TL;DR

In this thoughtful and engaging conversation, Phoebe Peppiatt, a Dubai-based dog trainer, shares her journey from corporate life to ethical, relationship-led dog training. Together with Mariska, she explores why reactivity is so common, especially in busy urban environments like the UAE, and how confidence, early socialisation, and environment shape behaviour over time. They discuss practical, compassionate approaches to common challenges such as separation anxiety, potty training, and overstimulation, while also highlighting the importance of daily routines, feeding setups, and learning to read canine body language. The episode closes with an important reminder: caring for yourself as a pet parent is not optional, it's part of caring well for your dog.

Guest Bio:

Phoebe Peppiatt is a Dubai-based dog trainer and the founder of Double Woof Dog Training. Originally from the UK, Phoebe has spent over a decade in the Middle East and more than five years working professionally with dogs and their humans around the world. Her approach is rooted in positive, ethical, and judgment-free training, with a strong focus on confidence, communication, and understanding behaviour beneath the surface. Having fostered many rescue dogs herself, Phoebe is deeply passionate about helping dogs stay out of shelters by supporting the human–dog relationship before challenges escalate.

During This Episode:

• Phoebe's journey from corporate life to founding Double Woof Dog Training
• Why lived experience with fostering shaped her training approach as much as any qualification
• Why reactivity is so common in busy urban environments like the UAE
• What Phoebe looks for beneath the surface of a reactive dog's behaviour
• How to create a calmer home environment that supports emotional regulation
• A practical, step-by-step approach to building confidence in reactive dogs
• Why early socialisation matters so much, and what the UAE context adds to that conversation
• Compassion for pet parents themselves, not just their dogs, under pressure and guilt
• The quiet signs that a dog's confidence is actually growing
• A gradual, trust-building approach to separation anxiety in apartment living
• Using enrichment and buttons to manage overstimulation
• Common misunderstandings between humans and dogs, and how to read canine body language
• Why humans usually need to change their behaviour first, not the dog
• How daily routines support a dog's emotional regulation
• Why feeding setup, posture, and comfort matter more than most pet parents realise
• A compassionate, consistency-first approach to potty training for puppies and adopted dogs
• Final reflections on why self-care is part of caring well for your dog

Takeaways:

• Patience and empathy are foundational to effective dog training. Phoebe's whole approach centers on understanding a dog's inner experience before addressing the behaviour itself.
• Dogs communicate stress and unmet needs through behaviour, not misbehaviour. What looks like disobedience is usually a signal, not defiance.
• A calm, low-stimulation environment supports emotional regulation. Household fragrances, noise, and visual stimulation can quietly raise a dog's baseline stress before they even leave the house.
• Early socialisation plays a key role in building confidence, and matters even more in a busy, urban environment like the UAE.
• Daily routines help dogs feel safe and settled. Predictability itself is a form of comfort and confidence-building.
• Separation anxiety improves through gradual trust-building, not force. Start with very short absences and build up slowly as trust grows.
• Feeding setups and environment can affect comfort and stress. Bowl height, stability, and posture during meals are part of a dog's overall sense of safety.
• Potty training succeeds with consistency, not punishment. Accidents are almost always about fear of being scolded, not spite.
• Many challenges stem from misunderstandings between humans and dogs. Learning to read canine body language changes how owners respond, often before the dog needs to change at all.
• Supporting your own wellbeing helps you show up better for your dog. Self-care isn't separate from good dog care, it's part of it.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• Double Woof Website, Facebook, Instagram and TikTok
• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
• Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[03:05] – Phoebe’s journey into dog training

[06:10] – Ethical training and lived experience vs qualifications

[09:26] – Reactivity: what sits beneath the behaviour

[11:40] – Creating a calmer home environment

[14:41] – Building confidence in reactive dogs

[18:04] – Early socialisation and the UAE context

[21:46] – Compassion, pressure, and empathy for dog parents

[22:57] – Quiet signs a dog is gaining confidence

[24:47] – Separation anxiety in apartment living

[28:45] – Buttons, enrichment, and managing overstimulation

[36:53] – Misunderstandings and canine body language

[39:10] – Why humans change first

[40:16] – Daily routines and emotional regulation

[43:10] – Feeding setup, posture, and comfort

[45:40] – Potty training for puppies and adopted dogs

[49:06] – Final reflections on self-care

[50:51] – Outro

FAQ

Why does my dog react so strongly to other dogs, noises, or people?

Reactivity is almost always a fear or confidence-based response rather than aggression or dominance, and it's shaped by the dog's environment, past experiences, and how safe they feel in the moment, which is especially common in busy urban environments.

Is my dog being spiteful when they have potty accidents in the house?

No. Dogs that have accidents indoors are usually anxious about being scolded, not being deliberately defiant, and consistency rather than punishment is what actually resolves potty training struggles.

How do I help my dog with separation anxiety?

Start by reducing the time your dog spends alone, then very gradually build up the length of absences so your dog learns, through gradual trust-building rather than force, that you always come back.

Does my dog's feeding setup actually matter for their stress levels?

Yes. Feeding posture, bowl height, and the overall setup can affect a dog's comfort and stability, and are worth paying attention to as part of their daily routine.

At what age should I start socialising my puppy?

Early socialisation plays a key role in building confidence, and it matters even more in busy environments like the UAE, though gradual, calm exposure still helps dogs who missed that early window.

How do I know if my dog is gaining confidence?

Watch for the quiet signs Phoebe describes, like calmer behaviour, easier recovery from novelty, and more settled body language day to day, not just the absence of obvious reactivity.

How can I take care of myself while managing a reactive or anxious dog?

Supporting your own wellbeing, whether that's rest, support from others, or simply lowering your own expectations during a hard training period, is part of caring well for your dog, not a distraction from it.

How do I balance my dog's needs with daily life in a busy environment?

Focus on calm, low-stimulation routines at home, gradual confidence-building outside, and consistent daily structure, since these all work together to help a dog feel safe rather than overwhelmed.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

Feeding posture is something most of us never question, yet it's something our dogs do every single day. In this solo episode, Mariska explores the often-overlooked role of feeding posture in canine health, and why elevated bowls can be supportive for some dogs but harmful for others. Drawing on veterinary literature, canine physiotherapy guidance, and her lived experience with Piper (whose own physio unexpectedly asked about her feeding setup), Mariska breaks down how feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders, and spine, why brachycephalic dogs like French Bulldogs and Pugs often struggle more, what the research really says about elevated bowls and bloat (GDV), subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often miss, and how to think about feeding as a system, not just a bowl. This episode isn't blanket advice, and it's not about telling you what to buy. It's about helping you notice what your dog's body might be asking for.

During This Episode:

• Why no one really talks about dog feeding posture, even though it happens every single day
• An important disclaimer up front: this episode is not blanket advice that every dog should use an elevated bowl
• The unexpected question from Piper's physio that started this whole investigation: "What does Piper's feeding setup look like?"
• How Piper's shoulder and neck stiffness led to physio sessions and the realization that her food bowl (not just her water bowl) mattered
• Why feeding from a flat, floor-level bowl requires repeated neck flexion and a forward weight shift, especially taxing for small dogs with a large head-to-body ratio
• Which dogs are most likely to benefit from posture-supportive feeding: brachycephalic breeds (Frenchies, Pugs, Bostons), senior dogs, dogs with arthritis, and dogs with or at risk of IVDD
• Subtle signs of neck and shoulder stiffness pet parents often miss, including neck folds in healthy-weight dogs
• Why treating stiffness is never just one solution: it usually requires a combination of vet or physio-guided approaches (acupuncture, laser therapy, water treadmill, targeted core-strengthening exercises)
• What the research really says about elevated bowls and bloat (GDV): the increased risk is specifically documented in large, deep-chested breeds, not universally across all dogs
• Why dogs who gulp their food fast may need a slow feeder rather than an elevated bowl, since eating pace matters more than height in that case
• For the right dogs, posture-adjusted feeding can reduce air gulping, improve swallowing comfort, and reduce regurgitation and aspiration-related issues
• Why brachycephalic dogs are different: altered airway anatomy and swallowing mechanics mean breathing and digestion are closely linked
• What "elevated" actually means: the ideal feeding height brings the bowl to roughly shoulder/lower-chest height for a neutral neck position, not simply "as tall as possible"
• Why canine physios typically start with simple, everyday systems (sleeping surface, harness fit, flooring, stairs, and feeding posture) before recommending dramatic interventions
• Reframing feeding as a system, not just a product, considering surface, height, pace, and the dog's individual needs together
• Why the search for the right feeding setup for Piper (who struggles to eat from a standard bowl) led directly to Tails and Tones developing its own elevated feeding system

Takeaways:

