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Are you trying to influence at work, at home, or in advocacy—without crossing the line into manipulation?
If you’ve ever worried that persuasion = trickery, this episode shows how to use Dr. Robert Cialdini’s research in an ethical way — so you can reduce uncertainty, motivate action, and deepen relationships. Brian Ahearn (Cialdini Method Certified Trainer) reveals how principles like Liking, Reciprocity, Scarcity, Authority, Social Proof, Commitment/Consistency, and Unity work in real life—and how faith can anchor them.
You’ll learn:
Hit play to learn how to influence with integrity and build trust that lasts—at work, at home, and in your community.
Read Brian's book, Influenced from Above: Where Faith and Influence Meet, at this link: https://tinyurl.com/influenced-from-above
What if you could predict economic growth faster and more accurately than the Federal Reserve—using images from space?
Economic forecasting has always lagged behind reality, relying on outdated reports and anecdotal data. But what if real-time, satellite-driven insights could replace guesswork with precision? In this episode, we explore how satellite imagery and AI are revolutionizing our understanding of macroeconomic trends.
Learn how a groundbreaking algorithm transforms satellite data into GDP forecasts—weeks ahead of government reports.
Discover why satellite imagery outperforms traditional economic indicators in accuracy and speed.
Hear how businesses, investors, and policymakers can use these insights to make smarter, faster decisions in real time.
Listen now to discover how satellite-powered forecasting is changing the economics game—and what it means for your future.
What if the greatest threat to innovation in your company isn’t AI — but how your team reacts to it?
Innovation is accelerating fast — and AI is just the latest wave. But while leaders chase new tools, employees often wrestle with fear, confusion, or resistance. Whether it’s voicemail in the '90s or ChatGPT in your office today, introducing change without empathy can backfire. In this episode, former HP general manager Steve Hinch shares practical strategies for adopting innovation, preparing your people, and avoiding the traps that stall progress.
You'll learn:
1. Learn how to roll out innovation without creating anxiety or job fear in your team
2. Discover why small companies often innovate better — and how large organizations can catch up
3. Get real examples from Steve’s leadership at HP, including what worked and what completely flopped
Press play to learn how to lead your team through innovation with clarity, strategy, and trust — no matter the size of your business.
What if the secret to becoming an effective leader has nothing to do with titles, strategy, or KPIs—and everything to do with people?
In this episode, CEO Jacobia Solomon opens up about her non-linear rise from engineer to executive leader across companies like Ford, Newell Rubbermaid, and Memorial. She shares how she learned the hardest leadership lesson of all: that performance without people isn’t sustainable—and that empathy, courage, and authenticity are the true currencies of influence.
Press play to discover Jacobia’s hard-won lessons on leading with authenticity, building “struggle muscle,” and making a lasting impact in every role you take on.
Can humor actually improve your job performance — or does it just get you in trouble?
If you've ever held back a joke at work or felt unsure about whether humor is “professional,” this episode is for you. We dive into the surprisingly powerful role laughter plays in workplace communication, stress relief, and building trust — and how the wrong type of humor can backfire fast.
Discover the key differences between helpful humor and harmful humor in professional settings. Learn how laughter directly impacts brain function, creativity, and perseverance under pressure. And hear real-world examples of how (and how not) to use humor with coworkers, clients, and teams
Press play now to learn how to harness the power of laughter without crossing the line — and start building stronger, healthier workplace relationships.
Benefits of Laughter (00:00:38)
Kim discusses how laughter enhances interpersonal communication and job performance.
Anecdote about Humor (00:01:16)
Kim shares a story about a humorous interaction at a home show that led to a business connection.
Impact on Creativity (00:03:04)
Laughter is shown to improve creativity and learning, as studies indicate.
Leadership and Humor (00:03:39)
Using humor effectively can enhance leadership perception and employee relationships.
Caution with Humor (00:04:30)
Barry recounts his experience with humor in leadership and the need for caution.
