why balancing relational connection with rigorous accountability is critical in today’s environment.

Listeners will hear Roberta’s perspective on:

• Why moving too fast isn’t the same as leading well
• How blocking time for reflection changes organizational outcomes
• The role of informal leaders in signaling change before it’s obvious
• Balancing organizational needs with the real lives of employees
• Modeling behavior so culture cascades through a team

Roberta’s journey—from growing up surrounded by healthcare to becoming a hospital president—offers lessons for leaders in any field: you don’t have to sacrifice people to drive performance.

Tune in and discover how Roberta Tinch is redefining leadership with presence, accountability, and heart.

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Can love be a leadership strategy? Dr. Julie Kennedy Oehlert thinks so, and she’s got the experience to prove it.

In this soul-stirring episode of Step Wise, Julie joins Dr. Foster Mobley to explore what it really takes to lead with courage, empathy, and purpose in a system as complex and high-stakes as healthcare. Drawing on her background as an ER nurse, healthcare executive, brand officer, and author, Julie shares the human-centered practices that are reshaping workplace culture, from psychological safety to reverse mentoring and stakeholder engagement.

Together, they dig into:
 – The “new covenant” between leaders and teams
 – Why disruption must be rooted in care, not control
 – How love, listening, and lived values drive high performance
 – Practical ideas for integrating purpose into daily leadership
 – Why experience design matters (yes, even in hospitals)

Julie’s message is clear: When we honor humanity, innovation follows. This is a must-listen for leaders across every industry who want to make meaningful change without losing their heart in the process.

🩺 Learn more about Julie’s book System Innovations: A Holistic Approach to Disrupting with Love and Human Caring, and connect with her on LinkedIn.

https://www.amazon.com/System-Innovation-Holistic-Approach-Disrupting/dp/179358477X

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Music for Season 3 composed and performed by Philip Aaberg. Courtesy of Sweetgrass Music.