Why do we notice the one time our spouse doesn’t do something faster than the hundred times they did?
The breakfast, morning kiss, daily text, prayer, household task, or simple act of care that once meant so much can gradually become familiar. Appreciation becomes expectation, and we may stop recognizing the love behind what our spouse faithfully does.
In Episode 109 of Stronger Together, Closer to God, Vernon shares a personal experience involving his wife’s Sunday breakfast tradition—and how he learned that he was seeing breakfast while she was expressing love, service, sacrifice, and family legacy.
Grounded in Colossians 3:15–17, this episode explores how Christ’s peace changes the posture of our hearts so gratitude can help us notice and express the appreciation familiarity has taught us to overlook.
You’ll also receive practical tools for encouraging your spouse, recognizing how they communicate love, examining your tone through the “Jesus-name check,” and completing a seven-day gratitude challenge.
Relationship Reflection: What does your spouse do so regularly that you’ve stopped seeing the love behind it?
Gratitude does not require overlooking mistreatment, harmful behavior, or necessary boundaries. It invites us to recognize and express appreciation for the genuine love, sacrifice, and service we may have begun taking for granted.
Primary Scripture: Colossians 3:15–17
Supporting Scriptures: John 14:27; Philippians 1:3–5; 1 Thessalonians 5:11, 16–18
Let Christ’s peace rule your heart so gratitude can reopen your eyes to the person you’ve grown accustomed to loving.
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