Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle!

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  • 47. The Breakup Toolkit!

    Have you just gone through a breakup, or do you feel like you can't get over a past relationship? If so, we are here to help!

    In this episode, we go through the 4 step process to go through a breakup: Feel, Celebrate, Reflect, and Plan.  In addition, we discuss the signs that let you know you missed a step and signs that you are hanging in one of the steps for too long!

    To learn more about our flagship program that is mentioned in this episode, go to www.successfulsinglefemale.com/programs or click here.

    For our Inner Work mini program, go tohttps://www.successfulsinglefemale.com/offers/YZvnvfHJ or click here

    Jenn & Amy

    Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle

    1 hr 3 min
  • 46. Top 5 Reasons Virtual Dating Works (And 5 Obstacles With Solutions)

    In our instagram stories, we asked whether you though you could find love during the time of virtual dating, and a whopping 74% of you said NO!

    So, we hopped on here to tell you why that is not true!

    We go through 5 reasons Virtual Dating is AWESOME, and 5 pitfalls to look out for (and solutions to those pitfalls) when virtual dating.

    So many goodies in this episode!  

    Enjoy!

    Jenn & Amy

    Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle


    50 min
  • 45. Are Your Date One Nerves Preventing Date Two?

    Nice jacket; Wanna F&%$?

    In this episode we look at S1, E2 of Netflix's Reality Show: Dating Around which features Lex.

    We discuss topics like:

    • Assessing whether your first date nerves are reflecting who you really are or getting in your way,
    • the importance of being self reflective during the dating process,
    • picking up on micro and macro expressions on the first date,
    • the awkwardness of being serenaded,
    • sequin bomber jackets,
    • and our favorite super villains,
    • And much more!  
    • Even Bebe C weighs in! 

      Check it out and let us know what you think!

      Jenn and Amy

      Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle

      1 hr 3 min
    • 44. What is Your First Date Flirting Style? (Dating Around Review- Luke)

      In this episode, we review Season 1, Episode 1 of the Netflix reality show, Dating Around.  We discuss the premise of the show, and we take a close look at the first date flirting style of the women on the show.  We get to see, first hand, how nervous we all get on date one (not to mention when there are cameras following you around!), and how we act when we are trying to connect with or attract someone else.  

      From guarded, to ironic, to no filter flirt, to abrasiveness, we have got it all here!  So much so, that at the start of the episode, we say we are going to review Luke and Lex's episode, but we run out of time!

      Enjoy our deconstruction of flirting styles, and see if you can see yourself in anyone here!

      Jenn and Amy

      Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle

      1 hr 13 min
    • 43. Wear Your YOU Proudly-Boobs, Hips, Religion and All! (Yael Rosenstock Gonzalez and The Nanny)

      In this episode I (Amy) interview Yael Rosenstock Gonzales, a sex educator researcher coach and author founder of  Kaleidoscope Vibrations, a company dedicated to supporting people in finding confidence in their identities through which they can find community and build representation. In this episode we discuss 

      • How we form our identities when we are younger 
      • How we are forced into identities and how the static nature of identities are for other's convenience 
      • How those perceptions influence us later in life What we are told femininity should look or feel like, and what happens when we do not look or feel that way 
      • How two separate people can perceive the same experience differently 
      • Yael and I discuss these intense topics, that  influence how we see ourselves  and therefore influence how we present ourselves in the world and who we attract into our lives. And we address these topics by discussing the 1990's sitcom, The Nanny, and how we each received messages about what it means to be a sexy Jewish woman in very different ways because of our upbringings, our influences and our genetics.  

        Tune in for this very raw and real conversation and let the self reflection begin! 

        If you would like to connect with Yael, you can follow her on Instagram @yaelthesexgeek or find her goodies on her link tree at linktr.ee/yaelthesexgeek 

        Enjoy! 