Increased Sensitivity to Humor (00:06:39)
Kim notes that people are more sensitive to humor, making it important to be cautious.
Types of Humor in the Workplace (00:07:49)
Different humor types, like sarcasm, can be risky in professional settings.
Golfing and Humor (00:08:28)
Barry shares his experience with sarcastic humor while golfing with friends.
Understanding Humor Sensitivity (00:09:31)
Kim emphasizes the importance of knowing what humor is appropriate in various situations.
Effective Team Communication (00:11:18)
Barry discusses using humor to bond with teammates over shared challenges.
Risks of Humor (00:12:15)
Kim highlights the potential risks of humor and how it can offend others.
Navigating Humor Offense (00:14:11)
Barry asks about strategies to avoid offending others with humor in presentations.
Improving Humor Sensitivity (00:15:27)
Kim suggests being mindful of sensitive topics and seeking feedback on humor.
Understanding Humor's Intent (00:16:24)
Discussion on the intention behind humor and the importance of uplifting versus putting down.
Navigating Cultural Sensitivity (00:17:25)
A reminder to be cautious with humor that may offend cultural sensitivities.
Feedback on Icebreakers (00:18:39)
Barry shares an experience about receiving feedback on his icebreaker question's potential to alienate.
The Importance of Delivery (00:20:01)
Emphasizing the need for an open-hearted approach when asking personal questions.
Handling Offense in Communication (00:21:29)
Strategies for providing constructive feedback when someone’s humor doesn’t land well.
Approaching Sensitive Topics (00:22:37)
Advice on how to address potentially offensive jokes with empathy and awareness.
Teasing and Its Risks (00:23:52)
Discussion on the appropriateness of teasing in workplace dynamics and understanding context.
Reading the Room (00:27:08)
The necessity of gauging humor's reception based on familiarity with the audience.
Building Connections Through Humor (00:29:55)
Strategies for using humor to foster positive relationships with clients.
Cautious Humor in Client Interactions (00:32:11)
Advice against negative humor and teasing when engaging with new clients.
Avoiding Political Humor (00:32:22)
A strong recommendation to steer clear of political humor to avoid alienating audiences.
The Value of Light Humor (00:33:31)
Encouragement to use light humor, like dad jokes, as an icebreaker in meetings.
Here are the extracted timestamps and their corresponding titles from the podcast episode transcription segment:
The Power of Interaction (00:33:56)
Discusses how even negative reactions can still be positive interactions.
Health Benefits of Humor (00:34:04)
Explores the impact of humor on health, well-being, and stress reduction.
Personal Journey to Laughter Leadership (00:34:20)
Kim shares her experience with therapeutic laughter during a health challenge.
Therapeutic Laughter and Play (00:35:31)
Describes laughter yoga and the benefits of playful interactions without competition.
Laughter's Impact on Caregivers (00:36:32)
Highlights how laughter energizes and uplifts caregivers during serious discussions.
The Idea of Not Keeping Score (00:37:15)
Barry reflects on the stress of competitive games and the joy of playful interactions.
Radical Idea of Play (00:40:29)
Kim discusses the transformative nature of playing games without keeping score.
Creating a Laughter List (00:42:26)
Kim introduces her laughter list as a tool for accessing joy during stressful times.
Interactive Laughter Workshops (00:44:19)
Explains the structure and goals of her laughter and stress relief workshops.
Instant Connections Through Laughter (00:46:13)
Describes how laughter fosters immediate connections among participants in workshops.
Silly Jokes and Their Impact (00:46:25)
Barry and Kim share jokes, illustrating the instant mood boost from laughter.
What if you had a simple language for emotions that lets you defuse conflict, feel safer, and actually change outcomes—in your marriage, at work, and even in a heated sports match?
