Surrogacy Is a Podcast

After the birth, a surrogacy journey shifts. The family goes home and suddenly... you're walking around your own home feeling, Now what?  You’re processing, healing, and feeling a mix of emotions you didn’t really expect. 

In this episode, Sunshine and Casey sit down with two incredible surrogates — Bre and Stephanie — for a raw, honest conversation about the emotional rollercoaster that can hit after delivery day. 

This conversation pulls back the curtain on the postpartum dip that so many surrogates experience but are too afraid to talk about. 🎙️✨

Here's what we're unpacking:

🫣 Why the post-birth emotional dip is so common — and why it's not about missing the baby or feeling attached🚪 The fear of speaking up: Why many surrogates don’t talk about it  and the fears they hold for future journeys👭 The power of your surrogate-sisters: why leaning on the unique surrogacy community and family changes everything when you're in the thick of it💜 How to recognize the difference between normal postpartum emotions and something that needs extra support🤝 Why it's okay to not be okay — and how your agency should be showing up for you

If you've ever wondered if what you're feeling is normal, this episode is your reminder that you are not alone — and you are absolutely not the only one. 🫶

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and review Surrogacy Is A Podcast! And if this episode resonates with you, share it with your surrogate-sisters. 💜

In this special episode, we’re handing over the mics to our incredible Surrogacy Is Social Ambassadors for an official episode takeover. 🎙️✨

These amazing women are diving deep into what it’s really like to share their surrogacy journeys online and the tight-knit community they’ve built along the way. 

In this episode, they chat about: 

📱 The Power of Sisterhood — How sharing their stories online unlocked an incredible community of fellow surrogates and why you shouldn’t have to do your journey alone 

💼 The Importance of a GOOD Benefits Package — Why a great, comprehensive benefits package changes the game and provides the ultimate peace of mind during your surrogacy pregnancy and birth 

📝 Essential Journey Reminder — The most important (and sometimes overlooked!) things to consider before you take the leap into a new journey 

🧠 How Every Journey Is Different  — Fresh lessons and new perspectives they’ve gained on their latest journeys, even as experienced, repeat surrogates 

🛑 Knowing When Your Surrogate Days Are Done — An honest conversation on how to recognize the signs that it’s time to retire your uterus and close that chapter of your life

If you’ve been looking for a raw, uplifting, and totally relatable look into the surrogate lifestyle, grab your headphones—this ambassador takeover is the ultimate inside scoop!

Connect with the Ambassadors: To follow along with our ambassadors' personal journeys and stay connected with our community, follow them on Instagram at 

Jasmin (1x GC, currently pregnant): @jazbegrowin

Kat (3x surrogate, currently pregnant): @mrskatstupka

Tosha (2x surrogate, recently postpartum): @surrogate.tosha

Sam (Ambassador Manager & 1x surrogate): @surrogate.sam

If you’re interested in applying to become an ambassador, fill out an interest form at surro.is/ambassador Also, please don’t forget to like, subscribe, and review Surrogacy Is A Podcast!

At Surrogacy Is, we always say a good match (and great support!) makes your whole surrogacy journey. That’s why we are so intentional with our matching process, and in this episode, we’re diving into what makes our process so special, while chatting with the incredible women who make it all happen! 💜💜💜

Our matching team—Susan, Michelle, and Leia—bring an unbeatable blend of personal experience and professional expertise to the table:

• Susan: Wife, mom of four, licensed midwife, and two-time gestational carrier with over a decade of experience in third-party reproduction. As our Director of Client Services, she blends medical insight with a deep commitment to relationship-centered surrogacy.

• Michelle: Proud mom of twin daughters and a son, former gestational surrogate (completing her journey in 2024), and healthcare/customer service veteran who uses her personal and professional background to provide compassionate, relationship-first support.

• Leia: Mom of three, two-time gestational surrogate, and former nurse of ten years who turned her passion for caring for others into helping build families through life-changing connections.

  
  

Together, they blend firsthand surrogate experience, healthcare expertise, and genuine heart to lead intended parents and surrogates through one of the most personal and meaningful parts of the journey.

