Today and in the last of this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE NINES: Disengagement... and if you say lazy I might just throw a fit.

We talk about disengagement, what PEACE really is, and what happens to the confidence about future effort when Nines stay too disengaged for too long.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE EIGHTS: Dominance and insensitivity... and really, they're not what you think they are.

We talk about what insensitivity really is, the actual meaning of dominance, and pissing (yes, seriously).

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE SEVENS: Frustration and impatience.

We talk about where these feelings start, what activity really means, and the anticipation cycle.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE SIXES: Projection.

We talk about how one cycle pings another, what happens when we don't own that the call is coming from inside the house, and how we can shift that to the intuition-gift of the 6.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE FIVES: Withholding

We talk about the deep terror of running out, what is "really" a resource, and what IS and isn't renewable.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE FOURS: Sense of inner deficiency.

We talk about the deep sense that something is missing, what happens when envy gets its hands on it, and the cycle fours go through trying to figure out what is going on with the foundation of their house.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE THREES: (Self) Deceit.

We talk about the why the (self) distinction matters, what purpose vanity serves for them, and what happens when we can't find the line between who we really are and the image we present.

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE TWOS: Unclaimed needs.

We talk about the gap between their pride and reality, what happens when we refuse to connect with what we need, and how to actually be a person in relationships (well, it's a start).

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Today and in this series we're unpacking a common coaching theme when working with TYPE ONES: Self Over-control.

We talk about the gap between ideals and reality, unclaimed and repressed anger, and what the FRICK to do with our standards.

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In part 2 of this weeks episode, we are going into your Enneagram defense mechanism: what is it, how do we start to practically get over it, and will Jackie ever pronounce that word correctly? Types 5-9 are covered in this episode.

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00:23 Type Five Isolation

06:33 Type Six Projection

12:22 Type Seven Idealization (note, traditionally rationalization, though in coaching I find rationalization is a symptom of idealizing)

17:48 Type Eight Denial

24:47 Type Nine Dissociation