• Feeding posture is crucial for a dog's health, even though it's a daily habit almost no one thinks to question.
• Not all dogs should use elevated bowls; individual needs vary. This episode is intentionally not blanket advice, since size, structure, breed, and health history all matter.
• Feeding setups can impact a dog's comfort and wellbeing, since repeated neck-down posture multiple times a day can add up to real strain over time.
• Signs of discomfort in dogs can be subtle but important to notice, including neck folds, stiffness after rest, or hesitance to bend down.
• Brachycephalic dogs are particularly at risk for feeding-related issues, since their altered airway and swallowing anatomy closely link breathing and digestion.
• Elevated bowls can help with posture but are not a one-size-fits-all solution. Research on bloat (GDV) risk applies specifically to large, deep-chested breeds, not universally.
• Daily feeding habits can shape a dog's body over time. A single awkward movement doesn't matter much, but repeated strain multiple times a day, every day, can.
• Consulting with a vet or canine physio is essential for tailored advice, since the right feeding height and setup depends on your individual dog's shoulder height, breed, and health history.
• Creating a supportive feeding environment can improve a dog's quality of life, particularly for brachycephalic, senior, arthritic, or IVDD-prone dogs.
• Pet parents should be proactive in addressing their dog's feeding needs by noticing what feeding actually looks like for their dog, rather than assuming a bowl is just a bowl.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
• Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Why no one talks about dog feeding posture

[01:05]- Important context: this isn’t advice for every dog

[03:20]- Piper’s physio moment & the unexpected question

[06:10]- Why feeding posture affects the neck, shoulders & spine

[09:20]- The emotional impact of chronic discomfort in dogs

[10:45]- Subtle signs of stiffness pet parents often miss

[13:40]- Treating stiffness: why it’s never just one solution

[15:10]- Elevated bowls, digestion & GDV, a balanced view

[17:55]- Why brachycephalic dogs are different

[19:30]- What “elevated” actually means (ideal feeding height)

[21:25]- Why physios start with everyday systems like feeding

[22:45]- Rethinking feeding: systems, not products

[23:30]- Final reflections, waitlist & how to follow along

FAQ

Should all dogs use elevated bowls?

No. Elevated bowls are not universal advice; they tend to benefit brachycephalic breeds, senior dogs, and dogs with arthritis or IVDD, but may not be appropriate for large, deep-chested breeds prone to bloat (GDV) or fast eaters who gulp their food.

Do elevated bowls cause or prevent bloat in dogs?

The research on elevated bowls and bloat (GDV) primarily applies to large, deep-chested breeds like Great Danes and Weimaraners, showing an increased risk profile in those specific dogs. It is not established as a universal risk or benefit across all breeds.

Why are brachycephalic dogs more affected by feeding posture?

Brachycephalic dogs like French Bulldogs and Pugs have altered airway anatomy and swallowing mechanisms, meaning breathing and digestion are closely linked, so even small changes in head and neck posture during feeding can affect how comfortably and safely they eat.

What is the ideal height for an elevated dog bowl?

The ideal height brings the bowl to roughly your dog's shoulder or lower chest level so their neck stays in a neutral position while eating, rather than raising the bowl as high as possible. The right height varies by individual dog size and structure.

What are subtle signs that my dog might have neck or shoulder stiffness?

Subtle signs include neck folds in a healthy-weight dog, stiffness or hesitance after resting, reluctance to bend down, or noticeable discomfort during everyday movements like eating. None of these are a diagnosis on their own, but they're worth mentioning to your vet.

Can an elevated bowl alone fix my dog's stiffness or discomfort?

No. An elevated bowl can help support posture, but treating stiffness usually requires a combination of approaches, such as vet or physio-guided therapies, targeted core-strengthening exercises, and appropriate feeding posture together.

What should I do if my dog eats too fast?

If your dog gulps their food quickly, a slow feeder designed to reduce eating pace is generally more important than changing the bowl's height, since eating speed plays a bigger role in digestive comfort than posture in these cases.

How do I know if my dog would benefit from a posture-adjusted feeding setup?

Consult your vet or a canine physiotherapist, who can assess your dog's individual breed, structure, and health history to determine whether a posture-adjusted or elevated feeding setup would genuinely help.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach Coeli (Chelly) Fortun joins Mariska for a gentle, deeply honest conversation about caring for her 15-year-old Shih Tzu, Manolo, through canine dementia, degenerative myelopathy, and arthritis, and what it meant to give him his "last best day." Coeli shares the story behind her viral last-day video, why nutrition and community were central to both Manolo's care and her cat Snuffles living to 20, and the philosophy that reframed her hardest decision: "it's not about fixing aging, it's about supporting good days," and "euthanasia isn't giving up, it's compassion."

In this episode, we sit down for a gentle and deeply honest conversation with Coeli Fortun, a pet photographer and certified pet nutrition coach, as she shares what it was like to care for her senior dog, Manolo, through decline, and what it meant to give him his last best day.

Together, we talk about the bond we build with our pets over a lifetime, the role nutrition and supportive care can play as they age, and the long, emotional road that leads to end-of-life decisions. Chelly opens up about grief, judgment, and the quiet relief that can coexist with loss, and why community matters so much during these moments.

This episode is for anyone loving a senior pet, grieving one they’ve lost, or navigating the question no one prepares you for. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to go through it without compassion or support.

Guest Bio:

Coeli (Chelly) Fortun is a Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach whose work centers on documenting the deep bond between pets and their humans. After caring for her Shih Tzu, Manolo (15 y.o), through three years of senior decline (including canine dementia, degenerative myelopathy, and arthritis) and her cat Snuffles (20y.o), through cancer, she began sharing their stories openly and found comfort in the community that formed around them.

During This Episode:

• Coeli's background as a Toronto-based photographer and certified pet nutrition coach
• How caring for her cat Snuffles, who lived to 20, first drew Coeli into pet nutrition coaching
• The role good nutrition played in extending both Snuffles' and Manolo's quality of life
• Why photographing the bond between pets and their humans became Coeli's life's work
• The story behind Manolo's viral "last best day" video, filmed at a park with strangers
• Why Coeli and her partner chose to spend Manolo's final hours in public rather than privately
• The slow, monthslong accumulation of symptoms that signaled Manolo's decline: nighttime yelping, loss of mobility, worsening arthritis, blindness, and deafness
• The quality of life checklist that helped Coeli and her partner make their decision
• A canine behaviorist's rule of thumb: if a dog can't do at least three of their four favorite things anymore, they're no longer living a happy dog's life
• The judgment and criticism Coeli faced online, and how she processed both support and hate in the comments
• Why community (vets, physiotherapists, chiropractors, and fellow pet parents) was essential to getting through the hardest year of her life
• How Coeli holds space for her ongoing grief, including advice for others going through anticipatory grief
• The powerful message from a 20-year veteran vet tech: "euthanasia isn't giving up, it's compassion"
• What Coeli wishes she'd known earlier, including the value of documenting the hard days, not just the good ones
• What Manolo's last day actually looked like, and the quiet moment that will stay with Coeli forever

Takeaways:

• Chelly's journey into pet photography began with her own pets — a desire to document the emotional bond between pets and their humans, sparked by regret over not taking enough photos of her cat Snuffles.
• The emotional bond between pets and their humans is profound. Photography, for Chelly, became a way to honor routines, inside jokes, and connection that often go unseen by the rest of society.
• Nutrition plays a crucial role in the health of senior pets. Chelly's cat Snuffles lived to 20 largely due to a focus on fresh, quality nutrition, which also shaped how she supported Manolo through his decline.
• Creating lasting memories with pets is essential for pet parents. Chelly encourages documenting both the good days and the hard ones, since both become part of honoring a pet's full story.
• Euthanasia is a compassionate choice, not a sign of giving up. A 20-year veteran vet tech reminded Chelly that ending suffering is a gift, not a defeat.
• Grief is a complex and non-linear process for pet parents. Chelly describes it as a mix of grief, relief, and joy that resurfaces unexpectedly, even months later.
• Community support is vital during the grieving process. Vets, physiotherapists, chiropractors, and fellow pet parents became Chelly's closest support system through Manolo's decline.
• It's important to seek out others who understand your experience, whether through Facebook support groups or local pet parent communities, rather than facing it alone.
• Documenting both good and bad days can be therapeutic and can help other pet parents feel less alone in similar situations.
• Cherishing the last moments with a pet can bring peace, even amid the sadness, by focusing on what brought them joy rather than what was lost.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• Coeli Fortun, Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTok
• Manolo last best day video
• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
• Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[03:45]- Meet Chelly: Photographer, pet nutrition coach & senior pet advocate

[05:22]- How photographing her own pets changed everything

[07:27]- Why nutrition played a major role in extending her pets’ quality of life

[09:15]- “It’s not about fixing aging, it’s about supporting good days”

[12:24]- The story behind Manolo’s last-day video

[15:11]- Why the park, the sign, and strangers mattered so much

[16:06]- Turning grief into connection: sharing to help even one person feel less alone

[17:10]- Why end-of-life decisions are never “overnight”

[18:21]- Understanding canine dementia (and why no one talks about it)

[20:24]- The Quality of Life checklist that changed everything

[21:05]- “If they can’t do the dog things they love anymore…”

[23:37]- Sensory loss, fear, and what senior decline really looks like

[26:03]- How vets and specialists helped confirm it wasn’t “giving up”

[27:40]- Holding grief and relief at the same time

[29:25]- How to hold space for grief when the world doesn’t understand

[32:13]- Why community is everything during senior pet care

[35:16]- What to say to yourself when you feel exhausted, judged, or overwhelmed

[38:03]- “Euthanasia isn’t giving up, it’s compassion”

[42:04]- The moment Manolo showed them he was ready

FAQ

How do I know when it's time to euthanize my senior dog?

