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  • Never Say "I'm Sorry" Again!

    Explore the inefficacy of inauthentic apologies and learn five essential steps to create a culture of true repentance and emotional regulation. Barry offers how to foster healthier relationships and effective conflict resolution within your family, shifting from shame to transformation.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Problem with Saying 'I'm Sorry'

    00:55 Psychology Behind Apologies

    01:54 Pitfalls of Inauthentic Apologies

    02:39 Importance of Genuine Apologies

    05:13 Five Ways to Determine an Authentic Apology

    17:58 Healthy Alternatives to 'Sorry'

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    24 min
  • A Journey to Faith w/ Jeff Goelz

    Barry interviews his friend Jeff, who shares his remarkable journey from building nightclubs to becoming a successful real estate mogul. The conversation delves into Jeff's experiences in martial arts, his venture into politics, and his spiritual transformation. Jeff offers valuable insights on achieving financial success, serving others, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in life.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Introducing Jeff Goelz

    01:11 Real Estate Journey and International Ventures

    05:18 Martial Arts and Personal Transformation

    07:29 Faith, Politics, and Personal Reflections

    19:50 Embracing Change and Following Christ

    22:00 Money Management and Career Wisdom

    23:08 Insights from Successful People

    30:46 End Times and Biblical Reflections

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    42 min
  • The Legacy of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes

    Barry explores the legacies of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes, two men who's lives drastically affected their future generations in opposite ways. Discover how the decisions you make today can shape the future for generations to come. Are you ready to build a legacy worth leaving?

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Introduction to Legacy

    00:34 The Story of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes

    02:09 Jonathan Edwards' Legacy

    07:51 Max Jukes' Legacy

    09:11 Reflecting on Your Own Legacy

    11:17 Understanding Identity and Resources

    13:52 The Importance of Stewardship

    18:36 Seeking Guidance and Mentorship

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    23 min
  • Our Little Book Of Secrets

    The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Most Requested Guest

    01:06 Unpacking the Impact of Fatherlessness

    02:35 Personal Stories and Reflections

    04:28 Preventative Measures and Legacy Building

    06:44 Heather's Spiritual Journey

    07:44 Meeting and Early Interactions

    09:16 Developing a Relationship

    15:45 Heather's Struggles and Support System

    21:26 The Power of Worship and Community

    26:45 The Importance of a Faith Community

    27:32 Trust and Healing

    30:42 Finding Supportive Friends

    33:00 Developing a Relationship

    36:15 Sabbatical and Growing Closer

    39:29 Advice for New Relationships

    42:55 Unpacking Emotional Baggage

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    50 min
  • Embraced by God: Pastor Steve Burks Story

    Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a testament to resilience and faith. Hear firsthand about his formative years, pivotal moments in college, and his unexpected path into ministry and public service.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Pastor and the Politician

    00:28 Meet Pastor Steve Burkes

    00:52 Reminiscing College Days

    02:39 Journey to Southeastern College

    03:33 Memorable Moments at Southeastern

    07:17 Spiritual Awakening

    12:59 Early Life Struggles

    24:04 Meeting His Wife

    29:04 Early Ministry and Marriage

    30:27 Transition to New Albany

    32:29 Church Productions and Excellence

    33:21 Heaven's Gates, Hell's Flames Ministry

    36:46 Becoming the Next Pastor

    40:48 Family and Ministry Involvement

    44:58 Political Journey and Community Involvement

    55:51 Encouragement for Fathers

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    1 hr 6 min
  • Who's Driving Your Car?

    Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 My First Driving Lesson

    00:51 Lessons From Grandpa

    03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher

    06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons

    08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson

    10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers

    12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning

    14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood

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    21 min
  • Debunking the Masculinity Myth w/ Mark Oleck

    In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles as leaders and protectors in a godly manner.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Myth of Masculinity

    01:18 Guest Introduction: Mark Oleck

    02:49 Cultural Perceptions of Masculinity

    03:55 Historical Context and Feminism

    06:33 The Role of Fathers and Family Dynamics

    06:56 The Alpha Male Misconception

    16:12 Toxic Masculinity Traits

    21:45 The Importance of Biblical Manhood

    23:49 Pseudo Confidence and Vices

    24:25 The Garden of Eden and Adam's Passivity

    26:42 Toxic Masculinity and Cultural Distractions

    28:38 Humility and the Role of Pride

    30:19 Biblical Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity

    33:10 Elements of Biblical Masculinity

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    43 min
  • Navigating Life’s Seasons with Wisdom and Resilience

    The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for personal growth and resilience.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Understanding Life's Seasons

    00:22 Navigating Through Different Seasons

    02:22 The Power of Seasons

    04:51 Assessing and Analyzing Seasons

    07:00 Learning from Seasons

    08:37 Dealing with Difficult Seasons

    12:45 How to Grow in Challenging Seasons

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    22 min
  • Learning From the Younger Generations w/ Sam Cornelissen

    The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Listening to the Younger Generation

    01:27 Welcome Sam Cornelissen!

    03:19 Seeking Fatherhood Wisdom

    05:12 Navigating Social Media

    06:37 The Role of Family

    13:54 Returning to Faith

    18:52 Selling on Amazon

    21:45 Navigating Entrepreneurial Tensions

    23:37 The Importance of Early Decisions

    24:51 Building a Business in Your 20s

    27:20 Learning from Failures

    28:28 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

    30:48 Balancing Business and Personal Life

    32:45 Mentorship and Passing on Wisdom

    36:02 Challenges of the Younger Generation

    38:23 Advice for the Older Generation

    40:28 Fatherseekers.org

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    43 min
  • How Can I Forgive My Father?

    "If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 How can I forgive HIM?

    00:33 Because Christ forgave you

    02:03 Misconceptions About Forgiveness

    04:34 The True Meaning of Forgiveness

    06:40 The Journey and Importance of Forgiveness

    09:11 God's Requirement for Forgiveness

    16:03 Practical Steps to Forgiveness

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    22 min

About Teach Me to Father

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Join Barry and his friends as they unwrap their stories and, along the way, mine out the wisdom and knowledge for practical application in every father’s life. Together they discover health and wholeness for fathers, their wives, kids, and generations to come.