Confused about how to pick the perfect fertility clinic for your surrogacy journey? Let’s fix that! 

What you need in a clinic for regular IVF isn’t the same as a clinic for surrogacy. 

Choosing the right fertility clinic can make or break your surrogacy experience—and your budget! There are some things you should look for before you commit. In today’s episode, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of picking a clinic that’s perfect for you.

Inside this episode:

• Why clinics might charge you twice for the same services and how to avoid it 

• What to look for in a clinic’s surrogacy package to ensure you know exactly what you’re paying for

• Why the right embryology lab is crucial for your success 

• Surrogacy coordination fees: What are you really paying for?

• Tips for working with clinics experienced in third-party reproduction

Ready to pick the right fertility clinic for your surrogacy? Hit play and let’s get into it! 

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Should you risk shipping embryos for surrogacy to a new clinic? Episode #11

Finding the Right Match for Your Embryo Donation Journey

Going through embryo donation is an incredibly personal and sometimes overwhelming experience. With so many choices—whether to use an agency or pursue a private match, finding a family who shares your values, and deciding how much communication you want with the family and future child—it’s easy to feel lost. 

You can begin this process full of hope but find yourself discouraged when the initial matches or agency experiences aren’t what you were looking for. 

But there’s hope. What if you could hear from someone who's been through it all and can show you the ropes? 

This is part 2 of our conversation with Ashley Herring, a mom who chose to donate her 12 embryos after IVF.  

Think you can't find the perfect match for embryo donation? You're wrong. Hear how Ashley did it after over 300 hopeful families reached out! 

Join us for practical strategies and essential tips.

Key Moments in This Episode

• 00:00 – How intuition and connection lead to meaningful matches

• 11:08 – Surprising parallels between embryo donation and surrogacy

• 14:15 – The most important details for your embryo donation profile

• 17:25 – Why Ashley chose an open relationship with her embryo recipients

• 29:27 – Honoring your values when selecting recipients

Having a successful embryo donation match is about more than finding any family; it’s about finding the right family.

Through her story, Ashley reveals how aligning values, setting clear expectations, and trusting your instincts can lead to a fulfilling and rewarding experience for both donor and recipient families.

If you're ready to learn how to approach embryo donation with clarity and purpose, tune in to this episode of the “Surrogacy Made Simple Podcast.”

Listen now and take your next steps toward a meaningful embryo donation match!

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What do you do with extra embryos?

Your family’s finally complete, and it took a tremendous journey to get here, didnt it? Yet, there's one more decision looming over you. A deeply personal one that could impact your family’s life for years to come. What will you do with the extra embryos?

Ashley Herring was once in your shoes, facing this exact decision.

Now… What would you do with 12 remaining embryos? 

That’s what our guest, Ashley Herring’s, was faced with.  

Listen as she shares:

• Her journey with PCOS, IVF and the challenges faced along the way

• The 3 main options available for extra embryos and how she made her decision

• Advice on finding the right fit when working with agencies and online communities

06:34 Infertility struggles, shame, financial hardship

16:47 What it feels like to finally complete your family 

19:47 Embryo donation - the road less traveled 

23:55 The difference between embryo donation and embryo adoption

26:59 Clinics and agencies that weren't aligned with her values

32:03 Being overwhelmed with hundreds of hopeful parents for her embryos

If you believe embryo donation is the right path but feel uncertain about the process, then tune in to uncover Ashley’s incredible story.

This podcast episode is a must-listen. Hear Ashley Herring’s story and gain insights that can guide you through this complex process. Don't miss out on this invaluable advice—tune in now!

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Surrogacy-friendly insurance isn’t enough.

Finding insurance to cover surrogacy expenses can be tricky and “liens” make it worse. If you pick wrong, you could end up with a mountain of bills. 

A surrogacy lien is where you have to pay money back to the insurance company because they covered health expenses for a surrogate. 

This might leave you wondering, "What's the point of using these insurances at all?"

Well, thankfully, there are options to avoid these costs, and that's what we're talking about today.

This is part 2 of our chat with Sarah Paige of ARTRisk. She’s sharing everything you need to know about surrogacy insurance liens.

