I don’t think I will ever forget the first time I met Alexandra Silber, or Al as I came to know her. It was 2004 and I had just started at the Royal Scottish Academy of Music and Drama (now the Royal Conservatoire of Scotland). I was alone in the female bathroom and I was crying (shock-horror/again). I tried to cover it up when Al walked in. She gently asked if I was ok, and proceeded to help me put the world to rights. Her kindness left a marked impression on me.
Al was in her final year, and over the year I watched the dedication she gave to developing her craft. She was more likely to be found in a rehearsal room than in the bar. I was intrigued by her level of commitment, but didn’t fully comprehend how necessary this work ethic was for a professional career in performance.
Her first job out of drama school was the title role in Andrew Lloyd Webber’s new (at the time) musical The Woman In White. I traveled to London to watch her perform, and everything about the role, the scale of the production, the quality of her performance just confirmed to me that Al was a star. She worked hard, and her reward was amazing opportunity. She hadn’t won anything, or been handed anything, she worked for it.
Since that performance, Alexandra has performed major roles in musicals and stage plays in both the West End and Broadway. She has performed on numerous recorded albums, and live in concert at some of the most prestigious venues. Alongside her stage career, Al is a published author of two novels and has adapted a number of plays.
I have stayed in touch with Al through following her on social media and the very sporadic message or two, but we have not had a conversation since 2005. This chat was a beautiful re-connection, Al has not changed, she continues to radiate kindness and love. She shares her experiences generously and with practical tips on how she grows and learns as a performer and develops her creative life.