Listen in as we chat about our:

🫶🏾 Intuition-Based Matching: Why our team leads with heart instead of rigid algorithms to pair IPs and surrogates.

⏱️ Anti-Hierarchy or Waitlist Approach: How we’re able to match so fast and avoid the 1–3 year waitlists common at other agencies.

🤲 No Risk, High Reward for IPs: The reality of how most intended parents match in under 90 days (and sometimes in just a few!)—plus why there’s zero risk to try, since we don't charge fees upfront.

🖥️ Detailed Match Calls: What actually happens on our agency-hosted video calls, from navigating sensitive topics like selective reduction to mapping out delivery day preferences.

✨ If you're an intended parent or surrogate wondering how you'll possibly find "the one" or you're simply curious about what happens behind the scenes, this conversation gives you an inside look into one of the most caring matching teams in the industry!

👉 If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to like, subscribe, and review Surrogacy Is A Podcast!

In this episode, we are honored to sit down with Dr. Graham Theisen, a reproductive endocrinologist at PREG (Piedmont Reproductive Endocrinology Group) and a father of two via surrogacy. 🤗

Dr. Theisen blends his professional expertise with his personal experience, sharing how his own journey as an intended father shapes the empathetic care he provides to his patients every day.

In this episode, we chat about:

👨‍⚕️ Dr. Theisen’s Dual Advice — What he’s learned as both a doctor and an intended parent

🏠 Logistics To Consider — Like why moving your embryos to your surrogate’s local clinic might make more sense than flying her to your clinic

🧬 Important Things to Keep in Mind When Using a Donor — Questions you’ll want to ask yourself before your journey begins

🚩 Red Flags to Watch For — How to "shop around" for clinics and agencies that prioritize transparency over speed

🤝 The Art of the Match — Why changing your criteria (like looking for an experienced mom!) can lead to a smoother process

If you’re an intended parent feeling the weight of all your “to-dos," Dr. Theisen’s unique perspective is the reassurance you need to keep moving forward with confidence!

Connect with Dr. Theisen:

To learn more about his work at the Piedmont Reproductive Endocrinology Group, visit PREG online (www.pregonline.com) or follow @pregonline on Instagram. 

Also, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and review Surrogacy Is A Podcast!

Do surrogates get a say in their pregnancy and delivery? 

Spoiler alert: The answer might surprise you! 😱

In this episode of our Misconception Series, Sunshine and Casey tackle one of the most persistent and emotionally loaded myths in surrogacy—whether or not surrogates get a choice in their prenatal care.

We’re breaking down how decisions around labor support, hospital choice, delivery preferences, pain management, and postpartum recovery actually work in ethical, agency-led journeys. From who can be in the room to how intended parents prepare to be involved, this episode offers clarity, reassurance, and a look behind the scenes at how collaborative (and flexible!) these conversations really are.

Dive in with us as we chat about:

✅ Why it’s important to discuss labor preferences early in matching🚪 Whose decision is it on who gets to be in the delivery room—and how to honor everyone’s experience in the moment 

💉 How pain management preferences can be honored and supported🔄 How plans can shift during birth — and why flexibility protects the surrogate🛏️ As a surrogate, things you can do to prepare for post-delivery

If you’re a surrogate curious about how to handle delivery day, this episode is a must-listen! 🤗

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and review Surrogacy Is A Podcast!

✨We’re so excited to spotlight Dr. Sadaf, Founder of Embra Health, in this episode. ✨

If you don’t know Dr. Sadaf yet—she’s a mental health expert for those in the surrogacy world. She has been supporting our community through monthly group sessions and is available for mental health support for all our agency’s surrogates and intended parents. 

 In today’s episode, we chat about the emotional side of the surrogacy journey—as well as the practical tools and gentle reminders for any surrogate who’s ever felt stretched thin. 💜Here’s what we’re unpacking: 🫣 The real-life challenges surrogates juggle behind the scenes 🛑 Early signs of overwhelm — and how to respond 💬 How honest communication builds healthier relationships with IPs 💛 Tools to stay grounded, confident, and connected 🤝 Why community support matters (and how our monthly support calls help)

We want to invite every surrogate to follow Dr. Sadaf at @embrahealth

As well as check out our monthly GC Empower Hour Calls 📞

These calls are open to all surrogates to connect in a supportive space with other surrogates and get helpful advice on exactly where you are in your journey. These calls are held every 2nd Wednesday of the month. Follow us at @surrogacyis to make sure you don’t miss them. surro.is/empower

For many surrogates, the IVF portion of the journey can bring up some big feelings. Usually uncertainty and nervousness over the dreaded shots. 💉But surrogates should never feel like they have to tackle it alone!