A helpful guideline shared in this episode is to consider whether your dog can still do at least three of their four favorite things — if they've lost the ability to do almost everything that made them happy, it may be time to consult your vet about quality of life.

What is canine dementia and how does it progress?

Canine dementia in this episode was described as a slow accumulation of symptoms, starting with nighttime restlessness and yelping that gradually extends throughout the day, often accompanied by confusion, disorientation, and loss of vision or hearing.

Is euthanasia giving up on my pet?

No — as a longtime veterinary technician told Coeli, euthanasia is not giving up, it is a compassionate act that ends suffering and preserves a pet's dignity and peace when their quality of life has significantly declined.

How can I cope with grief after losing a senior pet?

Allowing yourself to feel grief in the moment it arises, rather than suppressing it, and leaning on communities of people who understand the experience (such as Facebook support groups for pet loss or canine dementia) can help you process grief in a healthier way.

What role does nutrition play in a senior pet's quality of life?

Good nutrition can meaningfully extend a senior pet's quality of life and help manage conditions like arthritis and gut health, though any major dietary changes should be made in consultation with a vet or certified pet nutritionist.

How do I deal with people who judge my decisions about my senior pet's care?

Recognize that people who judge from the outside don't see the full picture of your pet's health and daily struggles, and instead seek support from people who understand, such as fellow pet parents or professionals who were part of your pet's care journey.

What is a "quality of life checklist" and how can it help?

A quality of life checklist, like the one referenced in this episode, is a structured tool that helps pet parents objectively assess a pet's comfort, mobility, appetite, and happiness to guide difficult end-of-life decisions.

Should I document my pet's decline, even the hard days?

Yes — Coeli shares that she wishes she had documented more of the difficult days alongside the good ones, since that footage can help other pet parents feel less alone and reduce the stigma around senior pet decline.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

This episode dives deep into the essential care and health considerations for French Bulldogs, exploring their rising popularity, common medical issues, and the importance of responsible breeding. Dr. Sarah Ramsey, an Advanced Veterinary Practitioner based in Dubai, shares her expertise on early care, recognizing health problems, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle for these beloved pets. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the unique needs of French Bulldogs, from nutrition to veterinary care, including a standout moment where Dr. Sarah confirms that an elevated feeding setup can really help this breed.

Guest Bio:

Dr. Sarah Ramsey, originally from West Sussex in the UK, graduated from The Royal (Dick) School of Veterinary Studies in Edinburgh in 2006 and also holds a degree in Parasitology from Glasgow University. She has practiced acupuncture since 2007, is a member of the ABVA, and earned her Certificate in Small Animal Medicine from the University of Liverpool in 2016, later achieving Advanced Veterinary Practitioner status in 2022. With a special interest in feline medicine, oncology, pain management, and end-of-life care, Dr. Sarah has held senior roles including Clinical Director of a two-site practice in the UK and Head of Medicine at a London small animal hospital. She relocated to the UAE in 2021 with her husband, two children, and a growing rescue family of cats, alongside her Bedlington Whippet, Snowy, and a tortoise named Taco. Beyond veterinary medicine, she is a passionate runner, ultramarathon finisher, yoga practitioner, and stand-up paddleboarder, with recent adventures in aerial gymnastics and a goal of completing a triathlon within the next year.

During This Episode:

• Dr. Sarah Ramsey's background and introduction to French Bulldog care
• The rising popularity of French Bulldogs and why that matters for prospective owners
• Understanding the key health risks that come with the breed
• What to look for when choosing the right French Bulldog puppy or rescue
• Early care essentials for a new French Bulldog
• Recognizing breathing issues in French Bulldogs before they become emergencies
• Understanding Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome (BOAS) in depth
• Why early intervention matters so much for this breed
• Assessing whether and when surgical intervention is needed
• Neutering and its ideal timing for French Bulldogs
• Setting up a French Bulldog's home and routine for long-term success
• Understanding IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) in French Bulldogs
• Emergency responses to proprioceptive deficits, a key warning sign of spinal issues
• Why imaging matters for assessing spinal health
• Feeding posture and the real benefits of an elevated feeding system for French Bulldogs
• Health considerations to weigh when choosing the right puppy
• How specific breed characteristics shape long-term health outcomes
• Grooming and maintenance routines for French Bulldogs
• Dietary needs and ideal feeding frequency for the breed
• Veterinary care, bloodwork, and why baseline health checks matter
• Proactive versus reactive health management
• What a comprehensive veterinary checkup should actually include
• Recognizing subtle signs of discomfort most owners miss
• The role of research in responsible pet ownership
• Why ethical breeding practices matter for the future of the breed
• Dr. Sarah's final thoughts on French Bulldog care

Takeaways:

• French Bulldogs require special care due to their unique health issues. Their compact build and short skull shape a long list of breed-specific risks worth understanding before you bring one home.
• Research is crucial before bringing a French Bulldog home. Understanding the realistic medical and financial commitment upfront prevents heartbreak later.
• Regular vet check-ups can help catch health issues early. Baseline bloodwork and consistent visits make it far easier to spot subtle changes before they become emergencies.
• Brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs often need BOAS surgery. Widening the airway and shortening the soft palate can be genuinely life-changing for breathing and comfort.
• Maintaining a healthy body condition is vital for their well-being. Extra weight puts additional strain on already compromised airways and joints.
• Feeding practices should be tailored to the individual dog's needs. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to frequency, portion, or posture.
• Using an elevated feeding setup can really help this breed. It supports easier swallowing and more comfortable posture during meals.
• Early socialization and training are important for French Bulldogs. Building good habits and confidence early supports a well-adjusted adult dog.
• Recognizing signs of pain or discomfort can lead to better health outcomes. Subtle changes in posture, energy, or mood are often the first clue something is wrong.
• Ethical breeding practices are essential to reduce health risks. Responsible breeders prioritize health testing over appearance trends.
• French Bulldogs can live happier lives with proper care and attention. With the right knowledge and support, the breed's challenges are manageable.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• World Small Animal Veterinary Association (WSAVA) Body Condition Score Card
• Dr Well Website, Instagram
• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
• Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Introduction to French Bulldog Care

[05:15]- The Popularity of French Bulldogs

[06:39]- Understanding French Bulldog Health Risks

[10:18]- Choosing the Right French Bulldog

[11:32]- Early Care for Your French Bulldog

[14:55]- Recognizing Breathing Issues in French Bulldogs

[16:34]- Understanding Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome (BOAS)

[19:06]- The Importance of Early Intervention for French Bulldogs

[21:36]- Assessing Surgical Needs in French Bulldogs

[22:28]- Neutering and Its Timing for French Bulldogs

[26:21]- Setting Up French Bulldogs for Success

[30:26]- Understanding IVDD in French Bulldogs

[34:13]- Emergency Responses to Proprioceptive Deficits

[35:08]- The Importance of Imaging for Spinal Health

[36:54]- Feeding Posture and the Benefits of an elevated feeding system for French Bulldogs

[38:45]- Choosing the Right Puppy: Health Considerations

[39:38]- The Impact of Breed Characteristics on Health

[40:57]- Grooming and Maintenance for French Bulldogs

[43:28]- Dietary Needs and Feeding Frequency for French Bulldogs

[48:58]- Veterinary Care and Blood Work for French Bulldogs

[49:14]- Importance of Baseline Health Checks

[50:01]- Proactive vs Reactive Health Management

[51:47]- Comprehensive Veterinary Checkups

[53:09]- Recognizing Subtle Signs of Discomfort

[55:49]- The Role of Research in Pet Ownership

[57:44]- Ethical Breeding Practices

[58:59]- Health Considerations for French Bulldogs

[01:01:51]- Final Thoughts on French Bulldog Care

Bonus: Frenchie Nose-to-Tail Health Checklist

👃 Nose & Breathing

☐ Nostrils open and symmetrical

☐ Breathing is quiet (no excessive snorting, wheezing, or rasping)

