In this episode we discuss Romans week three.

We started with something Paul says almost in passing -- that humanity not only sins, but invents new ways of sinning. That opens into a rich conversation about creativity, technology, and what it looks like when God's image-bearing gift of creativity gets corrupted. From there we move into what Caleb calls narrative reconstruction -- the idea that when we sin and then justify it, the justification is itself a sin, a reframing of truth as falsehood. And if you do it long enough, you lose the ability to see clearly at all. That might be the most dangerous place the human heart can go.

Next the conversation takes on some genuinely hard questions: What do we do with Rahab lying to protect the spies? What does forgiveness actually mean when recidivism is likely? We talk about the difference between forgiveness and the restoration of privileges, and why getting that distinction wrong may be part of how the church lost its moral footing in culture.

There is also a beautiful thread near the end on practical spiritual disciplines -- the Daily Examen, the Wesleyan accountability bands that go back to John Wesley himself, and what Joel calls a posture of humility where you replay your day honestly before God. Caleb introduces a Wesleyan theological distinction -- Christian perfection versus entire sanctification -- that is well worth sitting with.

This week Pastor Mel continues the Romans series with Week 13, and he lands in one of the most personally honest passages in all of Paul's writing -- Romans chapter 7.The big question Paul is answering is one that every honest Christian has probably asked: if grace covers our sin, does that mean we can live however we want? Paul's answer is emphatic. Of course not. And Mel walks through exactly why, using the striking image of marriage. When we died with Christ, we died to the law -- and now we are free to marry someone new. Not the law, but Christ himself. And just like any healthy marriage, that relationship means we don't only ask what we want. We ask what he wants.From there, Mel moves into the wretched man passage, where Paul confesses that he does what he hates and cannot do what he wants. Mel makes the case that this is not a passage about spiritual failure. It is a passage about spiritual honesty, and about the difference between being called to perfection and being called to a lifelong process of being perfected.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. Paul uses a marriage illustration to show that believers are dead to the law and now united with Christ. What is the difference between relating to God through rule-keeping versus relating to him as someone you are in a committed covenant with — and how does that shift change the way you approach obedience day to day?

2. Mel says the law does two things: it defines sin and reveals it in us. When has scripture or the Holy Spirit put a spotlight on something in your life you didn't even realize was sin? How did you respond — with repentance, defensiveness, or something else?

3. Romans 7:14–25 is Paul confessing, "I do what I hate." Mel notes that the longer we walk with Christ, the more our seemingly small sins bother us. What pattern or habit in your own life do you keep returning to despite genuinely not wanting to — and what does a repentant (not perfect) response look like in that area?

4. Mel says the daily solution is to die — to crucify the flesh and do the opposite of what it tells you. Where in your life right now is your flesh telling you not to do something you probably should? What would it look like to act against that impulse this week?

5. Mel closes with the image of posthumous legal exoneration — that in Christ we are declared not guilty of sins we actually committed. How does living from a place of "already exonerated" rather than "trying to earn forgiveness" change your posture toward God, toward your own sin, and toward other people?

Today we are back answering more of your questions from the Asking for a Friend series. In this episode we respond to some really substantial topics — how God speaks to people today and how to discern whether what you are hearing is actually from him, the purpose and meaning of communion and why it matters how we approach it, why the church still uses traditional preaching rather than open dialogue, and whether Summit should be teaching more on Bible prophecy and end times. This was a productive discussion that was both theologically grounded and refreshingly practical.

This week Pastor Mel continues our series through the book of Romans, picking up in the second half of Romans chapter 6 where Pastor Kim left off. Using the vivid historical reality of slavery in the Roman Empire — including an actual slave tag discovered in Rome — Mel unpacks Paul’s powerful argument that every one of us is a slave to whatever we choose to obey. He walks through what it means to be freed from sin’s dominion, why so many believers find themselves returning to old masters, and what it looks like to surrender wholeheartedly to God rather than simply going through the motions of religious duty. It is a challenging and deeply practical message about freedom, identity, and the incredible gift of grace found in Romans 6:23.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. Paul says we become "slaves to whatever we choose to obey." What modern masters — comfort, acceptance, achievement, pleasure — quietly command your obedience? How do you know when something has shifted from a good thing to a governing thing?

