Today's podcast is about speaking to the future that you want to have to happen. Collaborating with people that can hear that future and speak it with you and talking about it consistently so that you're moving towards it. And the second part is why that's so sometimes doesn't happen because of our natural biological need for Negativity to keep ourselves safe. I hope this benefits you today somewhere. I went all over the place with it, but I hope it lands with you somehow and helps you in some way.

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This week's podcast is about vulnerability and why it is really hard to be vulnerable. In today's world, we have to survive well by looking good and showing the best of ourselves and vulnerability doesn't fit into that. So join me today for a ten-minute talk about what vulnerability is and why it's hard to be vulnerable.

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Because the image wasn't the reality of my human being life. I needed to deal with being a father or need to learn how to be a father and a husband, a businessman, instead of pushing an image around being a better person where I was still dealing with learning how to be a better person myself.

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We change the things we can and accept the things we can't. And that seems to me more of a holistic view than some of the rigid views that we're having now telling us we need to be better people. How do you be better? Because when I'm better, sometimes I feel worse.

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And so leadership is about being honest. Well, but if you look at the yin yangs symbol, you get the gist of it like a magnet has two ends. And even though two ends in opposition, they still joined, and they'll always be joined.

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If you always wanted to show the best of yourself, you must know the worst of yourself because you can't know the best unless you know the worst.

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I'm still learning that myself and my brain click into gear sometimes to defend myself against things that I may only have had a little part in or a big part in.
But it always tells me that I shouldn't apologize for, it tells me that it wasn't my fault, it diverts to other people but I've had to tell it and train it.

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Every time I've dropped something or let it go, there's sometimes been all sorts of emotions that go with it, maybe sadness, anger, frustration, but after that space opens up and for me then I try and fill it up with repetition again. When I keep that system of let things go, because that's the way of life is letting things go, we have to let ourselves go in the end as well. So I think the buddha had one of it is his precepts, nothing is permanent. 

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If you can take it on, it's the saying goes, is that because something's happening to me, no matter how much I like or don't like it because it is happening to me, I have a percentage of play in that thing.

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I really see now how far New Zealand has slipped behind, how they're missing out on opportunities, not only for the children but for the communities for voices to be heard.

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