In this episode, we’re joined by Maryam Lowry, RN and founder of Blossom Fertility Concierge. Maryam shares how her 1:1 approach helps surrogates feel calm and reassured to understand their medical calendar. (She even offers guidance for intended parents who want to be supportive during the process!) 

In this episode, we chat about:

✅ Why injections feel intimidating at first — and why that’s totally normal

💉 How proper technique reduces pain, bruising, and anxiety

🧡 Why emotional support is just as important as the medical side

🔄 How to navigate needle anxiety, overwhelm, or medication fatigue

🚫 Common mistakes and how to avoid them

✨ Why the medical process is so important and why proper support and make all the difference in your confidence 

If you’re a surrogate (or intended parent!) approaching the IVF process of your journey, this episode is a must-listen! 

If you’re looking for more information on Blossom Fertility Concierge, make sure to follow Maryam here: @blossomfertilityconcierge

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In this powerful and deeply affirming episode, we’re joined by Regina Townsend, a leading voice in fertility advocacy for Black women and families. She’s also the founder of The Broken Brown Egg, author of Make IF Make Sense, and creator of the ShellShocked support group. 🖤✨

After nearly a decade navigating infertility, Regina and her husband welcomed their son, Judah, through IVF. Her personal journey sparked a movement — one that boldly challenges silence, stigma, and the lack of visible Black stories in fertility spaces. As a librarian and writer, Regina uses storytelling as both resistance and restoration, creating space for honest conversations that many have long felt excluded from. 

Listen to hear: 🧡 Regina’s personal infertility journey and what led her to create The Broken Brown Egg 📣 Why representation in fertility spaces truly matters 🧱 The harmful stereotypes Black women still face in reproductive health 📖 What Regina hopes readers gain from her book Make IF Make Sense ✍🏽 How storytelling helps people reclaim power in their fertility journeys 💬 Encouraging words for anyone feeling alone in their struggle ✨ Regina’s vision for the future of fertility advocacy and community growth

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt like they were walking the infertility journey alone—and how, together as a community, we should always support one another. 

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In a surrogacy journey, how much say does a surrogate have? Does she have any legal rights during her journey? 

In this episode of our Misconception Series, Sunshine and Casey tackle one of the most emotionally charged myths in surrogacy—and why surrogates should absolutely feel empowered and protected within their journeys.

🎧Listen as we unpack:

 📃What legal protections actually look like and ways to stay informed

 🗣️How autonomy and consent are safeguarded every step of the way

✨Answers to common concerns (like, “Can IPs change their minds?” “What if something happens to them?” “Can they decide if I get an epidural?”).

And more! 

This episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s heard “but what if you decide you want to keep the baby?” or “don’t you have to do whatever the IPs say?” and wants to set the record straight. 💪✨

Surrogacy requirements are something that shouldn’t be taken lightly. 🙅‍♀️

And in this Surrogacy Diaries episode, we’re talking to the ladies who know the requirements in and out— our incredible Outreach Team (Haleigh, Cherish, and Christine). 💜

Together, we have a casual yet impactful conversation about…

✨Their own personal surrogacy experiences 

✨The different qualifications of being a surrogate, including the ones you may be able to control and the ones you simply can’t

✨The important reasons why BMI, income, and age can be such a factor for a surrogacy journey 

✨Why hearing “no” can be hard, and the things to consider if you find yourself in that spot

✨Why the Surrogacy Is team feels like “Your Big Surro Sister” and why they always have a woman’s best interest at heart (compared to what some agencies do to cut corners)

✨The words in the surrogacy industry that have started to lose their meaning (these might surprise you!) 

✨And lots more!

This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering surrogacy or who is part of our surrogacy community 🎧

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