In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

00:00 - States with great surrogacy laws but costly liens. 

06:14 - Why more intended parents are avoiding California

10:32 - Details about the new bill that could change insurance for surrogates, affecting millions in California. 

17:09 - If you want to fight back against insurance liens, then join this Alliance 

25:03 - A special program for independent matches looking for insurance guidance

If you want to avoid financial pitfalls in surrogacy, then you must understand these lien policies.

Don't miss out on this episode—hit play and discover how to make your surrogacy journey smoother and more affordable! 🎧

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Surrogacy Starter Kit

ART Risk Solutions

IAE Alliance website

What you need to know about surrogacy insurance liens 

We’re on the heels of another Affordable Care Act (ACA) open enrollment period. Open enrollment starts November 1st and closes January 15th. Missing this window makes it tough to get a good policy for surrogacy if you need one. 

Does your surrogate need surrogacy-friendly insurance?

Now’s the time to find her a plan.

If you’re taken our Surrogacy Blueprint course, done your research, or have a stellar agency, then you’re probably waiting for this time. 

But here’s the catch: not all insurance is suitable for surrogacy. 

Some plans come with hidden restrictions called liens. Surrogacy insurance liens might cost you an extra $40,000 or more! 

In the worst-case scenario, you could pay double your surrogate’s compensation.

As more insurance companies add these surrogacy insurance liens, this problem is growing. If you’re entering open enrollment hoping to find the right plan, you need to listen up.

Today we’re sitting down with Sarah Paige from ART Risk to for expert tips on what these liens really mean for your surrogacy experience

• 05:29 How the risks of different insurance effect you

• 12:28 What happens if you don’t tell insurance about surrogacy

• 19:37 If you find lien language, then this type of plan may be better

• 22:44 The difference between “compensation” and “reimbursement” in the eyes of insurance

• 27:47 How to challenge and negotiate liens 

Don’t let hidden costs and liens derail your plans. Listen to this episode for essential guidance and expert advice going into ACA open enrollment period

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BloomBridge Surrogacy app

Surrogacy Starter Kit

ART Risk Solutions

Traveling Home with Your Newborn: Drive or Fly?

Are you feeling overwhelmed deciding how to travel home with your newborn right after surrogacy? You’re not alone. Most of us have surrogates who aren’t local. 

Choosing between flying and driving can feel daunting.

There’s a lot of logistics and safety concerns. Plus, the big unknowns and the added pressure of making the “right” choice. It can leave you feeling stressed out.

Worry not; I’ve got you covered! 

In this episode, you'll discover how to make stress-free travel decisions for you and your baby, based on practical advice and real-life experiences of intended parents like you.

In this episode, you'll hear: 

00:00  Choosing the safest travel route for your newborn.

08:55  The quickest way to travel home with your baby

10:42  Drive away germ worries with road travel strategies.

13:17  Enjoy ultimate flexibility: Tailoring your drive for baby’s needs.

19:05  How baby slings and carriers make airports less hectic

22:53  Secrets to successful long car trips with your baby.

28:13  The most important safety gear for bringing your baby home

31:23  The travel options you’re totally overlooking

The choice between flying and driving with a newborn after surrogacy boils down to balancing safety, comfort, and logistical ease.

Ready to learn practical travel tips and make the best decision for your family? Let’s transform your travel jitters into a confident plan and bring your baby home safely after your surrogacy journey. 

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HealthyChildren.org - Car Seat Safety

Is paying more for a surrogate really worth it?

Choosing the right surrogate isn't an easy job. Like all intended parents, you want the best chance of having a healthy baby. 

So when you find an agency offering "premium" surrogates that meet extra requirements, it’s tempting. Even though it costs more, how can you put a price on something like this? You might feel pressured to stretch your budget for that so-called peace of mind.

Is this a big fat lie or extra security?

And then there’s the other side, the surrogates labeled “basic”, meeting different criteria.

The question is, what do these labels really mean? 

This episode breaks down the reality behind these marketing tactics and helps you make informed decisions to protect your journey and your finances.