        Jenn & Amy  

        Successful, Single & Not Willing to Settle

        49 min
      • 42. What Kind of Energy Are You Bringing to a Date?
        In this episode, I chat with Veronika Winski, who works with corporate women to help them recondition unhealthy mindsets and behavior patterns and step into their dream lives.
        In our conversation we discuss how scary it can be to leave what is comfortable and move towards what we deep inside know we need- and that this is true in our careers and in our relationships.
        We also discuss how, if we do not feel like we fit into the "norm" (aka what is expected of us as women) we sometimes bring a combative energy with us, because we are expecting to be rejected because we don't fit the right mold.
        Check out our full conversation here, and let us know what you think!
        If you would like to connect with Veronika, you can find her here:
        Free Reinvention guide
        https://www.thedreamlifeformula.com/reinvention-guide
        Website: www.TheDreamLifeFormula.com
        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDreamLifeFormula
        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedreamlifeformula.com/
        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/veronikawinski/
        Enjoy!
        Jenn & Amy
        Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle
        44 min
      • 41. Why Men & Money Cannot Complete Us. (An Interview with Amber Renae)
        In this episode Amber Renae and I speak all things self-love. 
        Amber is a civil engineer, acclaimed fashion stylist and leading e-learning specialist from Australia. With three six-figure businesses under her belt, she has defied all the odds and challenges thrown her way to crack the entrepreneurial code and design her own dream life. 
        Amber is a huge advocate for self-love. Life isn’t about waiting for ‘the one’ to swoop in. It’s about realising that we are born complete and that the feeling of completeness people try to find in others really comes from within. Relationships can trick you into throwing your power away and to define your happiness according to another person, but Amber decided to take her power back. She got down on one knee, bought herself a beautiful ring and made a commitment to herself. That commitment was to put herself first, put her happiness first and achieve complete self-love and self-acceptance. 
        Since her self-proposal in 2016, Amber has made it her mission to help empower people all over the world to take control of their lives, careers and mindsets. She’s done this through several hugely successful e-courses, and most recently was chosen as the leading expert to create an online education program for a new reality series. Dream Life Los Angeles which premiered on the FYI Network last Sunday. The show follows Amber and her team members as they build this program and see what it’s like to date in Hollywood. Now Amber is taking all her experience in love, life and career, and everything she’s experienced between home and Hollywood, and writing the ultimate book to help people create their own ‘dream life’. 
        Completeness starts from within, and Amber is empowering everyone to take that energy back and channel it into designing their own happiness by putting themselves first. It all starts with self-love and self-acceptance.
        In this episode we chat about so many things!  The biggest takeaways are:
        How she recovered from a history of toxic relationships and self hate
        How important it is to follow your heart, even if no one else seems to understand it
        Why it is important to be clear regarding what you want from a partner
        How to notice and push through what's blocking you from happiness
        How to face and overcome the fear that men are intimidated by success
        If you are interested in what Amber has to offer, check out her e-courses here.
        Enjoy!
        Jenn & Amy 
        Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle
        58 min
      • 40. When to Kick Your Shoes off And Run! (Final Review of Indian Matchmaking)
        In our final review of the Netflix sensation, Indian Matchmaking, returning guest, Poornima and I (Amy) discuss: 
        When it’s the right time to reveal secrets of your past, 
        How we can be seduced by expectations to move forward in a situation that is not working, 
        Can you build your biz, be independent, and find a partner? 
        Enjoy!!
        Jenn and Amy
        Successful, Single,& Not Willing to Settle
        1 hr 27 min
      • 39. Do you need to increase your feminine energy?
        Our short answer is...NO!
        We deconstruct the impact being told that you need to "increase your feminine energy" has on your psyche, your dating results, and the men you are dating. 
        And our conclusion is that it is not about increasing your feminine energy, it's about your authentic energy.  And just because you know who you are, that doesn't mean you know how to be who you are on a date or in a relationship!
        We discuss the work we did and the work we do with our clients to help them dig through some of their unhelpful stories to embrace who they are when they are dating! 
        And we are offering you a program that helps you do this for a limited amount of time for only $37!
        If you are ready to no longer allow your past pain to get in the way of your next relationship, and  if you are ready to get in touch with how awesome you are and what you deserve click here for our program while it is still available!
        Jenn & Amy
        Successful, Single, & Willing to Settle
        54 min
      • 38. Don’t change who you are to attract a man. (Review of Indian Matchmaking Episodes 5-6)
        In this review, returning guest, Poornima and I (Amy) discuss the difference between matchmaking and an online algorithm (if there is a difference), the definition of Monster-in-law, and the toxicity of generations of women telling other women that they have to change and be flexible because their future husband’s lives will be more important than theirs. Oh yeah, I get pretty heated in this one. You don’t want to miss it!
        1 hr 36 min

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      Jenn and Amy review media and talk all things dating to show amazing women how to attract their perfect partner by embracing and showcasing their authenticity!