☐ No panting at rest

☐ No blue/pale gums

☐ Able to exercise/play without stopping quickly

👀 Eyes

☐ No redness

☐ No excessive tearing or staining

☐ No squinting or blinking more than normal

☐ Corneas look smooth & clear (no cloudy patches or scratches)

☐ Check corners of eyes for any discharge

🐶 Skin & Face Folds

☐ Clean between facial folds

☐ No redness or moisture

☐ No smell from folds

☐ No crusting or irritation

☐ Chin and lip folds clean and dry

👂 Ears

☐ No redness

☐ No odor

☐ No waxy buildup

☐ Dog is comfortable when ears are touched

🦷 Mouth & Teeth

☐ Gums pink and healthy

☐ No broken or loose teeth

☐ Breath smells normal

☐ No difficulty chewing

🧴 Body & Skin

☐ No redness, dry patches, or hotspots

☐ No new lumps or bumps (if found, note location + size)

☐ Coat looks healthy & shiny

☐ No excessive itching or licking

🦴 Spine, Posture & Mobility

☐ Walks normally (no stiffness, limping, or hopping)

☐ Able to jump up/down as usual

☐ No hesitation on stairs

☐ When running/playing, no signs of pain

☐ No sensitivity when gently feeling along the spine

🐾 Paws & Feet

☐ Between toes clean

☐ No interdigital cysts or swelling

☐ Nails an appropriate length

☐ Paw pads clean and free of cracks

💩 Tummy & Toileting

☐ Stool normal (note soft, loose, mucus, blood, or changes)

☐ No vomiting/regurgitation

☐ Eating normally

☐ Drinking normal amounts

⚖️ Weight & Body Condition

☐ Rib check: Can feel ribs without pressing hard

☐ Waist visible from above

☐ Belly tuck visible from side

☐ Compare with WSAVA Body Condition Score chart

🛁 Grooming Reminders

☐ Quick rinse after beach or sand

☐ Weekly brush-out

☐ Bath only as needed (mild dog-specific wash)

☐ Clean folds, underarms, groin if needed

☐ Check nails weekly

❤️ Behavior & Mood

☐ Normal energy levels

☐ No sudden clinginess or hiding

☐ No unusual aggression or irritability

☐ Sleeping and playing normally

FAQ

What health problems are French Bulldogs most prone to?

French Bulldogs commonly face breathing issues related to BOAS, skin and fold-related irritation, eye sensitivity, spinal issues like IVDD, and joint concerns, which is why understanding these risks before adoption matters so much.

What is BOAS and why does it matter for French Bulldogs?

BOAS (Brachycephalic Obstructive Airway Syndrome) is a breathing condition caused by the compressed skull shape of brachycephalic breeds like French Bulldogs, and recognizing the early signs, along with timely surgical intervention when needed, can significantly improve a dog's comfort and quality of life.

Are elevated bowls good for French Bulldogs?

Yes, an elevated feeding setup can really help French Bulldogs by supporting a more comfortable feeding posture, which is especially valuable given their unique anatomy.

What is IVDD and why are French Bulldogs prone to it?

IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) affects the spine and can cause pain, weakness, or proprioceptive deficits (where a dog struggles to sense the position of their feet), and French Bulldogs are prone to it due to their compact spinal structure, making imaging and prompt veterinary care essential if symptoms appear.

How do I know if my French Bulldog is in pain or discomfort?

Subtle signs like changes in posture, reluctance to move, altered energy levels, or shifts in mood can all indicate discomfort, and recognizing these early leads to better long-term health outcomes.

How often should French Bulldogs see the vet?

Regular, proactive veterinary care with baseline bloodwork and comprehensive checkups helps catch health issues early, rather than waiting to respond only once a problem has become obvious.

What should I look for when choosing a French Bulldog puppy?

Look for ethical breeding practices, transparency about health testing, and realistic conversations about the breed's known health risks, since research before bringing a puppy home is one of the most important steps you can take.

How should I groom and feed my French Bulldog day to day?

Grooming should include regular fold cleaning, nail checks, and an as-needed bathing routine, while feeding should be tailored to the individual dog's needs, including posture, frequency, and portion size.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska discusses how to make the holiday season magical for dogs. She shares the Elfie for Dogs tradition, holiday enrichment ideas, safety tips, and ways to create special memories with pets. The episode emphasizes the importance of connection and presence during the festive season, reminding pet parents to prioritize their dogs' needs and joy over Pinterest-perfect setups.

During This Episode:

• Live update: the elevated feeding system story and founding pack waitlist
• What is Elfie for Dogs? A dog-friendly daily tradition and how it got started
• The 25-day printable Elfie pack, and Mariska's favorite Elfie setups (pancakes, binoculars, naughty or nice)
• Holiday enrichment ideas to help dogs cope with festive stress
• The Christmas "snafari" walk, a slow, sniff-focused walk through the holiday season
• Wrapping paper treasure hunts and festive lick mats
• Advent calendars, both store-bought and DIY
• Christmas Eve treat puzzles and setting up a cozy den
• Holiday safety for dogs, including toxic foods and guest safety
• Decoration hazards to watch for around the house
• Managing guests, stress, and decompression spaces for your dog
• Traveling with your dog during the holidays
• Special holiday traditions: paw print ornaments and Christmas Eve walks
• Matching pajamas, pup stockings, and family photos
• Gift ideas that support your dog's wellbeing, plus enrichment gifts, treats, and acts of kindness
• Where Tails Meet Hearts: a tribute to Tika the Iggy
• Paw-lebrity of the Week: Frederick and Royston
• Final message: presence over perfection

Takeaways:

• Make the holidays magical for your dog. Small, consistent moments of connection matter far more than elaborate setups.
• The Elfie for Dogs tradition adds fun and creativity. A daily printable scene, like pancakes or binoculars, gives you a simple way to bond each day of December.
• Enrichment activities help dogs cope with holiday stress. Snafari walks, wrapping paper treasure hunts, and festive lick mats give dogs an outlet for changed routines.
• Safety is crucial during the festive season. Toxic foods, decoration hazards, and unfamiliar guests all need extra attention in December.
• Create special traditions to bond with your dog. Paw print ornaments, Christmas Eve walks, and matching pajamas build memories you'll return to every year.
• Dogs thrive on connection and presence during holidays. They notice when you slow down and include them, more than any decoration ever could.
• Use everyday items for holiday enrichment activities. Wrapping paper, cardboard, and pantry staples can all become simple enrichment tools.
• Be mindful of food hazards for dogs during gatherings. Brief your guests before they offer your dog anything from the table.
• Set up a cozy retreat for your dog during busy times. A decompression den with familiar items gives an overstimulated dog somewhere calm to go.
• Gifts should support your dog's well-being and happiness. Choose enrichment toys, comfort items, or a rescue donation over pure novelty.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• Tails and Tones Elfie Experience for Dogs
• Episode 19: From Bored to Brilliant: How Daily Enrichment Builds Your Dog’s Confidence with Tori Mistick
• Episode 6: Toxic Foods + Printable Guide
• DIY Advent Calendar Video
• Alex Cearns
• Furchild
• Where Tails meet hearts: Tika @tikatheiggy (Dad's Tribute)
• Paw-lebrity of the Week: Frederick & Royston @frederickandroyston (Christmas photoshoot and video)
• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here
• Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here
• Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] — Intro

[00:40] — The Elevated Feeding System Story & Founding Pack

[02:18] — Welcome to the Episode

[04:10] — What Is Elfie for Dogs?

[05:20] — The 25-Day Printable Elfie Pack

[06:15] — My Favourite Elfie Setups (Pancakes, Binoculars, Naughty/Nice)

[07:30] — Holiday Enrichment Ideas

[09:00] — Christmas “Snafari” Walk

[10:40] — Wrapping Paper Treasure Hunt

[11:20] — Festive Lick Mats

[12:15] — Advent Calendars (Store-Bought & DIY)

[13:05] — Christmas Eve Treat Puzzle & Cozy Den Setup

[13:32] — Holiday Safety for Dogs

[15:15] — Toxic Foods & Guest Safety

[17:40] — Decoration Hazards

[18:40] — Guests, Stress & Decompression Spaces

[19:30] — Traveling With Your Dog During the Holidays

[20:25] — Special Holiday Traditions With Your Dog

[21:45] — Paw-Print Ornaments & Christmas Eve Walks

[22:15] — Matching PJs, Pup Stockings & Family Photos

[22:55] — Gift Ideas That Support Wellbeing

[24:45] — Enrichment Gifts, Treats & Acts of Kindness

[25:06] — Where Tails Meet Hearts: Tika the Iggy Tribute

[27:28] — Paw-lebrity of the Week: Fredrick and Royston

[28:40] — Final Message: Presence Over Perfection

FAQ

What is Elfie for Dogs?

