T&A Talk Sex

On this month's episode of Ask T&A, a listener writes in about his wife's hyper-sensitive clitoris and asks for some suggestions on what else he can do in the bedroom to please her.  Plus, is it OK if she only orgasms in one position?  And, if she has to masturbate herself to orgasm while I'm having sex with her, am I doing something wrong?  Then T&A clarify what STDs you can and cannot get from a sensual massage and the ladies read some listener's thoughtful  comments on last month's advice episode talking about consent.

Due to some technical glitch when moving to their new network, the very first 17 episodes of 'T&A' somehow didn't get aired.  So this week Episode Numero Uno is being made available especially for you from the secret archives of T&A.  Listen in as T&A introduce themselves and talk to 'The Immigrant', an anonymous friend of A's who just recently had her first (and only) experience as an escort- an opporutnity set up by her Dad... ?!?!  T&A were anonymous at the time, and the show was called 'Pushing Boundaries with T&A'.... they also were radio virgins- so be gentle :)  

To hear an update from 'The Immigrant', listen to Episode #92: '6 Texting Habits That Will Save Your Relationship'

In this latest episode T&A catch up on the somewhat wild week apart they’ve had when A vacationed in Montreal, took a sexy lover and had the best casual sex of her life so far, while also coming face to face with her lover’s alter, not so good, ‘sex personality’.  Plus, insight into what builds intimacy in daily life with your partner- and what tears it down.  And finally - T gets banned from her lover’s abode! Learn and laugh in this week’s episode with T&A.

T&A share the top things they love and hate that guys do, or don't do, in the bedroom.  After A has another maddening experience with a man and her breast, the girls thought it might be time to share some enlightening tidbits about some bedroom habits that don't work, but somehow still happen- like treating nipples like radio dials.  Prepare to be entertained and enlightened in this lively and informative roundtable chat with T&A's good friend 'Nicole'.

Every month listeners write in with their questions to Ask T&A.  In this month's episode (T&A's 100th show!!) one woman discovers multiple orgasms and masturbation bliss with her new Rabit vibrator, but after a month of using it now has a hard time orgasming with her partner.  Does she need to breakup with her vibrator?  Will she be able to orgasm with her partner again??  Plus, consent.  Consent is all over the media and one guy wants to know if T&A have ever been pushed beyond their limits, and just how exactly a guy is supposed to know if she's playing coy or really saying no?  Get your questions in for next month's episode by emailing [email protected]

Feminism is a hot topic today! With so much pressure to be a feminist - or be "pro-fem", wearing a "this is what a feminist looks like" t-shirt - T&A had to ask, what does it mean to be a feminist? After an alarming audition for a network TV show, 'A' questioned 'are we going in the right direction?' Listen in as 3 generations of women - Helen (79), Gina, from Gen-x, and Annie (17), all from the same family - discuss feminism.  ...and what does that mean for the men in our lives? These ladies speak honestly and openly about our own experiences, what concerns us most moving forward in our culture, and how we, as men and women, can all self-actualize for more contentment! 

Helene graduated college in 1957.  She hosted consciousness raising groups in the 60's, and worked for many years with the League of Women Voters on the Equal Credit Opportunity Act and more! Gina is an award winning filmmaker including films screened at Sundance Film Festival, shortlisted for an Oscar nomination, and collaboration on documentary work that lead to a Pulitzer Prize.  Annie is a Gen-Z girl about to graduate high school. She is already proactive in changing Sex Ed policies in New York and participates in various Civil Rights organizations.

Are you bored with sex? Not getting off like you used to? Maybe it's time to evolve! "How?", you ask?  Listen in as T&A discuss a new way of approaching sex that will keep you alive, invigorated, and in the game.  T gets honest about a profound shift in her sexual desire, and A helps process it with a breakdown of how we evolve as human beings in our sexuality to achieve mastery over our own desires - become the captain of our own ship.  How does our sex life evolve over the years? And why didn't anyone teach us this? We don't have to feel driven by our desires, but rather we can feel empowered by knowledge and experience as we choose the sexual experiences we want to have.. and with confidence.

In this lively and informative chat with Tripp host of the hot podcast, 'How To Talk To Girls', T&A get solid advice from a guy who's learned the hard way about dating and talking to women.  A social scientist of his own accord, Tripp shares some of his fascinating insights that are also- practical.  From key differences in men and women's communication styles, attraction and the friend zone, this is a great conversation to listen to if you want to be more natural, and succesfful, with women without having to follow douchy, dis-ingenuous 'bro' how-to's.  Check Tripp out @Trippadvice

In this month's advice episode listener's wanted to know where it's OK to cum on your partner and our thoughts on creampie eating, kissing after oral and even guys enjoying eating their own cum.  Plus, the rebound relationship, should it be encouraged rather than shunned?  And to top it all off, a great inquiry questioing the normalcy of period sex where T&A weigh in on the good, the bad, the ugly, and how to make it a success.  Email your questions to [email protected] to get your questions answered for next month!

Leah Knauer - actress & comedian voted one of Twitter's Funniest Women by SMOSH, & appeared on Not Safe with Nikki Glaser and Corporate, both on Comedy Central - talks with T&A about her time in abstinence club, and then the ladies talk openly about how to get over those breakups that hurt our hearts, and the age old problem of guys who don't get the hint that you're just not that into him.  What's the best way to handle all of these?! Leah shares openly, honestly, and with humor.