Hadith, 80 year old man, 3 months left of life, Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) advised marriage, Halal intimacy, temptation, sins, purity, surah Yusuf, Zulaykha, status, power, money, divorce-rate, women hardship, re-married, males, handsome, husband need understand, beautify himself for wife, be gentle, be kind, win the heart of his wife everyday, communities suffer, when divorcees aren’t remarrying, temptation of falling into sin for women too, mentoo-problem on rise, difficult report rape, stigma of males being raped, marriage books, emphasis, wife, beautify herself, we need to remind husbands, beautify themselves for their wife, perfume, beard, decrease, fitnah, fulfilled in marriage