On today's podcast I am talking with Sita Kinikini. Sita writes music and sings, plays tennis and loves to travel. She is full blooded Tongan with a rich heritage. These are just parts of her. They don't define her. Sita is also gay. This is just another small part of her that doesn't define her.
This is not a discussion on whether homosexuality is right or wrong. This is a discussion on how we need to treat everyone with kindness and respect. Sita shares the shame she felt when she realized her preferences were different than those of her friends. She shares the fears she experienced before coming out and how people reacted once she did come out. It broke my heart when she described feeling like a monster and didn't want anyone to know she was gay.
Maybe this is something you can relate to. Or maybe you have a friend or loved one in a similar situation. I think it is important to have conversations about topics that scare us or make us uncomfortable to raise awareness. There is a lot of research that shows increased depression and death by suicide among members of the LBGTQ community. I believe however that we can help this by treating everyone with love, kindness and respect.
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