In this episode, you'll discover:

04:41 Finding a trustworthy surrogate can be overwhelming

06:58 Choosing unqualified surrogates risks pregnancy complications

12:02 Surrogacy risks: Lower fees, Facebook groups, dubious agencies

15:56 Who really has final say on a surrogate

19:29 The sneaky ways agencies are creating false exclusivity to charge higher fees

22:24 The real guidelines to qualify a surrogate

25:23 How to use your power as an intended parent

29:23 Find helpful tools for your surrogacy journey

What’s influencing your decision to pick a surrogate?

Because you deserve to know the truth.

Listen now. 

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ASRM Surrogacy Recommendations (PDF)

#15 Surrogacy Requirements Decoded: What You Need to Know Now!
Surrogate Vetting Essentials

If you’re about to undergo GYN surgery, you need to know what could happen to your fertility. 

I needed a surrogate because fibroids and a myomectomy stole my fertility.

Too many times, women aren't fully informed about the risks tied to fibroid removal, endometriosis surgery, endometrial ablation, and other invasive procedures.

But what if you learned the full scope of your options before making life-changing decisions?

In this eye-opening episode of Surrogacy Made Simple Podcast, we dig into the need for comprehensive care and informed consent before GYN surgery. 

I share with you both as a surgeon and a patient. 

You’ll discover the often-hidden risks, the pros and cons of various treatment paths, and how to make confident, informed choices to protect your fertility.

Episode Highlights: 

06:04 How the growing OBGYN shortage will affect fertility 

15:23 How to manage ovarian cysts without compromising your fertility.

19:34 The truth about endometriomas: How they impact your ovarian reserve.

25:54 Fibroids should be preventable

34:02 Think embolization (UFE) is your best option for fibroids? You might want to think again.

40:33 Ask about ovary preservation before hysterectomy.

Your doctor might not have mentioned all these crucial alternatives—get the full picture on your fertility options.

If you want a baby (your own pregnancy or surrogacy) and you’re considering a GYN surgery, make sure you're fully informed before moving forward. This episode is an absolute must-listen.

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Surrogacy Starter Kit 

ACOG - Preparing for Surgery

ACOG - Uterine Artery Embolization

What's the right type of surrogacy relationship?

Are you feeling pressured to have a relationship in surrogacy that isn’t what you really want? 

When expectations aren’t met, things can fall apart. 

If your relationship and communication styles don’t match your vision, it can lead to anxiety and frustration, potentially causing a breakdown in your surrogacy journey.

But you can prevent this! Learn what works for you and how to find a good match.

Episode Highlights:

Are you aware of how your preferred relationship style will impact your surrogacy journey? Don’t leave your dreams to chance. Prevent misunderstandings from derailing your plans.

Listen now and create the right relationship for you!

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Surrogate ID quiz

Your First Meeting with a Surrogate: 6 Key Topics You Must Cover to Prevent a Broken Match

Surrogate Vetting Essentials

Are you nervous about independent surrogacy?

Uncertain about managing it all yourself?

Afraid you'll miss a crucial step? 

Or maybe you’re wondering if this is a barely legal, out of the box thing that puts you and your baby at serious risk. 

You’re not alone in feeling this way because most people don’t know the truth about independent surrogacy. 

Plus there’s a whole industry designed to keep it that way

But, as usual, we’re here to share secrets and help you make the rights decisions for you!

In this episode, you'll hear:

06:23 The basics: What is independent surrogacy and why do people choose it?

7:37 Why believing that independent surrogacy is “DIY” could lead to unnecessary stress

12:58 Independent surrogacy is not professional-free. The role of your expert team.

18:04 What skeptics won’t tell you: It’s perfectly legal

21:24 With the right resources and step-by-step guides, it’s easier than you think.

26:54 A surrogacy agency isn’t your only option for finding a surrogate

31:16 The truth about cost savings in independent surrogacy

Unpopular opinion… If you can manage a project, then you can handle independent surrogacy with confidence. 

Ready to demystify independent surrogacy and take control of your journey? You’ve got to listen to this episode—get all the insights and tools you need to succeed!

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Step by Step Guide & Checklist

Surrogate Vetting Essentials 

The New York State surrogacy agency license