Greetings!, in this episode we use “quibble” in the loosest of terms Lol depending on how big of a deal the issue of celibacy is to you. That said, Josh Thee Artist is back and he is with Mr X. The two are on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to celibacy and they share with us their very strong opinions, feelings, beliefs, conceptions/misconceptions and weird theories plus we have the loudest laughs yet on the indaba. Though our guests are at an impasse, please have a good listen, enjoy the stale and yet not so stale humor and do well to rate, review and share our podcast. Get interactive with us on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/s_and_ts_indaba/ we look forward to hearing from you. #Doinglife #S&Tsindaba #Malechastity #Celibacy #Conversationsaboutsex #Unfiltered #Relationships #Zambianpodcast #Rawconversations #Indaba #Zambiakuchalo

In this week’s episode we sat down with Joshua Sakala alias Josh Thee Artist. Joshua is a Christian fun spirit with a positive aura and a graduate of the Rhema Bible Training Centre Zambia. He brings his rawness, knowledge and humor to the dialogue and also shares his personal experiences dealing with rebellion. Please have a good listen and relate if you’re a perpetual rebel like us Lol. (Thank God for amazing grace🙌🏽 hallelujah!). Do well to rate, review and share our podcast and get interactive with us via Instagram @s_and_ts indaba. #Indaba #Zambianpodcast #Rebellion #Religionandpeople #Indoctrinationvsconviction #Doinglife #religiousdialogue

In this week’s episode we talk about Flags as a character trait to look out for in romantic relationships and friendships. These are red, green and something we’ve decided to call orange flags Lol. Red flags are generally regarded as warning traits to look out for in individuals, green flags are proceed signs while “orange flags” are mixed signals. It is cardinal that we not only look out for these flags in other people but also in ourselves too. Please have a good listen and enjoy the stale humor. Do well to rate, review and share our podcast and get interactive with us via Instagram @s_and_ts indaba. #indaba #Zambianpodcast ##Flags #Redflags #Greenflags #Orangeflags #Doinglife

Ideally, allowances are paid after a service is provided. However, in popular Zambian culture particularly in the Lusaka dating pool, girlfriend allowances have become a trend. While some couples conform to paying girlfriend allowance, others have opted not to. To give girlfriend allowance or not is an individual choice. If a couple decides the former, arrangements about the amount and at what intervals this money is given are solely up to them. In this week’s episode, we sat down with Luchenga Nyimbiri, founder and CEO of 365 Fashions and talked about this common trend. Have a good listen and enjoy the stale humor. Please do well to rate, review and share our podcast. You can also get interactive with us on Instagram @s_and_ts indaba, we look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for listening in and look out for next week’s episode. #Conversations #Doinglife #Zambianpodcast #Girl&boyfriends #Indaba #Allowances

Greetings!, in this week’s episode we talk about Expectations; the spoken and unspoken. Our generous sponsor joined the conversation and gave us her perspective on societal, family, marital and friendship expectations. Throughout our chat, she stresses the importance of communicating your expectations to avoid disappointment and cautions about the need to have realistic expectations. Have a good listen and enjoy the occasional stale humor. Please do well to rate, review and share our podcast. Get interactive with us on Instagram @s_and_ts indaba, we look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for listening and look out for next week’s episode. #Podcast #Indaba #S&Tsindaba #Zambiakuchalo #Conversations #Expectations #Doinglife

To show the utmost decorum in any setting is a reflection of good manners and an indication that one is a proper lady or gentleman. Sentiments like; Please, Thank you, Excuse me and You are welcome are the basics of etiquette that we should deliberately make use of everyday. In this episode, we feature the refined Thomas Banda and his beautiful poised wife Chimwemwe, a newlywed Christian couple who share their insight on proper etiquette and mannerisms in different spaces. Have a good listen, relate where you can and enjoy the stale humor. Please do well to rate, review and share our podcast. Get interactive with us on Instagram @s_and_ts indaba, we look forward to hearing from you. -For the gents only Lol, the book recommendation from Thomas is ‘Model Man: From Integrity to Legacy’ by Larry Stockstill and it is available on Amazon, Audible, Goodreads++++ please make time to read it. Other than that, hope you enjoy this episode and look out for the next one.🎙🎧 #Zambianpodcast #Etiquette #Properladiesandgents #Indaba #Conversations #Africanpodcast #jollypair #Doinglife

Every year there is a commemoration of World Suicide Prevention Day on September 10th and so September is generally considered as Suicide Awareness month. The Indaba convened in this episode with Princess Coach, Barbara Nsokolo who is a trained pastor, social worker and mental health advocate, we saw it fit to have a sit down with her because of the work she does in her space, plus the sensitive nature of this topic required that it be tabled with an expert. Ensure to “Create Hope Through Action” please remember and remind others too that there is help and there is hope. For counseling or in the event of an emergency, contact the Suicide toll free helpline -933 for adults and -116 for children. Do well to follow our page and get interactive on Instagram at s_and_ts indaba to keep the conversation going. You lot have a good listen and may you resolve to be a safe space just we have. #Untietheknot #Mentalhealth #Suicideprevention #Creatinghopethrougaction #Indaba #Zambianpodcast #Doinglife

The fast pace our world moves at makes it sometimes difficult for us to conduct self inventories to check and see that what we ordered, what we want, what we desire, what we wish and hope for is what we’re served. More often than not, we find ourselves in situations where we had to be OK with what is served even though it’s not what we ordered, we settle. We settle because that’s what is expected of us, because the clock is ticking, because we shouldn’t be too picky, because it feels secure and many other reasons. We settle for careers, partners, jobs and even church community. In this episode, we discuss settling in the aforementioned spheres of life. Have a good listen, enjoy the toned down stale humor Lol and do well to rate, review and share our podcast. Get interactive with us on Instagram at s_and_ts indaba, we look forward to hearing from you. #Indaba #Zambianpodcast #S&T’sinadaba #Doinglife #Conversations #Settling #Knowyourworth

Hello, welcome to it. Apologies for the late publication, we encountered a hurdle trying to get this episode on here but then yeah, here we are. Please have a good listen and do well to rate, review and share the episode. This is a story time of sorts about our experiences at the University of Zambia (UNZA) following the completion of our undergraduate studies from the schools of Law and Education respectively. Enjoy the stale humor, reminisce if you were there around the same time as us and do get interactive via Instagram at s_and_ts indaba. #Varsity #Storytime #Zambianpodcast #Classof2021 #Indaba #Doinglife

God forbid you and I ever get cheated on and God forbid we ever cheat on anyone, yeah? **cough **cough Lol. Hello, so in this week’s episode we sat down with our mogul of the week, Masompe The Great and had a conversation about cheating. He turned our duo into a trio and had us cracking with his not so orthodox opinions about the subject. Have a good listen, enjoy the stale humor and do well to rate, review and share our podcast. Get interactive with us on Instagram at s_and_ts indaba, we look forward to hearing from you. #Doinglife #Indaba #Zambianpodcast #S&TsIndaba #Relationships #Conversations