2. Paul distinguishes obeying God out of fear of punishment from obeying "from the heart." Where in your life are you performing obedience out of obligation rather than genuine affection for God — and what would it look like to close that gap?

3. Emancipated slaves in Rome often voluntarily returned to their former masters because it was familiar. What old masters do you keep returning to after experiencing freedom in Christ, and what payoff — however small — keeps drawing you back?

4. Pastor Mel emphasized that who you are enslaved to affects everyone around you, for good or ill. Can you think of a time someone else's devotion to God (or to sin) shaped your life in a concrete way? How does that reframe your own choices as something bigger than personal?

5. Romans 6:23 contrasts earned wages with a free gift. How does receiving eternal life as a gift — not a wage — change your motivation for obedience? What would it look like this week to relate to God as a son or daughter, not as a slave earning approval?

In this episode we discuss more questions from the Asking for a Friend series. We talk about the age of the earth and creation, weighing young earth perspectives with evidence for apparent age, global floods, and faith amid scientific debates about dinosaurs and dating methods. The conversation addresses what happened to the torn temple veil, how to live biblically from the heart rather than mere moral goodness, navigating difficult Bible passages through context and God's sovereignty, missing verses in modern translations, and the church's view on Israel's ongoing covenant. Mel shares the Assemblies of God stance while emphasizing grace, humility, and Christ-centered support in complex issues.

In week 11 of our Romans series Pastor Kim teaches on Romans 6 showing the shift from what God has done for us to what He is doing in us. She unpacks our union with Christ in His death and resurrection, declaring that we have died to sin and been raised to new life so sin no longer rules over us. Kim uses powerful illustrations like the rope lowered into a well, the removal of Lazarus's grave clothes, and the Israelites who crossed the Red Sea yet still thought like slaves preferring familiar bondage. She challenges believers to reckon themselves dead to sin and alive to God, to stop dressing in old identities and to present every part of their bodies as instruments of righteousness under grace. The message ends with a powerful invitation to surrender fully to Jesus, to experience true freedom and declare we are no longer slaves. The Holy Spirit empowers daily resurrection living.

In week three of our Asking for a Friend series Pastor Mel answers big questions about the will of God, exploring the tension between human free will and divine sovereignty. He unpacks why God created Adam and Eve knowing the fall would happen, examines angelic rebellion with Lucifer, and explains the hardening of Pharaoh's heart in Exodus through the lens of Romans. Mel contrasts the anxiety of viewing God's will as a tightrope with the peace of seeing it as a river that carries us within safe boundaries, while affirming that God works all things together for good for those who love Him. He reminds us that holiness aligns our wills with God's, and that the Father's good plan includes redemption and restoration despite a broken world.

In this episode we discussed handling exhaustion in ministry, setting healthy boundaries with family and technology, and the difference between burnout and a lack of discipline. We explored high performance as a husband, father, and leader without sacrificing home life, the slow slide into burnout, and the tension between personal success and lasting legacy, drawing wisdom from Cain and Seths contrasting lines in Genesis. Mel and Joel share practical insights on self awareness, judicious priorities, succession planning, and finding renewed purpose beyond retirement.

In this Romans Week 2 discussion we unpack the power of the gospel and the sobering reality of humanity's suppression of truth. The conversation dives into sharing personal testimonies of transformation, confronting willful sin like gossip, envy, pride, and resisting authority. We talk about how God sometimes allows us to reach rock bottom so we turn to His grace. We explore the communal nature of brokenness, the importance of accountability, living as the "fifth gospel" through consistent witness, and radical Holy Spirit possession that leads to sacrificial love, illustrated powerfully by Saint Maximilian Kolb.

Pastor Mel unpacks the stunning fall of Leicester City from unlikely Premier League champions to back-to-back relegations, highlighting how overspending on underperforming players, desperate decisions, high turnover, and eroding cultural standards created a downward spiral. In the discussion portion we explore sustaining success through consistent disciplines, avoiding snap judgments in crisis, balancing short-term opportunities with long-term vision, wise financial stewardship at every scale, and practical ways to build and protect healthy organizational culture that values people and loyalty while confronting low standards. This one is full of insights for churches, businesses, and leaders facing pressure or success.