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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Vision boards do come true! In this mini, we talk about dealing with rejection, falling behind on schedules, and the reality of starting a new job while balancing everything else. Then we get into a Tease Me Q&A on celebrating a 21st birthday in Vegas, what to do in Miami, and if couples should match for Halloween. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Nightlife in Madrid, Solo travel, surviving and thriving away from home, the single life, and learning how to order steak are all on the agenda today.

Emily and I get into what traveling and living alone actually look like. From cheap drinks in Europe, blacking out on a Tuesday, and why ordering chicken on a night out is never the move. We talk about being homesick after two months abroad, nightlife in Madrid, and the little lessons you only learn when you’re figuring it out on your own. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Today we’re talking bbl jackets, feeling stuck, rest without guilt, should your partner have friends that are their type, and wrapping it all up with some mid-year reflection.

I know I’m not the only one looking at the calendar like… how is it already August? How is this year halfway over, and why do I still feel behind? Same. This episode is your reminder that it’s not too late to reset, even if this year hasn’t looked how you thought it would. If you’ve been feeling behind, tired, or unsure, you’re not alone. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) I hid the podcast’s birthday out of insecurity.

Going out alone, sneaking into concerts, feeling sick in the summer, naughty Santa parties, and making peace with not being liked are all on the agenda.

This week, I’m talking about the real reason I kept Tease’s one-year milestone to myself and how it ties into wanting more confidence. I’m also getting into how going to The Weeknd’s concert alone led to me sneaking into floor seats (you know I’m telling you how), and what happens when you finally accept that not everyone is going to like you. Also: naughty Santa party chaos, puking & rallying, jungle juice with raw sugar, and navigating those moments when you feel insecure. If you’ve ever felt overlooked, this one might hit. Cakes and candles teasers!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Learning how to use my free will, LA pride, haunted hotels, airport personalities, wlw drama, why nerdy + cool = cool, and how to start doing whatever you want. This week’s episode covers it all!

In this episode, Aleya and Kai talk about what it really looks like to use your free will. From choosing where you live to choosing how you respond to people, they get into how to stop overthinking and start doing what you actually want. They break down type a vs. type b energy at the airport, staying in a “haunted” hotel (reminder to always do your research), and the dramatic run-ins that prove how small the world really is. Plus, why being “cool” is just code for being unapologetic. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Happy Pride Month teasers! In today’s episode, we’re talking dance fitness, staying sober, 75 hard, building a brand, and the reality of being 29 with creator and instructor Shyla.

Aleya and Shy sit down for an upbeat and in-depth conversation on quitting alcohol, hosting your first event, growing up in LA, moving to the South, and how your late 20s really feel when you stop performing and start showing up. From movement to mindset, this episode is all about how to balance your happiness and passion while remaining unapologetically you. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) If you’re in your 20s and trying to figure out what success really means, you’re not alone.

In this episode of Tease, Aleya sits down with her friend Emily to talk about the real version of success in your 20s. Not the curated, aesthetic kind, but the version that includes confusion, healing, starting over, and learning to trust yourself again.

Emily shares her experiences navigating work, money, mindset, relationships, and the unique pressure of being the oldest daughter, all while staying grounded and intentional. Together, they discuss identity, timelines, burnout, self-doubt, dating, and what it truly means to grow into the life you want.

This is the kind of conversation every twenty-something needs. Raw, thoughtful, and reassuring, it’s a reminder that becoming successful doesn’t always look successful while it’s happening. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) This week’s episode feels a lot like a free drink, great but unexpected. Aleya shares what her Vegas chapter has really been like, not the highlight reel, but the emotional hangovers, moments of clarity, and the solo club nights that turned into surprising friendships.

From learning how to use girl privilege in Vegas, getting stuck in a hurricane in Mexico, and navigating new friendships to realizing she was tired of being alone, this episode is what growing up in your 20s sounds like when you’re somewhere between healing and having fun.

She breaks down the perks of girl privilege, the trap of hustling for someone else’s dream, and what happens when you stop waiting on people to experience life. See you on the pod!

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) How to navigate friendships in a relationship and feeling left out as the single friend.

We get it, you’re in love… now what about your friends? This week, we’re diving into how to keep your friendships alive while still being in a relationship. Whether you’re the couple that low-key only hangs out with each other, the duo sharing a friend group, or the single friend wondering where everyone went, we got you.

Also in this episode: Aleya wore her curls out for the first time in years (and her makeup lasted 11 hours with no blotting, thank you), tried self-tanning on dark skin for the first time, and went on a Cinco de Mayo friendship date that somehow turned into a hard launch — framed photo and all. From clumsy moments to craving connection, we’re talking self-worth, social balance, and the little things that remind us who we are, with or without a partner.

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(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) A teaser’s guide to caring less & living more!

This episode is for anyone tired of being a try-hard, constantly overthinking, and letting people’s opinions dictate your confidence. Aleya talks about learning how not caring can actually be the most powerful move in work, friendships, dating, and how you show up for yourself. From a wild job interview in Vegas to compliments that made men uncomfortable (oops), we get into the beauty of not performing, not apologizing for your personality, and finally letting go of that pressure to shrink. The Teasers era is about doing what feels right, even if it’s messy, awkward, or loud. We’re recovering people-pleasers over here, and we don’t feel bad about it. I became very nonchalant, but that’s what y’all wanted, right? For me to not give a f*ck? See you on the pod!

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