In this episode, pastoral counselor and author Myke Merrill explains “Reality Intelligence”—a practical framework that turns vague feelings into clear choices. If you’ve ever stumbled for the right words in a tough conversation, shut down around big emotions, or watched a disagreement escalate, this episode gives you handles to understand what you’re perceiving, what you’re feeling, and how to respond (not just react) so you can get the result you actually want.
You'll discover the five core emotional systems—Acceptance (love), Exposure (fear), Empowerment (anger), Depletion (sadness), and Celebration (joy)—and how intensity shifts the words you choose and the actions you take.
You'll learn real-world de-escalation tools: stand up/sit down resets, three deep breaths, and the three magic words “Tell me more,” plus how body position and movement signal (and balance) power.
You'll get a repeatable loop—Perceptions → Emotions → Motivations → Behaviors—to map any heated moment (from partner talks to workplace flare-ups to sports) and choose a response that changes the outcome.
Press play now to master Reality Intelligence and walk away with scripts and moves you can use today to turn conflict into clarity and connection.
Host Barry Moline and Tara Landes delve into the intricacies of influence and persuasion, emphasizing the importance of ethical practices. Barry introduces three core elements of ethical persuasion: truth, common sense, and wisdom. Tara challenges the notion of common sense, arguing that it is subjective and context-dependent. They discuss how truth can also be interpreted differently based on individual perspectives. Through various examples, including personal and professional experiences, they explore the fine line between ethical influence and manipulation. The conversation underscores the complexities and nuances of maintaining ethical standards in persuasion and influence.
Elements of Ethical Persuasion (00:00:44)
Barry outlines the three elements of ethical persuasion: truth, common sense, and wisdom.
Questioning Common Sense (00:01:12)
Tara shares her perspective, arguing that common sense varies based on individual experiences.
Contextual Nature of Common Sense (00:01:55)
Tara explains that common sense is contextual and differs between cultures and personal backgrounds.
Is Truth Contextual? (00:03:03)
Barry and Tara discuss whether truth can also be considered contextual, highlighting differing perspectives.
Ethics in Pricing (00:04:26)
Tara raises the issue of ethical pricing during crises, using the example of overpriced hand sanitizer.
Wise Recommendations (00:05:19)
Barry introduces the third element, wisdom, questioning if recommendations are wise for close relationships.
Ethical vs. Unethical Investment (00:06:09)
Tara shares her experience with stock promoters, illustrating the difference between wise and ethical investments.
Win-Win Outcomes (00:08:15)
Barry proposes the idea of win-win outcomes as a basis for ethical decisions in persuasion.
Scarcity of Information (00:10:37)
Tara discusses the ethical implications of selling exclusive information, questioning its morality.
Manipulation vs. Persuasion (00:11:46)
Barry notes the continuum between influence and manipulation, emphasizing intent in ethical persuasion.
The Role of Ethics in Influence (00:12:43)
Barry reflects on the complexities of ethical influence, noting that it can be used for both good and bad.
Legitimate Scarcity (00:13:23)
Barry explains the concept of legitimate scarcity in marketing, contrasting it with manipulative practices.
Conference Ticket Ethics (00:14:46)
The discussion shifts to ethics surrounding free conference tickets and their impact on paying attendees.
Search Pricing and Ethics (00:16:32)
Barry and Tara relate ethical considerations to search pricing, referencing a recent airplane ticket discussion.
Applying Influence Principles (00:16:49)
Tara shares her personal experiences using influence principles in her work, particularly in waitressing.
Reciprocity in Service (00:17:51)
Tara discusses using the principle of reciprocity to increase tips by providing extra service.
Ethics of Gift-Giving (00:18:27)
Tara reflects on the ethics of giving gifts to customers to enhance their experience and increase tips.
Here are the extracted timestamps and their corresponding titles from the podcast episode transcription segment:
The Value of Gifting (00:18:42)
Tara discusses the importance of providing value through thoughtful gifts, using a pen as an example.
