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Teach Me to Father episodes

  • The "god" of the Wounded Son: Healing From Childhood Trauma

    What if our struggles with faith and trust are rooted in our childhood experiences? Join Barry as he explores the deep impact of father wounds on our perception of God and how to rebuild that broken connection.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Your Childhood Shaped You

    01:05 Wounded Sons

    04:57 Understanding Father Hunger

    05:38 Original Design and Fatherhood

    07:26 Scriptural Insights

    12:51 Psychological Disruption

    15:08 Spiritual Distortion

    17:53 Emotional Suppression

    20:43 Behavioral Compensation

    25:35 Character Formation and Integrity

    27:39 Relational Disruption and Trust

    31:36 Parenting Challenges and Legacy

    34:15 Break the Cycle, Seek God

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    39 min
  • The Impact of Fatherlessness on Masculinity

    What defines true masculinity? Join Barry as he explores the profound effects of fatherlessness on manhood, viewed through the lens of biblical principles. Can the example of Jesus redefine our understanding of being a real man?

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Ultimate Man

    00:45 The Impact of Fatherlessness on Manhood

    02:25 The Quest for Definition

    04:31 Pain Propellant

    05:42 The Importance of Legacy

    07:26 The Need for Initiation

    10:21 The Battle for Masculine Energy

    11:29 The Noise of Silence

    12:29 The Addiction to Affirmation

    14:01 The Mask of Control

    16:11 Proving Strength

    18:00 Unfinished Stories

    19:01 Success vs. Significance

    22:13 Restoration to Original Design

    25:26 Answer the Call!

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    29 min
  • Find the Divine in a Father's Heart

    What constitutes a father's heart? Join Barry as he explores the profound characteristics of a father's heart from scripture. Discover how God's fatherhood was demonstrated to Adam and intended to pass through generations, offering insights into fatherhood skills, moral guidance, and eternal purpose.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Intro: What's In a Heart?

    00:40 Biblical Definition of the Heart

    01:57 The Oldest Story Ever Told: Father and Son

    04:20 God's Fatherhood and Adam's Role

    06:56 Characteristics of Fatherhood

    08:07 God's Creative Authority and Adam's Dominion

    11:49 God's Nurturing and Sustaining Role

    14:08 Moral and Spiritual Guidance

    17:22 The Eternal Purpose and Redemption

    21:43 Practical Application for Modern Fathers

    33:13 Invitation to Join the Father Seekers Community

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    36 min
  • Why Do Fathers Matter?

    Why do fathers matter? Barry addresses the critical importance of fatherhood through biblical insights and personal reflections. Discover how turning fathers' hearts to their children can lead to the healing of families, communities, and even nations. Ready to be part of the change? It starts right here.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Fathers

    00:44 Biblical Perspective on Fatherhood

    01:53 The Cultural Collapse and Fatherhood

    03:12 The Role of Fathers in Healing a Nation

    03:46 The Hope and Call to Action

    04:23 The Impact of Fatherlessness

    05:52 Fatherhood Beyond Politics

    10:48 Identity Crisis and Fatherlessness

    13:18 A Distorted View of God

    19:24 Generational Sin and Repetition

    23:10 Emotional and Psychological Damage

    27:19 Counteracting Fatherlessness

    32:04 The Call to Revival

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    34 min
  • Is Experience Really the Best Teacher?

    We’ve all heard that experience is the best teacher—but what if I told you that’s only half the story? What if the real power isn’t just in what you go through, but in how you look back and learn from it? Today, Barry dives into why experience alone isn’t enough—and how evaluating your experiences is the secret sauce to real growth. Stick around, because if you’re not reflecting on your journey, you might just be repeating the same mistakes over and over again!

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Experience Alone...

    00:43 The Key to True Learning

    04:17 The Importance of Mentorship

    07:13 Evaluating Fatherhood Experience

    12:47 Healing and Overcoming Scars

    23:20 Reflection, Wisdom, and Guidance

    26:25 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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    29 min
  • Unlocking the Power of Prayer: How, When, and Why to Connect with God

    When was the last time you truly prayed? Barry unravels the essence of prayer, exploring Christ's exemplary prayer life, the types of prayer, and the optimal mindset for connecting with God. Learning to pray with intentionality and intimacy.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 The Importance of Prayer

    00:40 Exploring Jesus' Prayer Life

    08:50 Types of Prayers

    17:25 Positions of Prayer

    29:02 Encouragement to Pray

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    31 min
  • What Do You Pursue?

    Do you know what you are in pursuit of? Barry petitions you to focus your pursuits, offering five key areas: wisdom, discipleship, leadership, theology, and fatherhood.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 What Are You Pursuing?

    01:27 Clarifying Your Pursuits

    03:15 So What is It Really?

    06:46 Healthy Pursuits for a Fulfilling Life

    10:11 The Five Key Pursuits

    21:20 Practical Steps For Change

    24:13 The Time is NOW

    26:06 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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    27 min
  • What Does It Take to Leave a Lasting Legacy as a Father?

    What does it really take? Barry unwraps an old saying "Put Your Hand to the Plow" and how focus can radically change your fathering and the legacy you will leave for your family.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Put Your Hand to the Plow

    03:42 Focus on What's in Front of You

    14:07 Embrace Failure, Overcome Fear

    17:51 Final Encouragement

    19:00 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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    20 min
  • The Fruit of Fatherhood

    Want a life hack for being a dad? Barry teaches how to bear spiritual fruit as a father and how to bridge the gap from inexperience to positively impacting their families.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Not a Fan of Life Hacks?

    01:01 Bearing Fruit

    05:13 The Fig Tree Parable

    09:29 The Fruit of the Spirit

    18:37 How to Use the Fruit

    21:06 Fatherseekers.org/FatherFuel

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    22 min
  • Circles: How to Build Better Brotherhood with Other Men

    Why do men think they don't need a circle of friends? In this dynamic episode, Barry drills into the transformative power of male camaraderie, guiding you through the essential elements and steps to create a tight-knit group of like-minded men. Discover how having a circle of trusted friends can elevate your life, foster growth, and keep you accountable.

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    TIMELINE

    00:00 Why Men Need Circles

    01:49 The Power of Fellowship

    02:35 The Mistake of Going Alone

    03:18 Give and Receive

    05:54 Five Benefits of a Circle

    06:59 Comradery

    09:46 Confidants

    11:58 Bible Based Truthful Men

    14:13 Men of Integrity

    16:01 Settled, Secure, and Squared Away

    21:49 How to Build Your Circle

    26:34 Find Your Circle

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    28 min

About Teach Me to Father

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Join Barry and his friends as they unwrap their stories and, along the way, mine out the wisdom and knowledge for practical application in every father’s life. Together they discover health and wholeness for fathers, their wives, kids, and generations to come.