Elfie for Dogs is a dog-friendly holiday tradition where you set up a small, playful daily scene throughout December, using ideas like a tiny pancake breakfast, binoculars for "bird watching," or a naughty-or-nice treat setup, using a printable pack to guide you.

What foods are toxic to dogs during the holidays?

Common holiday foods that are dangerous for dogs are covered in detail in Episode 6's toxic foods guide, and general holiday hazards include chocolate, grapes and raisins, onions and garlic, xylitol, alcohol, and fatty or bone-in scraps from the table, so it's worth briefing guests before they feed your dog anything.

Are Christmas decorations dangerous for dogs?

Yes, tinsel, ribbons, and small ornaments can all be choking or ingestion hazards, so dogs should be supervised around a decorated tree, especially in the first few days.

What are some good enrichment activities for dogs during the holidays?

A Christmas "snafari" (a slow, sniff-focused walk), a wrapping paper treasure hunt with hidden treats, and a festive lick mat are all low-cost, high-value ways to keep a dog engaged during a busy season.

How can I help my dog cope with holiday guests and noise?

Set up a quiet decompression space with your dog's bed and favorite items so they have somewhere calm to retreat to if the holiday hustle and bustle becomes overwhelming.

What are meaningful, low-cost holiday traditions I can start with my dog?

An annual paw print ornament, a quiet Christmas Eve walk together, a pup stocking, matching pajamas, and an annual family photo are all simple traditions that become more meaningful each year.

What are good holiday gift ideas for dogs?

Gifts that genuinely support wellbeing, like enrichment toys, comfort items, and treats tied to your dog's actual needs, or even a donation to a rescue in your dog's name, tend to matter more than novelty gifts.

Should I travel with my dog over the holidays?

If you do travel with your dog, bring familiar comfort items like their bed or a worn piece of your clothing to help them settle more easily in a new environment.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

Mariska Nell sits down with science writer and longtime National Geographic contributor Jennifer S. Holland to explore what it really means to be "dog smart." Jennifer shares stories and insights from her latest book, Dog Smart: Life-Changing Lessons in Canine Intelligence, including why an estimated 85% of the world's dogs aren't pets, how street dogs adapt and thrive, and what search-and-rescue and cancer-detection dogs reveal about canine superpowers. They dive into everyday intelligence, like the quiet genius of a dog waiting at the window, why so-called "bad dogs" are often just misunderstood or under-exercised, how ear cropping and tail docking can impact communication, and why letting dogs sniff, move, and "be dogs" is one of the most loving things we can do. The conversation blends science, personal stories (including Mariska's Frenchie Piper and Jennifer's dog Monk), and practical takeaways for modern pet parents who want to better understand and support their dogs' emotional and cognitive lives.

Guest Bio:

Jennifer S. Holland is a science and nature writer with a long career as a staff writer at National Geographic. Her work focuses on animals, conservation, and the natural world, and she is the bestselling author of the Unlikely Friendships book series, which shares true stories of surprising bonds between animals. Her latest book, Dog Smart: Life-Changing Lessons in Canine Intelligence, examines what it means to be smart in the world of the dog, weaving together cutting-edge research, field reporting, and stories from trainers, working dogs, and beloved pets. Jennifer lives with her dog Monk and continues to write, speak, and share about the rich inner lives of animals.

During This Episode:

• Jennifer Holland's background as a National Geographic staff writer and bestselling author of the Unlikely Friendships book series
• Why she turned her attention to dogs specifically for her latest book, Dog Smart
• Why an estimated 85% of the world's dogs aren't pets, and how street and roaming dogs adapt and thrive
• Monk's bed-spot trick: an everyday example of canine problem-solving
• Talking buttons and what they reveal about cause and effect, connection, and communication
• How dogs are trained to sit still in MRI machines, and what that research reveals about canine cognition
• A search-and-rescue scent-tracking story that shows the scale of canine scent detection
• How signals, cropped ears, and tail docking affect a dog's ability to communicate, and why it's on us to step up for them
• Why "bad dogs" are often just misdirected intelligence rather than a behavior problem
• Why exercise, both physical and cognitive, is non-negotiable for a well-adjusted dog
• Our responsibility as pet parents: sniffing, breed needs, and true partnership with our dogs
• A deeper truth about intelligence and the value of every dog's existence, pet or not
• Jennifer's signature takeaway: "let dogs be dogs"
• Jennifer's one message to every pet parent

Takeaways:

• Dogs are communicators first. Body language, subtle signals, and redundancy matter, and cropped ears or docked tails can limit a dog's natural communication tools, so supervise thoughtfully.
• 85% of the world's dogs aren't pets. Street and roaming dogs occupy a valid ecological niche, and their adaptability is a form of intelligence in its own right.
• Genius comes in many forms. From cancer detection to waiting at the window, "smart" includes problem-solving, emotional attunement, and connection.
• Training isn't just about obedience. Many "bad behaviors" are unmet needs or misdirected intelligence, and compassionate, consistent training, with the right trainer, changes outcomes.
• Exercise is non-negotiable. Physical and cognitive work together reduce frustration and destructive behaviors.
• Let dogs be dogs. Sniffing is learning, exploration builds optimism, and partnership matters more than possession.
• Talking buttons are a fun extra. They're useful for enrichment and cause-and-effect learning, while dog-forward communication still comes first.
• Humility helps. Understanding dogs well can make us better, more observant humans too.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Jennifer’s website

Dog Smart the book

Jennifer's Unlikely series books

Jennifer on social: Instagram/TikTok / Facebook

Sign up to our Tails and Tones newsletter here

Sign up to our Tails and Tones waiting list for our first product (Elevated Food System) here

Find Tails and Tones on our socials: Instagram / Facebook / TikTok / LinkedIn / Website

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]- Intro

[02:00] – Welcome, Jennifer’s intro

[03:40] – Jennifer’s origin story & “why dogs”

[07:30] – 85% of dogs aren’t pets; street-dog intelligence

[10:55] – Monk’s bed-spot trick: everyday problem-solving

[12:48] – Talking buttons: cause/effect & connection

[15:49] – Dogs in MRI machines—how they trained it

[22:00] – Search-and-rescue scent tracking story

[20:15] – Signals, cropped ears, and stepping up for our dogs

[27:57] – “Bad dogs” as misdirected intelligence

[30:01] – Exercise is everything (physical & cognitive)

[31:56] – Responsibility: sniffing, breed needs, partnership

[35:51] – A deeper truth about intelligence & existence value

[39:04] – Signature takeaway: “Let dogs be dogs”

[41:00] – Jennifer's one message to every pet parent

[42:31] – Outro

FAQ

How smart are dogs, really?

Dogs possess adaptive, social intelligence rather than human-like intelligence. They excel at reading emotion, solving problems relevant to their environment, and using extraordinarily sensitive scent detection, all shaped by thousands of years of co-evolving alongside humans.

Are most dogs in the world actually pets?

No. An estimated 85% of the world's dogs are free-roaming rather than household pets, which reframes what a "normal" or valid dog life looks like beyond the pet-owning world.

Can dogs really detect cancer by smell?

Yes. Research discussed in Jennifer Holland's book Dog Smart shows dogs can detect certain cancers and diseases through scent, demonstrating a sensory intelligence far beyond human capability.

What do MRI studies reveal about how dogs think?

Dogs can be trained, using positive reinforcement, to lie still in MRI machines, and the resulting brain scans are helping researchers understand how dogs process human voices and emotional tone.

Why do ear cropping and tail docking affect a dog's communication?

Ears and tails are key tools dogs use to signal intent and emotion to other dogs, so removing or altering them can strip away natural communication cues, making interactions with other dogs riskier or more easily misread.

Is my "badly behaved" dog just being difficult?

Not usually. Behavior problems are very often a sign of unmet physical or cognitive needs rather than defiance, and addressing the root cause, through more exercise, more mental stimulation, and better training, typically resolves it.

Why is it important to let my dog sniff during walks?

Sniffing is a dog's primary way of gathering information about their world, and letting them sniff freely on walks supports a more optimistic, well-adjusted temperament, so it's meaningful enrichment, not just a delay.

What does "let dogs be dogs" mean in practice?

