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  • OG Wisdom, TRT, and Alpha Male Opinions| Tap Talk w/ Kuya Ken

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    In this episode of Tap Talk, RJ finally sits down with his Kuya Kenneth — a legit brown belt who’s been training BJJ in California since the early 2000s. Kuya Ken has been mentioned plenty of times on the pod, but now he’s finally front and center. We talk about what jiu-jitsu was like back in the day, training in your 40s, testosterone in 2025, and the evolution of ecological-style learning.

    Oh, and yes — we go there. From religious conspiracies about martial arts being “demonic” to reconnecting with Filipino roots, this one's got heart, heat, and hella perspective.

    👊 Whether you're an old-school grappler, new to the mats, or thinking about TRT — this episode’s for you.

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    1 hr 11 min
  • From The UK To The Bay: Uncle Jay's First Roll Through America

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    In this episode of Tap Talk, RJ reunites with returning guest and fellow BJJ brother Jay, host of the Better Than Average Podcast and owner of a brand-new jiu-jitsu gym in the UK. Jay’s in California for the first time ever, and we catch him mid-tour of Northern Cali – from the Bay to the mats, and everywhere in between.

    We dive into what it’s like building a BJJ gym overseas, the culture shock of landing in the States, and the shared language of jiu-jitsu that brought us together in the first place. From lifting to rolling to navigating life as a half-British, half-Filipino martial artist — this one’s packed with laughs, real talk, and good vibes.

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Is it Halph or Ralph?

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    In this episode Rj and Jr team up on the mats and discuss their best advice for anyone who wants to open a restaurant, Jayrod controversy, and the subtle nuance of languages. 

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    42 min
  • Learning Guillotine, James' Unbeatable Closed Guard, and Philippine Taboo Culture

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    It’s just RJ and James in the studio today — and you already know when it’s just us, the convos get real and wild at the same time. We kick things off talking about gym takeover etiquette (aka how NOT to be that guy), James breaks down his new class techniques for the week, and RJ gives the inside scoop on his recent roll  — no sugarcoating. Then it gets deeper… we talk about split personalities on and off the mat — is your jiu-jitsu self the REAL you, or do we all carry different versions of ourselves? Finally, we dive into taboo topics in the Philippines — the things people don't want to say... but we kinda say anyway. Real talk, real rolls, real laughs. Tap in!

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    1 hr 3 min
  • How Does TRT Affect Your Sex Life?

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    Rj JR & James this week! Today is a treat as we explore more TRT stories, Jiu Jitsu Stories, Fake Black Belts, and a live reaction to Jame's most recent comp!

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Modified Rubber Guard

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    James, RJ, & JR are back together in the studio and discuss all things bjj, marianas pro recap, food, and training in the filipino heat. Enjoy!

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    1 hr 4 min
  • Desa's Ultimate Jiu Jitsu Revenge

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    JR and RJ are back for EP26 and its a fun one! We recap the Mariana's Pro, react live to one of our dear teammate's gold medal run, and finally we reveal who's the richest in the BJJ world.

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    1 hr 8 min

About Tap Talk

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Welcome to "Tap Talk," the podcast where jiu jitsu and foodie passions collide! Join hosts Rj, James, and Coach JR as they dive deep into the world of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, sharing their personal…