If you grew up in chaos, around addiction, or in a home where you were always walking on eggshells, this conversation is for you.
In this episode of Take Back Your Authority, I sit down with Tammy Vincent—international inspirational speaker, trauma-informed ACOA empowerment coach, best-selling author, podcaster, and NLP practitioner.
Tammy shares her powerful story of growing up with two alcoholic parents and a narcissistic, abusive mother. She explains how childhood chaos shaped her into a people-pleaser with poor boundaries, led her to numb with alcohol, and left her believing she wasn't worthy of love—until one unexpected moment became the catalyst for healing.
Today, Tammy helps adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families heal, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim their self-worth.
In this episode you'll learn:
• How growing up in dysfunction affects your relationships and self-worth.
• Why people-pleasing, perfectionism, and fear of being seen often begin in childhood.
• The difference between temporary happiness and lasting joy.
• Why addiction is often a numbing strategy—and why healing starts after sobriety.
• How inner child work helps replace shame with compassion.
• Practical healing tools including journaling, gratitude, nervous system regulation, self-awareness, and surrendering to God.
We also discuss generational trauma, forgiving yourself for what you didn't know, and how healing doesn't create a new you—it uncovers the person God designed you to be.
🎁 Tammy's Free Gift
Free Energy Scan:
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Connect with Tammy
• Podcast: Adult Child of Dysfunction: Healing After Chaos
• Book: Surviving Alcoholic Parents
• Coaching for adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families.
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