It means recognizing that dogs are an entirely different species with their own instincts, needs, and ways of experiencing the world, and making space for those needs (sniffing, exercise, problem-solving) rather than expecting them to behave like small humans.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska brings her art world background and pet-parent journey together to explore DIY art projects you can create with your dog. From safe, non-toxic pawprint masterpieces to hilarious lick-art abstracts, she shares practical tips, safety considerations, and creative ideas for turning your dog's paws and personality into meaningful keepsakes and functional art. Along the way, she opens up about the R&D journey behind Tails and Tones' first product: an elevated food and water station.

During This Episode:

• Live product update: Tails and Tones' elevated food and water station is officially in R&D
• Why making art with your dog is powerful enrichment and a bonding experience, not just a cute keepsake
• Mariska's own art background and how it shapes her approach to pet-safe projects
• The importance of using pet-safe, non-toxic materials, since most studio art supplies aren't dog-safe
• Two main ways to create pawprints safely: no-mess baby handprint and footprint kits for clean, crisp prints, and Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint for colorful, washable paw art
• Step-by-step guidance for classic pawprint masterpieces using either method
• Lick art using canvas, cling film, and peanut butter or yogurt to create abstract, swirled patterns
• Why lick art needs close supervision so your dog doesn't tear through the plastic film
• Cleanup essentials: washing paws with lukewarm water immediately after any art project
• How to turn your dog's art into functional pieces like mugs, coasters, bowls, and holiday gifts
• Behind-the-scenes look at Tails and Tones' sustainable product journey, especially the upcoming elevated bowl for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs
• Where Tails Meet Hearts: Monty, Lola, and Amy, including Monty's video that was shared on The Dodo
• Paw-lebrity of the Week: Pharaby and Jen, including Pharaby's own art and FluentPet talking buttons

Takeaways:

• Making art with your dog is powerful enrichment. It's a bonding experience that goes beyond a cute keepsake, engaging your dog's senses and your creativity together.
• Safety is non-negotiable when making art with your dog. Use pet-safe, non-toxic materials only, since most studio art supplies aren't safe for dogs.
• There are two easy ways to create pawprints safely. A no-mess baby handprint or footprint kit gives clean, crisp prints, while Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint offers colorful, washable paw art.
• Lick art turns your dog's natural licking instinct into abstract art. Peanut butter or yogurt spread over canvas and cling film creates unique swirled patterns as your dog licks.
• Always supervise art activities closely. Watch for your dog trying to tear through the plastic film, and wash paws immediately afterward with lukewarm water.
• Your dog's art can become functional keepsakes. Turn a paw print or lick art piece into mugs, coasters, bowls, or holiday gifts.
• Tails and Tones' first product is progressing through R&D. The upcoming elevated bowl is designed for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs, with a waitlist open for updates.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

• Tails & Tones on Instagram: @tailsandtones
• Where Tails meet hearts: Monty, Lola and Amy @amyqzak (Monty's video that was shared on The Dodo)
• Paw-lebrity of the Week: Pharaby & Jen @pharaby_fable, Pharaby's Art, YouTube
• Review the podcast on Podchaser
• The Dodo (featured Monty’s video): The Dodo
• FluentPet talking buttons: FluentPet
• Tails & Tones Elevated Bowl Waitlist

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[01:10] – Big news: Tails & Tones product update

[06:30] – Why make art with your dog?

[09:00] – Safety first: pet-safe art supplies

[13:30] – Pawprint Masterpiece (No-mess & paint versions)

[20:30] – Lick Art abstract painting

[25:30] – Turning pet art into functional gifts

[27:30] – Where Tails Meet Hearts

[30:00] – Paw-lebrity of the Week

FAQ

What kind of paint is safe to use on a dog's paws?

Baby-safe, washable finger paint like Mideer Super Washable Finger Paint is a good option for colorful paw prints, but always avoid studio acrylic or oil paints, since most art supplies aren't formulated to be dog-safe.

How do I make a paw print with my dog without any mess?

Use a no-mess baby handprint or footprint kit, which captures a clean, crisp impression without paint touching your dog's paw directly.

What is lick art and how do I make it with my dog?

Lick art involves setting up canvas and cling film with peanut butter or yogurt on top, then letting your dog lick it so the motion creates an abstract, swirled painting underneath.

Do I need to supervise my dog during a lick art or pawprint project?

Yes, always supervise closely, especially during lick art, so your dog doesn't tear through the cling film, and clean their paws with lukewarm water right after.

Can I turn my dog's art into something more than a keepsake?

Yes, pawprint and lick art designs can be turned into functional pieces like mugs, coasters, bowls, and holiday gifts.

Is Tails and Tones launching a product soon?

Yes, Tails and Tones' first product, an elevated food and water station designed for flat-faced and mobility-sensitive dogs, is in R&D, with a waitlist open at tailsandtoneselevated.carrd.co for updates.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

Tori Mistick, founder of Wear Wag Repeat and a dog mom, blogger, and podcast host with over a decade of experience creating content for pet lovers, joins Mariska to unpack what it really takes to turn a love of dogs into a real online pet brand or business. Tori is also a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and recently launched her limited-series podcast, Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick. The central message: believing in your passion comes first, follower count doesn't equal revenue, authenticity builds trust, and owning your audience through an email list and website matters more than any single platform.

In this episode of Tails and Tones, Mariska Nell and Tori Mistick discuss the journey of turning a passion for dogs into a thriving business. Tori shares her experiences in building her brand, Wear Wag Repeat, and offers insights on monetizing pet accounts, the importance of authenticity, and the evolving landscape of pet influencing. They emphasize the significance of community, effective branding, and the resurgence of long-form content in engaging audiences. Tori also highlights the necessity of starting an email list and building genuine relationships within the pet industry.

Guest Bio:

Tori Mistick is a dog mom, blogger, podcast host, and the founder of Wear Wag Repeat. With over a decade of experience creating content for pet lovers, Tori helps pet parents enrich their dogs’ lives and supports “petpreneurs” in growing their businesses online. She’s also a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and recently launched her limited-series podcast Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick, which dives deep into the science and joy of helping dogs live their best lives.

During This Episode:

• Tori's origin story: how she went from dog mom to building Wear Wag Repeat
• The moment her hobby crossed into being an actual business
• Landing her first paid campaign, and what that taught her
• The early challenges of balancing passion and profit
• Where to actually start monetizing a pet account, no matter your size
• A reality check on what pet influencers really earn
• Why diversifying income streams matters for longevity
• The mindset shift from "hobby account" to "brand"
• Safety and responsibility considerations when building a pet-focused platform
• Why it pays to be authentically where you are, rather than performing expertise
• Funding and founder transparency in the pet industry
• What branding really means for pet businesses, beyond visuals
• Content quality and why Tori encourages creators to "post the bad stuff" too
• Building a consistency system that actually sticks
• Platforms, AI, and why owning your audience matters more than ever
• What makes a pet community last long term
• The comeback of long-form content, and why it suits authentic storytelling
• The one thing Tori recommends every pet creator do today
• Where to find Tori, and a look at her Dog Enrichment podcast

Takeaways:

• Believing in your passion is the first step to success. Genuine love for the work is what keeps you going through the slow, inconsistent early days of monetizing.
• Collaboration is key to building relationships in the pet industry. Reaching out and working with other pet brands and creators pays off long term, no matter your size.
• Monetization can be slow, so passion is essential for longevity. The income doesn't arrive quickly, and it's the love of the work that carries creators through.
• Follower count does not equate to revenue in pet influencing. Micro-influencers with smaller, more engaged audiences can out-earn accounts with far larger followings.
• Authenticity in content creation builds trust with your audience. Sharing your real journey, including the hard parts, resonates more than curated perfection.
• Long-form content is making a comeback in the digital space. Podcasts, newsletters, and videos allow for the kind of storytelling that short-form content and AI can't replicate.
• Building an email list is crucial for long-term engagement. It's the one channel you fully own, no matter what happens to any social platform.
• Branding should evoke feelings and connect with your audience, not just look good. It's about how people feel when they engage with your content.
• Networking and genuine outreach can foster community growth. Personal check-ins and real relationships build community faster than sales pitches.
• Diversifying income streams is important for pet influencers, since relying on a single revenue source (like sponsored posts alone) is risky.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tori's Website Wear Wag Repeat, Wear Wag Repeat Podcast

Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick Podcast

Mental Enrichment Activity Pack ($19)

Instagram: @wearwagrepeat @tmistick

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro

[02:30] – Tori’s Origin Story

[03:44] – Hobby vs. Business Moment

[05:11] – First Paid Campaign

[07:16] – Passion vs. Profit (Early Challenges)

[09:05] – Where to Start Monetizing

[10:46] – Reality Check on Earnings

[14:57] – Diversify

[16:04] – Mindset Shift to “Brand”

[18:25] – Safety & Responsibility

[20:01] – Be Authentically Where You Are

[22:05] – Funding & Founder Transparency

[23:36] – What Branding Really Means in Pets

[26:08] – Content Quality & “Post the Bad Stuff”

[28:10] – Consistency System

[29:54] – Platforms, AI & Owning Your Audience

[32:01] – Community That Lasts

[36:19] – Long-Form Comeback

[39:31] – One Thing to Do Today

[39:38] – Where to Find Tori

[40:52] – Tori’s Enrichment Podcast

FAQ

How do I turn my dog's Instagram account into a business?

