In this episode, we dive into the often-taboo topic of being attracted to people other than your spouse. We unpack why attraction is a natural, human experience and doesn’t have to threaten your commitment. Learn how to navigate these feelings in a way that strengthens your relationship, builds trust, and deepens your connection with your partner. It’s not about avoiding attraction—it’s about choosing how you respond to it.

In this episode, Porn Isn’t Your Problem – It’s a Symptom of Something Deeper, we’re flipping the script on how you look at porn. What if porn isn’t the real problem but just a way to deal with other stuff going on under the surface? Stuff like stress, loneliness, or past experiences that haven't been dealt with.

I’ll share how I realized porn was just a sign that something deeper needed attention and how understanding that shifted my whole approach. We’ll get into real, straightforward steps you can take to figure out what triggers you to reach for porn—like journaling, meditation, finding someone to keep you accountable, or even getting help from a therapist.

By the end of this episode, you’ll see how getting to the root of things can set you free in a way that just trying to quit never does. Let’s dig deep, get real, and start making moves toward real freedom.

In this episode we talk about how human sexuality is a gift not a curse! I believe its one of Gods greatest gifts for us and too many of us squander this gift in shame and guilt. Don't get me wrong it can be abused but most don't need that message. We already feel bad enough about it. We also talk about how to control unwanted thoughts and how I as a married man is practicing no nut November or semen retention.

In this episode, I sit down with Katie Davis to dive into her journey and what led her to work with couples around porn and shame. We break down the cultural ties between shame and porn, exploring how these two fuel each other and why breaking that cycle is essential. Katie shares powerful insights on how a spouse can truly support a husband who’s struggling with porn in a way that builds trust, not resentment. We also tackle an often-overlooked topic: how a husband’s porn habit can sometimes highlight insecurities in the wife—things that won’t simply disappear if he quits. This episode is all about real talk, breaking shame, and finding supportive, healing paths forward for both partners.

Here is Katies instagram. Give her a follow and you can reach out to her with any additional questions you have. 
https://www.instagram.com/thechristianbetrayalcoach/

In this episode, we dive into how porn has evolved—from the old days of sneaking a peek at magazines to the constant access we have today with the internet. Now, AI is taking things to a whole new level, and it's changing fast. We'll explore where it all started, where it's at right now, and where it's heading in the future. You’ll be surprised how quickly this industry is shifting and how it could impact your habits. Let's break down what’s happening, why it matters, and how we can navigate this new wave.

In this podcast, we’re going to break down my personal framework for overcoming pornography—step by step. This isn’t just about resisting porn but actually changing your relationship with it.

Step 1: Bring it to the Light
We start by talking about it. Shame grows in secrecy, and keeping this issue hidden only makes it worse. By bringing it to the light and opening up—whether that’s with a friend, spouse, or a support group—you strip away its power.

Step 2: There's Nothing Wrong With You
Often, it’s not the action itself but the belief surrounding it that causes the most harm. If you think looking at porn makes you a bad person, that belief fuels shame, which in turn keeps you stuck. Ask yourself, "What does it really mean if I look at porn?"

Step 3: Porn Isn’t Bad, It’s Just Cheap
Porn isn’t inherently evil—it’s just cheap. It’s a quick fix for a deeper void. Like eating junk food, it’s not going to satisfy you in the long run, and it’s definitely not going to fill whatever deeper need you’re trying to address.

Step 4: These Aren’t Urges, It’s Just Hunger
When you feel the pull to watch porn, pause and ask, “What am I actually hungry for?” It’s often not about the porn itself but something deeper—loneliness, stress, or emotional voids.

Step 5: Outgrow Porn
The goal is not to just fight porn off but to outgrow it. This means replacing bad habits with better, healthier ones. Build routines, such as exercising, journaling, or learning something new, that replace the habit with positive actions.

Step 6: Address Past Trauma
We all have wounds—big and small—that can fuel unhealthy behaviors. Whether it's a major life trauma or small, repetitive experiences that have added up, addressing these head-on can remove the chains holding you back.

Step 7: Long-Term Success is Achieved Through Intimacy
True healing comes from developing deeper intimacy—whether with your spouse, family, or close friends. Building these close, meaningful relationships is key to long-term success and shifting your perception of sexuality into something more meaningful and fulfilling.

These steps will help you move from fighting against porn to simply outgrowing the desire, and the journey gets easier once you have the right tools.

In this episode join my wife and I as we have a real, raw conversation about something many couples struggle with but few openly discuss: pornography. We open up about my personal journey with porn and the steps we've taken together to tackle this challenge. From practical tools to heartfelt discussions, we share what has worked for us and what hasn't. Our goal is simple: to shed light on a difficult topic and offer support to others facing similar struggles. So grab a cup of joe, pull up a chair, and join us for this honest conversation.

Today, we're getting down and dirty with some eye-opening stats about pornography, paired with my own personal story. No fluff, just real talk.

We have the pleasure of hosting Cameron Jenson, a self-made entrepreneur who went from humble beginnings in door-to-door sales to achieving financial freedom before the age of 30.

Cameron's journey is a testament to the power of hard work and determination. Starting from scratch, he dedicated himself to mastering the art of sales and built a solid foundation in the door-to-door industry. Through years of relentless effort, Cameron honed his skills, learned invaluable lessons, and paved his way to success.

What sets Cameron apart is his ability to diversify his income streams and seize opportunities. He gained recognition for his popular TikTok account, where he shares insights on real estate ownership, the profitable world of van rentals through Turo, and other savvy side hustles. His content has resonated with thousands of followers, as he generously imparts his knowledge and experiences, motivating others to take control of their financial futures.

Find him at
tik tok: Freedom_hustler

Join us for an illuminating podcast episode as we dive into the world of Jimmy Rex, one of Utah's most influential and well-connected individuals. Known for his expertise in networking, creating impact, and personal branding, Jimmy Rex shares invaluable insights that can transform your professional and personal life.

Episode Highlights:

1. Networking in Your 20s and Beyond: Discover Jimmy Rex's tried-and-true strategies for building genuine connections, expanding your network, and harnessing relationships for growth and opportunities.
2. Creating Lasting Impact: Explore Jimmy's advice on identifying and seizing opportunities for positive change. Learn how to mobilize resources and take meaningful action to leave a lasting legacy.
3. The Power of Personal Branding: Gain expert insights into crafting a compelling personal brand that resonates with others. Understand the importance of authenticity, consistency, and storytelling in building a strong reputation.

This podcast episode is packed with practical tips and actionable steps that will empower you to unleash your networking potential, create impact, and cultivate a compelling personal brand. Tune in and embark on a journey towards extraordinary possibilities in your life and career.