Thank you for listening for my first season of podcast.

This time, i feel it is more fun and engaging. So, May is around the corner and i hope you listen again and follow my new season.

A is for Accept… Accepting the situation, that, things happened for a reason.

No one likes it, just that, we need to understand and we need to be positive looking forward why this happened in the first place.

I understand how most people may not be accepting… they have their own reasons… mine, I just Accepted it, period!

B is for Bad mood… Bad mood, is the very first reaction most of the passengers have, unfortunately, no matter how frustrating the situation is,

No matter what you do out of your anger, the flight is already cancelled… NOTHING ELSE TO DO!

You can be a baby doing your tantrums and let other people, feast on your drama like a TV show. WEll, if your like an instant famosity… go ahead and

Merry inside you that all the people are on look at you! And with their phones pointed towards you, like having a live telecast in the national TV.

C is for Calm… you are in your element, you finally realized that the next best thing to do is to stay calm, and think your next step.

Your next step to get you thru todays mishaps. Thinking all the reasons why this happened, and you very well know there is a good reason why it happened.

You rebooked your flight, smiled and settled yourself in a place where you can reconfigure your delayed flight will affect the future plans and if

Not, you’re lucky just to wait and probably go online and do more of your work while waiting.

When I was starting my photography career, as a photographer,

I remember couple of incidents how I was so outcasted or feeling I don’t belong in my first few Fashion shows in the Bay Area… San Francisco to be precise.

My very first fashion show, I remembered, it was in San Jose… I never expected that I will be the main photographer of the show, then. 

I was with the all-male dominated group that night, well, honestly, I don’t see any other photographer that night in that event other than male… 

I would hear all of them talking about their gears, their works… and all about them Bragging to each other…

In every fashion show, there’s a rehearsal, where they would let the model struts their way on the runway with the music accompanying them… little did I know,

that event has something featured on a big screen showcasing designers and the main photographer.

To keep me grounded … I follow certain rules which I think is very effective for me…not to Brag. 

Keep it to yourself unless asked: Don’t offer your good news unless you’re asked how you are or there is a relevant opening.

 In other words, don’t crow about just how well you’re doing and don’t share with people who might not be happy about your success. 

If someone asks about how you’re doing and seems to genuinely care about you and your professional or life journey, feel free to share your good news.

 If you feel like someone is just humoring you though, feel free to steer the conversation in a different direction.

When I was growing up in the Philippines, I always hear my mom saying, "be happy with what you have"...and boy! i am happy...then coming to the US, makes

me feel I missed a lot...because there are so much around here that is easy to get, to have and to own. But, reality is, does that makes you happy? having more?

and you cannot seem to enjoy it all? 

Something I find myself saying time and time again is when people have a problem, they think the answer is to add something when usually the answer is to take away something. 

I’m not saying absolutely zero products is the answer or that it should even be considered for people suffering with skin problems. 

I think it’s a case of trying different approaches and finding what works for you.

Instead of always chasing the rainbow, start focusing on the small details of your life.

I remember when i was a child, my dad would work so late, and when he gets home, me and my brother are both asleep, he would placed a bag of goodies besides us. And when we wake up, we would ran to my parents room and start opening the bag of goodies, from food to small toys. Which bring us joy, then and now.

Whether the one WHO is there, either helping you or discouraging you...both are essential factor in achieving your goal.

You take all the discouraging words...put them together and make them your fire...fire to burn so much passion inside you in molding yourself to get to the point that 

you only see yourself going forward.

And the people who are there helping you, even the smallest gesture of pushing you to do it, never ignore...rather, gather them all and roll them to your mind to

make a good weaving of different plans to create the ultimate success of your dreams.

According to Psychology Today

Ghosting is abruptly ending communication with someone without explanation. The concept most often refers to romantic relationships but can also describe disappearances from friendships and the workplace. People respond to being ghosted in many ways, from feeling indifferent to deeply betrayed.

Lets discover why people Ghost, and what do we need to do when we get Ghosted.

This topic will be a two part episode. 

First will be Ghosting a date.

Second will be friends who ghost.

We all have stress in our lives. Stress has many forms, but, they serve the same way. No matter how much stress you feel, there's always a way to destress. Sometime, revisiting how you get stressed in the first place is the best way to find an answer.