Every father has had a "hat against the windshield" moment — the instant where frustration boils over and you see, with sudden clarity, exactly which parts of your own father you didn't want to become. In this Father's Day message, Elliott walks through one of Scripture's most painful family stories: Jacob's favoritism toward Joseph, and the jealousy and rage it cultivated in his other sons until they sold their own brother into slavery (Genesis 37:3-4, 18-24). It's an uncomfortable text, but an honest one — because it tells the truth about how a father's failures ripple through generations.
But the story doesn't end in the pit. Genesis 39:2-3 shows that even when Joseph was alone, betrayed, and enslaved in Egypt, God was with him. He never went passive. That truth anchors the entire message: while earthly fathers fail — sometimes badly — God the Father never has and never will (Zephaniah 3:17). For men carrying guilt over their own anger, absence, or failures as fathers, this message offers something better than self-improvement: freedom from the lie that those failures get the final word, and a call to stop earning worth and start being present.
This is a message for fathers, sons, and anyone wrestling with the weight of family history — on generational patterns, guilt, and what it means to reflect a Father who never abandons.