Men face many complexities in relationships between masculinity and taking responsibility. In today’s culture, many men instinctively resist accountability, preferring:

1. Control over vulnerability
2. Power over transparency
3. Defensiveness over growth

This resistance isn’t just personal—it’s deeply rooted in societal expectations and learned behaviors that can be changed. Barry coaches you through seven steps for effective accountability.

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00:00 The Complexities of Masculinity and Accountability

01:14 Why Men Resist Accountability

03:02 The Power of Accountability

07:14 Seven Steps to Effective Accountability

17:57 Building a Brotherhood for Accountability

19:31 TAKE ACTION!

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Are you tired of feeling held back by fear and self-doubt as a father? What if embracing vulnerability and courage could transform your relationships and unlock your true potential? Join me today as we explore what it means to live fearlessly and how it can revolutionize your role as a father.

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What are your greatest fears? What freezes you in place, keeps you awake at night, or creates chaos and anxiety in your life and family? Here are seven things men fear most. Bring it into the light and it doesn't look so scary.

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00:00 Introduction: Understanding Fear

01:10 The Many Faces of Fear

01:34 Biblical Definitions of Fear

04:35 Seven Things Men Fear Most

05:34 Fear of Man

06:54 Fear of the Unknown

08:20 Fear of Loss

08:56 Fear of Failure

10:15 Fear of Lack

11:35 Fear of Intimacy

12:59 Fear of Being Found Out

14:42 Paralyzed by Fear

17:35 Overcoming Fear

18:35 Conclusion and Resources

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What's the difference between perception and perspective? Most often it's our position. Barry looks at the Green Bay Packers to help you see three essentials for gaining perspective as a father.

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00:00 Perception vs. Perspective

01:02 Green Bay Packers, Coach Matt LaFleur

03:29 On Field Perception

06:25 Perspective from the Booth

08:23 Applying Perception and Perspective in Life

12:15 The Importance of Having a 'Man in the Booth'

15:14 The Holy Spirit

16:38 Conclusion: Who's in Your Booth?

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How does the bond with a mother shape a child's future? Join Barry for a heartfelt Mother's Day edition with special guests Mary (married 49 years) and her adult daughter Leah. Discover the importance of emotional support, strong family bonds, and the impact of a father's love. Listen with your wife. It might be the best gift she recieves this year.

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TIMELINE:

00:00 The Unwavering Strength of Mothers

02:13 Mary's Story

06:39 Leah's Story

10:17 Reflections on Parenting and Family Values

14:45 Leah's Perspective on Family Legacy

20:29 Celebrating Marriage and Family Milestones

24:03 Understanding Different Communication Styles

26:47 Reflections on Parental Disagreements

29:00 The Role of a Good Husband and Father

31:00 The Impact of a Father's Love

35:14 Advice for Moms on Maintaining a Healthy Family

38:45 Encouragement for Women Without Strong Maternal Figures

42:37 Wisdom for Husbands and Fathers

46:43 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Dad's

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Why is wisdom crucial for fatherhood, and how can you cultivate it? Barry examines the essence of fatherhood, the role of wisdom, and the power of accountability circles. You can increase your Wisdom Quotient (WQ)!

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00:00 Worth Your Salt

00:35 Who's Your Imitation Model?

03:19 How God Gives Wisdom

04:37 Practical Wisdom Guidance

07:09 Accountability

09:56 Make Time to Seek Wisdom

11:17 You Can't Do This Alone

12:32 The Holy Spirit

14:54 FatherSeekers.org/FatherFuel

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What does it mean to truly 'level up'? Join Barry Egdemon for advancing in wisdom, skill, and knowledge to become the best father, husband, and man you can be. Learn crucial pitfalls to avoid and discover the true power of Godly wisdom and character in your journey to self-improvement. Are you ready to level up?

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00:00 Leveling Up

00:46 In Your DNA

04:09 Multiplayer Skills

05:47 Three Ways NOT to Level Up

09:23 Experience Required

10:20 Cometh the Man

12:46 Addressing Failure

13:59 You CAN Level Up

16:31 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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Do you have the elusive momentum to keep you moving forward? Barry explores how to capture and sustain momentum by identifying your desires, gifts, and capabilities. Learn practical steps to harness your inner drive, overcome obstacles, and achieve your purpose as a father.

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00:00 The Evasive Thing

01:04 Harnessing Momentum

02:53 Where's Your Desire?

03:46 Gifts VS Capabilties

06:26 Why Momentum Alludes You

07:51 You Might Have Future Blindness

08:56 Calculated Risk

11:17 Where Does It Come From?

12:58 Your Reason for Existence

15:48 Where is Momentum Driving You?

16:45 FatherSeekers.org/FatherFuel

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What are you hiding? Barry explores the parallels between physical hoarding and spiritual clutter. Drawing lessons from the show 'Hoarders' and the Bible, he discusses the importance of maintaining a 'clean house' both physically and spiritually to live a purpose-driven life. Learn practical steps for de-cluttering your life and filling it with meaningful purpose.

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00:00 Hoarders TV Show

01:12 When Hoarders Relapse

04:54 De-hoarding the House

06:53 #1: Inventory Your Life

09:18 #2: The Unessential Have to Go

12:15 You Have a Purpose

13:18 #3: Replace the Empty

15:04 Extra Space is Okay

16:08 #4: Furnish Well

17:40 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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Is there rot in your life you can't see? Barry explores the profound lessons learned from his days as a kitchen cabinet designer to uncover the hidden damages beneath the surfaces of our lives. Discover the importance of restoration and the one true way to achieve genuine healing and transformation.

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00:00 Beneath the Surface

00:38 Unseen Damage

05:08 Don't Cut Corners

11:06 What Are You Hiding?

14:26 Face Your Brokenness

16:45 Exposing the Damage

18:19 Inventory Your Own Heart

19:00 FatherFuel.org

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