Stethoscopes and Strollers

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging the notion of 'maternal instinct.' I dive into:

• Why most of what we consider 'instinct' is actually learned behavior
• How socialization shapes our parenting skills
• The pressure this myth puts on both moms and dads
• Why recognizing this can lead to more compassionate parenting

Key takeaways:

1. True instincts are about survival, not diaper changes
2. Most parenting skills are learned, not innate
3. Recognizing this can relieve pressure and guilt
4. We need to educate all genders equally about childcare

Remember, doc, not feeling an instant connection or knowing everything doesn't make you a bad parent. Let's reframe our expectations and give ourselves (and our partners) some grace!

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm diving into the concept of "flow" and why it's crucial for Physician moms. I share:

• What being in flow means and how it applies to medicine
• My personal experience of being in flow during a busy day
• Why support is essential for achieving and maintaining flow
• How lack of support can stifle creativity and productivity

Key takeaways:

1. Flow isn't just for artists - it applies to medicine too
2. Support is crucial for entering and maintaining a flow state
3. Lack of time and energy can prevent us from accessing our creativity
4. Getting help isn't just about childcare - it's about unleashing your potential

Remember, doc, you deserve the time and space to tap into your flow state. Let's explore how to make that happen!

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm chatting with Dr. Ritha Belizaire, a colorectal surgeon and mom of two. We dive deep into:

• Her journey from traditional motherhood expectations to reality as a Physician mom
• The challenges and triumphs of her au pair experience
• How she built a robust support system as a single parent
• Her transition from employed medicine to owning her practice
• The importance of self-forgiveness and letting go of the “do it all" ideals

Key takeaways:

1. It's okay (and necessary) to get help - there's no glory in suffering
2. Building a support system takes intentional effort but is worth it
3. Your mental health has monetary value - prioritize it
4. Entrepreneurship in medicine requires building both a personal and professional team

Remember, doc, you don't have to do it all alone. Let's embrace support and redefine success on our own terms!

Dr. Ritha Belizaire is a colorectal surgeon in Houston, Texas, entrepreneur and the proud single mother by choice of two young girls. She owns Houston Community Surgical and is passionate about empowering women in medicine.

For more information about Dr. Ritha, you can visit her website and connect with her on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn.

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging the stereotypical image of who has household staff. I dive into:

• Why Physician moms deserve and need household help
• How outsourcing can be an investment in your wellbeing
• Affordable options for getting support
• A real-life example of how having help can reduce stress

Key takeaways:

1. Having household help doesn't make you elitist - it's about survival
2. There are affordable options for outsourcing tasks
3. The return on investment is often peace of mind, not just financial
4. You deserve to feel supported during this chaotic time of life

Remember, doc, it's okay to get the help you need. Let's reframe our image of who deserves support!

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm diving into the importance of proper onboarding, whether it's for a nanny, au pair, or virtual assistant. I share:

• Why thorough onboarding is crucial for long-term success
• My personal experience onboarding a new virtual assistant
• The temptation to do things yourself vs. teaching others
• How investing time now leads to more freedom later

Key takeaways:

1. Comprehensive onboarding leads to better outcomes
2. Short-term effort yields long-term benefits
3. Proper delegation means truly letting go of tasks
4. Being a good teacher is part of being a good leader

Remember, doc, investing time in training now will free up your mental space later. Let's build our support systems the right way!

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging you to rethink self-care. I dive into:

• Why medical care is a crucial form of self-care
• The importance of regular check-ups and addressing health concerns
• How to overcome guilt and prioritize your own health
• Why canceling patients for your own care is necessary and okay

Key takeaways:

1. You have one body - take care of it
2. Your health is just as important as your patients'
3. It's okay to reschedule patients for your own care
4. Regular check-ups are crucial, even for Physicians

Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup - this goes to your health as well!

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Hey doc! In this episode, I'm sharing a personal story about a bedtime incident with my son. It's a simple tale, but it packs a powerful message about:

• The importance of teaching kids to communicate effectively
• How we can empower our children to use their words
• The difference between responding to a baby's cries and a older child's needs

Key takeaways:

1. Encourage kids to use words instead of crying to express needs
2. Empower children by reminding them of their ability to communicate
3. Teach problem-solving skills from an early age
4. The power of getting down to a child's level when teaching a lesson

Remember, our kids are always learning from us. Let's teach them to use their words and their power!

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Hey doc! Let’s talk about the "Supermom" trap, and my personal story about a time I refused help, even when it was readily available. In this episode, I share:

• Why refusing help can actually slow us down
• How the "Supermom" identity might be holding you back
• The freedom that comes with accepting help

Some big takeaways:

1. There's no prize for doing everything alone
2. Accepting help doesn't make you less of a rock star
3. Letting go of "Supermom" can actually make you more efficient
4. It's okay to prioritize your safety and sanity

We'll unpack the pressure to do it all, the fleeting satisfaction of that Supermom title, and the importance of releasing the need to carry everything ourselves. Let's ditch the cape and embrace being human!

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I am thrilled to have the amazing Dr. Nneka Unachukwu, or Dr. Una as many know her, as my guest on this brand-new episode of ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨! As the visionary founder of EntreMD and a dedicated mother of four, Dr. Una brings a wealth of insight and inspiration.

In this episode, we dive into:

• Dr. Una's journey through high-risk pregnancy and early motherhood
• The importance of creating and leaning on your support system
• Balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood
• Challenging societal expectations of "perfect" motherhood
• The value of self-care and delegation in parenting
• Unconventional parenting choices and the "Legacy Project"
• Advice for new Physician moms in the trenches of early motherhood

Don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with a fellow Physician mom who needs to hear this message!

For more information about Dr. Una, you can visit her website and connect with her on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn. 

Also, subscribe and listen to The EntreMD Podcast

Questions or comments? Email [email protected], I'd love to hear from you!

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Hey doc, in this episode I'm challenging the idea of "experts" in motherhood. I dive into:

• Why everyone seems to be an "expert" when it comes to motherhood
• How to approach advice, including mine, as inspiration rather than absolute truth
• The real purpose behind bringing guests onto the podcast
• What to expect from upcoming interview episodes

Key takeaways:

1. You're the expert in your own unique situation
2. Use advice as a springboard for new ideas, not as strict rules
3. Our guests are here to help you feel seen and less alone
4. Longer interview episodes are coming - and they're worth the listen!

Remember, this podcast is about expanding your perspective and finding inspiration, not telling you what to do. You've got this, doc!

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Free Coaching Session with Dr. Toya