Start by believing in the work itself, since monetization is often slow at first, then look for collaboration opportunities with other pet accounts or brands and begin building an email list you fully own.

Do pet influencers with more followers make more money?

Not necessarily. Follower count does not equate to revenue, and smaller, more engaged accounts can often out-earn much larger ones.

What's the biggest mistake new pet content creators make?

Relying entirely on social platforms for their audience is one of the biggest risks, since accounts can be locked, hacked, or deprioritized by an algorithm overnight, which is why an email list matters so much.

How important is authenticity in pet content creation?

Very. Authenticity is what builds trust with an audience, and creators who share their real journey, including setbacks, tend to build deeper, longer-lasting connections than those who only post polished wins.

What does branding mean for a pet business?

Branding is less about visuals alone and more about the feeling it creates. It's how your colors, tone, and story make your audience feel when they engage with your content.

Is long-form content coming back for pet creators?

Yes. Podcasts, newsletters, and other long-form formats are resurging because they let creators tell deeper stories in a way short-form content and AI-generated content can't easily replicate.

What's the best first step for someone just starting a pet content account?

Start an email list right away and focus on genuine collaboration and community-building rather than chasing follower counts.

How can I keep my pet community engaged long term?

Long-term engagement comes from real relationships: consistent content, genuine outreach, and showing up for other people in the pet industry, not just posting for your own account's growth.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

In this solo episode, Mariska breaks down the honest pros and cons of French Bulldog ownership using her own experience raising Piper. Frenchies have exploded in popularity thanks to celebrity culture and social media, but that same demand has fueled unethical breeding and a long list of serious health issues, including BOAS (brachycephalic obstructive airway syndrome), IVDD (intervertebral disc disease), overheating risk, and an inability to give birth naturally in most cases. Mariska's bottom line: French Bulldogs are goofy, affectionate, apartment-friendly companions, but only for people who can commit financially (often $15,000 a year or more) and emotionally to a breed with serious, well-documented medical needs.

During This Episode:

• Why French Bulldogs have exploded in popularity, including celebrities like Lady Gaga, The Rock, and Tom Hardy, plus AKC chart-topping status
• The true history of the breed, from English lace workers' toy bulldogs to their refinement in France
• Why they became trendy: an apartment-friendly size, bat ears, and a baby-face expression
• Mariska's rule of thumb: don't get a Frenchie unless you can comfortably budget around $15,000 a year
• Fun (and slightly terrifying) fact: most Frenchies can't swim, including Piper's own ocean scare and why water safety matters
• The "wherever your gas be free" motto and other everyday Frenchie truths
• The AKC's 9 official Frenchie colors versus 30+ real-world combinations, including lilac, blue, and merle
• Why Frenchies are nicknamed "pocket rockets": Piper weighs around 12 kg (26 lb), denser than she looks, which is part of why they sink in water
• Average lifespan for a healthy, well-bred Frenchie: 10 to 12 years, with real variance
• The pros: clown-dog personalities, deep affection and loyalty, and a tendency to shadow their humans everywhere
• Grooming and care routine: shedding, ear and fold cleaning, and paw and nose balm
• Brachycephalic anatomy basics: how a short skull leads to real breathing challenges
• Piper's own BOAS surgery story: what the surgery involves, her results, the costs, and the ethics of prioritizing comfort
• Overheating: what to actually do (cool the feet and belly, use A/C) and what to avoid (never cover them in a cold towel)
• The price tag of breeding and C-sections, and why overbreeding happens
• The British Veterinary Association's "Breed to Breathe" campaign and the roughly 3,000% rise in UK French Bulldog numbers
• Walking and harness fit: why a harness over a collar matters, plus how to monitor tongue color and respiratory rate
• IVDD (intervertebral disc disease): the risks, warning signs, and prevention steps like avoiding jumps and using stairs or a ramp
• Allergies: common triggers like grass, pollen, and food, and how Mariska manages them with wipes and antihistamines
• Insurance, savings, and how the approach differs by region (Australia versus the UAE)
• Mariska's final thoughts: choose this breed with your eyes open, because commitment is everything
• Where Tails Meet Hearts: Freddie & Bruno's toy lineup tradition
• Paw-lebrity of the Week: Griffin & Haru, including their Pixar Animation Studios adventure and a collaboration with Tiffani Thiessen

Takeaways:

• French Bulldog popularity has a dark side. Celebrity culture and social media have driven demand, and that demand has fueled unethical breeding practices.
• Owning a Frenchie is a major financial commitment. Mariska recommends budgeting around $15,000 a year on average, given how often health issues arise.
• Most Frenchies cannot swim. Their dense, compact build means they can sink quickly, so always supervise them closely around water, as Mariska learned with Piper's own ocean scare.
• BOAS surgery can be life-changing. Widening the nostrils and removing excess tissue significantly improves breathing, reduces snoring, and boosts comfort, as Piper's own results show.
• Overheating is a real emergency risk. Frenchies can go from fine to dangerously overheated within minutes, and the fix is cooling their feet and belly, not covering them in a cold towel.
• IVDD is a serious, breed-common risk. Avoiding jumps on and off furniture and using ramps or stairs can help reduce the risk of spinal injury.
• Allergies are extremely common in Frenchies, ranging from food to grass and pollen, and often require trial and error to manage.
• Ethical breeding matters enormously. A nearly 3,000% rise in UK French Bulldog numbers over the last decade has driven a rise in puppy mills and illegal imports.
• Despite the challenges, Frenchies are deeply loving companions: goofy, affectionate, and content with short walks and lots of couch time.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Breed-to-Breathe Campaign — British Veterinary Association

Where Tails meet hearts: Freddie & Bruno (Freddie line up toys, Bruno Freddie's #1 fan)

Paw-lebrity of the Week Griffin & Haru (Pixar Animation Studios adventures, Tiffani Thiessen Colab, )

Cooling Tips with Dr Sarah — Episode 15

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00] - Intro

[02:15] - Popularity + rescues trend:

[03:10] – The $15k rule (cost reality)

[04:05] – Origins: Toy bulldogs → France: Lace workers, toy bulldogs, refined in France.

[05:15] – Why they became trendy: Apartment-friendly size, bat ears, baby-face expression.

[06:05] – Celebs & AKC popularity: Lady Gaga, The Rock, Tom Hardy; AKC chart topper.

[06:44] – Fun fact: Most Frenchies can’t swim: Piper’s ocean scare + water safety.

[07:35] – Gas & other “truths”: The “wherever your gas be free” motto.

[08:05] – AKC colors vs. rare colors: 9 official colors vs. ~30+ combos (lilac, blue, merle).

[08:58] – “Pocket rockets” weight & density: Piper at ~12 kg / 26 lb; why they sink.

[09:40] – Lifespan (healthy, well-bred): 10–12 years with big variance.

[10:10] – PROS: Personality & daily life: Clown dogs; affection, loyalty, shadow tendencies.

[11:30] – PROS: Grooming & care routine: Shedding, ear/fold cleaning, paw/nose balm.

[12:35] – CONS: Brachycephalic basics: Short skull anatomy → breathing challenges.

[13:40] – BOAS surgery (Piper’s story): What it is, results, costs, ethics of comfort.

[15:05] – Overheating: what to do/avoid: Cool feet/belly, A/C; don’t cover with cold towel.

[16:10] – Price tag, breeding, C-sections: Why overbreeding happens; risks and costs.

[17:05] – BVA “Breed to Breathe” + overbreeding: Awareness, ~3,000% rise in the UK.

[18:05] – Walking/harness fit & monitoring: Harness over collar; tongue/resp rate checks.

[18:50] – IVDD: risks, signs, prevention: No jumping; stairs/ramp; signs, treatment paths.

[20:15] – Allergies: triggers & management: Grass/pollen/food; wipes, antihistamines.

[21:20] – Insurance/savings & regional notes: Australia vs. UAE approach.

[22:05] – Final thoughts: love + responsibility: Choose with eyes open; commitment matters.

