Do your friends tell you how awesome you are?  Are they shocked that you are single?  Do they tell you that you are amazing and any guy would be a fool not to see it? 

And yet, are the guys you actually find attractive just not reciprocating?

Well, there is a REASON this is happening!  We peel through the possibilities, and guess what?  In the end your friends are NOT WRONG!  You are awesome!  You are just doing some things that prevents guys from seeing it that!

Listen up ladies, and start attracting the attention you want today!

XOXO,

Jenn and Amy

What would men think if you embraced the power  you had in the dating process and really took your time, without apology, to find out which partner is right for you?  Well, we know Bachelor is not a true litmus test of society, but when Kaitlyn refused to be intimidated and swayed by the men on her season and made the moves she needed to figure out who she wanted to be with, the women were cheering and the men were pissed! We discuss this and more in our review of Episode 2 I The Best of The Bachelor: Kaitlyn's Season. Even  if you do not watch the show, you will get something from this review!

And if you have any other shows or movies you'd like us to review, leave us a message!

For more support, find us at Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle!

Enjoy!

Amy and Jenn

Do you feel like you have to play down your success when you are on a date or in a relationship?

Have you been told before that you are alone because you are too successful and that is emasculating? 

Well, we say that is a crock of poo in the pile of poo we have been told as women in regards to finding a partner. 

In this episode we show you why this is a lie, and how to move forward in your dating, unapologetic for the awesome and successful person you are!

Enjoy!

Jenn and Amy

Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle

Are you in the middle of a fairy tale or at the beginning of a nightmare? We review the MedCircle video featuring Dr. Ramani entitled "How to Avoid Dating a Narcissist with Dr. Ramani" What are the signs that the guy in the bar is a narcissist?  How have we been programed by Rom Coms and fairy tales to desire this behavior in the beginning of a relationship?  What red flags should you be aware of?  We answer all of these questions and more in this podcast.

We give a shout out to Dr. Ramani and her wealth of knowledge surrounding Narcissism, and we encourage you to watch this video and more on youtube.

Thank you Dr. Ramani for these wonderful videos!

Ever been called a needy or bitchy or a nag? Have you been in relationships where you silence your needs and wants to avoid these labels?  If that sounds like you, you need to listen to this podcast.  

Surrounded by a review of the "delightful" Ron Com How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, we unpack hurtful labels like nag and bitch that have stripped women of their voices in relationships. We also deconstruct the love story between Andy and Ben and the messages it gives us about how a woman needs to look and behave in order to attract a man.  And finally, we do have a giggle or two over Crawl the Warrior King! 

This is not just a movie review- it is an intense look at the stories we are told regarding how we need to be in order to find love.  And and we are calling Bullshit on all of it!

Are you ready to get back out there but you are overwhelmed thinking about- How the hell am I supposed to do this?!?!  Well, look no further! Today we peel through 6 Tips for Social Distance Dating.  

These tips include: how to stay safe, where to go and what to do, and how to know if he is just looking for a booty call! 

We also cover why now is actually an amazing time to be dating if you are looking for something long term!

So come hang with us and get your date on!  

If you have any topics you want us to cover, or if you want any further support, email us at [email protected] or see what other goodies we have here: Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle

Stay Safe!

Jenn and Amy

Jenn and Amy review Season 2, Episode 4 of Netflix's Thriller, You. In this episode, they discuss when it is (or is not) a good time to introduce a guy you are dating to your family. When is it too soon, and why is it ever too soon?

Jenn and Amy peel apart the lie that women tell themselves, "Guys Don't Like Me Because I am Too..." You can really fill in the blank with anything here: successful, fat, tall, loud, opinionated... this coaching podcast covers all of the above with an explanation of where that message came from, how we know it is a lie, and what you can do to heal from and change those hurtful beliefs.

Jenn and Amy Review Season 2, Episode 5 of Netflix's Romantic Thriller, You.  They run through the gaslighting character traits and ask the question- Can some be gaslighting someone else without knowing it? There are some triggering topics in this episode, so be aware before you listen.