This week Pastor Mel opened a new series called The Kingdom with the Parable of the Wheat and the Weeds (Matthew 13:24-30, with its explanation in 13:36-43). A farmer plants good seed, but while everyone sleeps an enemy sows weeds among the wheat. When the servants offer to pull them, the farmer refuses and says to let both grow together until the harvest. Here is the tension: there is a weed called darnel — a "false wheat" — that is nearly impossible to tell apart from the real thing until the very end. So how do we live faithfully in a field where wheat and weeds grow side by side?
Mel reads the parable on two levels. First, personally: the weeds are the things that quietly grow up in our own lives and choke out what God planted. Second, and more soberly: the field is the world, and it holds true faith and false faith together, which is exactly why we are so slow to judge — "we can't tell. So often we can't tell." Jesus' own interpretation ends with a final separation at the end of the age, when "the righteous will shine like the sun in their Father's kingdom." Mel turns to 1 Corinthians 5 to sort out what judgment is and isn't ours, and closes with the story of a student told to study a single fish — "Look at the fish" — calling us past a surface faith to truly know Jesus.
1. The farmer refuses to rip out the weeds and says to let both grow together until the harvest. Where in your life are you tempted to force a verdict — on yourself or on someone else — that God may be asking you to leave to the harvest?
2. Mel describes the weeds in our own lives as the things that quietly grow up and steal our time and attention from God. What is one weed that has taken root in yours, and what would it look like to name it honestly this week?
3. On judging others, Mel said, "We judge, but we're gonna judge with the best in mind and the best in prayer... with open hands generously." How is that different from the way you are tempted to judge people? Where do you need more open hands?
4. Jesus says the field is the world and the harvest is the end of the age, when "the righteous will shine like the sun." Does the reality of a final sorting comfort you, unsettle you, or both — and why?
5. The message closes with "Look at the fish" — the call to stop settling for knowing about Jesus and to actually know him. Name one specific way this week you will slow down and truly look at Jesus, rather than rushing past him.