[23:10] – Where Tails meet hearts: Freddie & Bruno (Freddie line up toys, Bruno Freddie's #1 fan)

[24:10] – Paw-lebrity of the Week Griffin & Haru (Pixar Animation Studios adventures, Tiffani Thiessen Colab, )

FAQ

Should I get a French Bulldog?

French Bulldogs make wonderful, affectionate companions for people who can commit to significant ongoing veterinary costs (often $15,000+ per year) and are prepared to manage serious breed-specific health risks like BOAS and IVDD.

Why are French Bulldogs so unhealthy?

French Bulldogs are brachycephalic, meaning their skulls are compressed, which squeezes their airway, soft palate, and nostrils, causing breathing difficulties, and their body shape also predisposes them to spinal issues like IVDD and difficulty giving birth naturally.

What is BOAS surgery and does every Frenchie need it?

BOAS (brachycephalic obstructive airway syndrome) surgery widens the nostrils, shortens the soft palate, and sometimes removes excess tissue or tonsils to improve breathing; not every Frenchie needs it, but many benefit significantly from the procedure.

Can French Bulldogs swim?

Most French Bulldogs cannot swim well and can sink due to their dense, heavy build and short snouts, so they should always be closely supervised around water, including pools and the ocean.

What is IVDD and why are French Bulldogs prone to it?

IVDD (intervertebral disc disease) occurs when the discs between a dog's vertebrae harden or rupture, causing pain, paralysis, or loss of bladder control; French Bulldogs are especially prone to it due to their compact spine structure, so avoiding jumps and using ramps or stairs can help reduce the risk.

How do I cool down an overheating French Bulldog?

Cool an overheating Frenchie by focusing on their feet and belly and moving them to a cool environment quickly. Avoid covering them in a cold towel, since this can trap heat rather than release it.

Why have French Bulldogs become so popular?

Celebrity ownership, heavy use in advertising and social media, and their apartment-friendly size and affectionate personalities have driven French Bulldogs to become one of the world's most popular breeds in the last decade.

What should I look for in an ethical French Bulldog breeder?

An ethical breeder will let you meet both parent dogs, be transparent about health testing and BOAS scoring, and never rush you into a purchase without proper documentation of vaccinations and health history.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.

TL;DR

In this episode of Tails and Tones, host Mariska Nell and Tori Mistick of Wear Wag Repeat explore how daily enrichment transforms your dog's emotional health and confidence. Tori, a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and founder of Wear Wag Repeat, reframes what enrichment actually means: not keeping a dog busy, but understanding their emotions and building genuine connection. Learn simple, practical ways to enrich your dog's day, strengthen your bond, and bring more joy to both of your lives.

Guest Bio:

Tori Mistick is a dog mom, blogger, podcast host, and the founder of Wear Wag Repeat. With over a decade of experience creating content for pet lovers, Tori helps pet parents enrich their dogs’ lives and supports “petpreneurs” in growing their businesses online. She’s also a Certified Canine Enrichment Technician and recently launched her limited-series podcast Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick, which dives deep into the science and joy of helping dogs live their best lives.

During This Episode:

• Meet Tori Mistick and her canine journey into content creation and enrichment
• Redefining enrichment beyond puzzles and toys
• Building your dog's confidence through small choices, not big gestures
• Trick training as a confidence booster at any age
• How enrichment needs differ for puppies, adults, and seniors
• Burt's story: from anxiety to confidence through enrichment
• Enrichment as a form of therapy for anxious dogs
• Using music and calm environments to support recovery
• Meeting your dog's emotional needs while avoiding overstimulation
• Practical enrichment ideas for busy pet parents
• Three low-cost DIY enrichment ideas anyone can try
• The one toy Tori thinks is actually worth splurging on
• Tori's biggest piece of enrichment advice for pet parents
• One small action that can help your dog feel truly seen
• The Mental Enrichment Activity Pack and what's inside it
• Where to find Tori and her work

Takeaways:

• Enrichment is connection, not distraction. It's about understanding your dog's emotions, not just keeping them busy.
• Small choices build confidence. Let your dog pick between treats, directions on a walk, or how they'd like to spend time with you.
• Balance is key. Mix active enrichment, like sniff walks and games, with calm bonding, like gentle petting and sound baths.
• DIY can be powerful. Muffin tins, towel burritos, and busy boxes make enrichment easy and low-cost.
• Presence matters most. True enrichment starts when we slow down and meet our dogs where they are.

Relevant links mentioned in the episode:

Tori's Website Wear Wag Repeat, Wear Wag Repeat Podcast

Dog Enrichment with Tori Mistick Podcast

Mental Enrichment Activity Pack ($19)

Instagram: @wearwagrepeat @tmistick

Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:

[00:00]-Intro: What true enrichment means

[01:44] - Meet Tori Mistick & her canine journey

[05:03] - Redefining enrichment beyond puzzles

[08:13] - Building your dog’s confidence through small choices

[10:30] - Trick training as a confidence booster

[13:59] - Enrichment for puppies, adults & seniors

[17:15] - Burt’s story: From anxiety to confidence

[21:14] - Enrichment as therapy for anxious dogs

[23:44] - Using music and calm environments for recovery

[25:06] - Meeting emotional needs & avoiding overstimulation

[27:47] - Enrichment for busy pet parents

[31:37] - 3 Low-cost DIY enrichment ideas

[34:01] - The one toy worth splurging on

[35:07] - Tori’s biggest enrichment advice for pet parents

[36:29] - One small action to help your dog feel seen

[37:23] - The Mental Enrichment Activity Pack

[38:22] - Where to find Tori?

[39:23] - Outro: Turning love into enrichment

FAQ

What is dog enrichment and why does it matter?

Dog enrichment is about understanding and meeting your dog's emotional needs, not just keeping them occupied, and it works best when it strengthens connection rather than simply filling time.

How can I give my dog enrichment if I only have a few minutes a day?

Small, low-cost activities like a DIY busy box, a muffin tin game, or a towel burrito with hidden treats can turn just a few minutes into meaningful enrichment.

Can enrichment help an anxious or fearful dog?

Yes, as Burt's story in this episode shows, enrichment can help an anxious dog build confidence over time, especially when paired with calm environments and consistent, low-pressure routines.

Is it possible to over-enrich a dog?

Yes, meeting emotional needs is about balance. Too much stimulation without calm bonding time can overwhelm a dog rather than support them, so mixing active and calm enrichment matters.

What are some low-cost enrichment ideas that don't require buying toys?

Muffin tins, towel burritos, and homemade busy boxes are all inexpensive, easy ways to bring enrichment into your dog's day without needing to buy anything new.

Is there a toy worth actually spending money on?

Tori shares her one splurge-worthy toy recommendation in the episode, though the bigger message is that connection and presence matter more than any single product.

What's the single best piece of enrichment advice for a busy pet parent?

Tori's core advice is to slow down and be present, since true enrichment often comes from small, consistent moments of connection rather than elaborate activities.

Where can I learn more about structured enrichment programs?

Tori's Mental Enrichment Activity Pack, available for $19 through Wear Wag Repeat, offers a structured way to bring more enrichment into your dog's daily routine.

About the Author: Mariska Nell

Mariska is the founder of Tails and Tones, a design-led, sustainable dog product brand. She's also the host of the Tails and Tones podcast, where she explores dog health, product design, and intentional pet parenting with experts, veterinarians, and fellow dog parents.

Background: Mariska holds a Master's degree in Sustainable Design, a Bachelor's in Interior Design, and a Postgraduate qualification in Environmental Science. She's spent over 10 years working as a sustainability designer and strategist across the UAE, Australia, South Africa, the UK, and India. Her previous work includes collaborations with brands like Nespresso, Costa Coffee, and Dubai Airport, and she founded Design By Mariska, known for trash-to-treasure art exhibited at Dubai International Airport. She's also the host and founder of Mama Earth Talk, a sustainability podcast with 200+ episodes on zero waste and climate action, featuring guests including Dr. Sylvia Earle and the late Dr. Jane Goodall. She created the free Living Lighter course for practical sustainable living.

Piper: Mariska shares her life and work with Piper, her French Bulldog rescue dog. Piper joined the family in 2021 at 5 months old and has been the Chief Paw-duct Tester for everything Tails and Tones creates. Piper's journey, including cleft palate repair, luxating patella, arthritis risk, and recent mobility challenges, directly shaped the founding mission of Elevé (Tails and Tones' first product: a modular, height-adaptive feeding system).

Mission: We are on a mission to help modern dog parents simplify everyday care and elevate life with their pets, without sacrificing style or sustainability. Tails and Tones exists to build products that show up for dog parents, beautiful, sustainable, and robust enough to support you on the worst days. Not just the easy ones.

You can find Mariska at @tailsandtones on Instagram, or visit tailsandtones.com to learn more about Elevé and the Tails and Tones mission.