Reciprocity in Action (00:19:48)
Tara shares stories of how gifting pens led to positive responses and increased goodwill.
The Power of Storytelling (00:20:06)
Barry emphasizes that sharing the story behind a gift enhances its perceived value.
Confirming Friendships (00:20:33)
Barry reflects on using affirmations to strengthen friendships and the ethics of influence.
Encouraging Progress (00:22:16)
Tara explains how congratulating clients on starting projects fosters motivation and commitment.
Verbal Upfront Contracts (00:26:05)
Tara introduces a technique for addressing issues proactively through structured conversations.
Managing Expectations (00:29:04)
Tara illustrates how to set expectations with clients to prevent delays in decision-making.
Building Authority (00:30:59)
Tara discusses enhancing credibility by using data and specific achievements in professional bios.
Using Testimonials Effectively (00:33:24)
Tara explains the importance of gathering and utilizing testimonials for credibility and marketing.
Asking for Reviews (00:36:01)
Tara shares her approach to requesting reviews from clients as a form of appreciation.
Obtaining Google Reviews (00:36:39)
Discussion on the system for acquiring Google reviews and its effectiveness.
Offering Help in Crisis (00:37:16)
Tara explains the importance of providing specific options when offering help to someone in need.
Cialdini Certified Trainers (00:38:39)
Barry and Tara celebrate their certification as Cialdini trainers and discuss its significance.
Overview of Bell Rock Services (00:39:08)
Tara describes the various foundational services offered by her company, Bell Rock.
Management Training Programs (00:40:27)
Details about the management training programs, including class structure and one-on-one coaching.
Impact of Learning (00:41:39)
Tara explains how follow-up coaching enhances the learning experience from the original class.
Host Barry Moline and political analyst Michael Nolan examine the early months of Trump’s second term. They discuss the administration’s legislative victories, including the sweeping "HR 1" bill, which extends Trump-era tax cuts while slashing Medicaid, SNAP, and clean energy credits. The conversation covers the challenges of unified Republican government, controversial moves on tariffs, immigration, FEMA’s future, and the fallout from the Epstein files controversy. Michael provides insight into legislative maneuvering, partisan tensions, and the political stakes heading into the 2026 midterms.
Congressional Recess and Early Adjournment (00:00:21)
Discussion of August recess, early House adjournment due to Epstein controversy, and general mood in Washington.
Trump Presidency Report Card & Unified Government (00:01:40)
Assessment of Trump’s first six months, compliant Congress, and dynamics of unified Republican control.
Rescission Package and Congressional Compliance (00:03:17)
Explanation of recent $9 billion rescission bill, elimination of public broadcasting funding, and Congress’s response.
Tariffs and Trump’s Transactional Style (00:05:20)
Evaluation of Trump’s tariff policy, negotiation style, and early impacts on manufacturing and trade.
Tariff Impacts and Manufacturing (00:07:12)
Debate over who pays tariffs, long-term vs. short-term effects, and early signs of manufacturing returning.
Immigration Policy and Public Opinion (00:10:47)
Overview of Trump’s immigration enforcement, polling numbers, and the punitive approach to border security.
Border Security and H.R. One Overview (00:13:49)
Details on increased border security funding, defense spending, and the origins of the “One Big Beautiful Bill.”
Defense Spending Increase (00:14:45)
Discussion of unprecedented Pentagon budget, shipbuilding ambitions, and rationale for defense funding.
Energy Policy Preferences (00:15:57)
Trump’s opposition to wind and solar, and how these preferences shaped the energy components of H.R. One.
Budget Reconciliation and H.R. One Passage (00:16:34)
Explanation of budget reconciliation process, passage of H.R. One, and its focus on making Trump tax cuts permanent.
Political Fallout from H.R. One (00:22:07)
Analysis of the bill’s political implications, Medicaid and SNAP cuts, and impact on upcoming midterms.
Senate Dynamics and Retirements (00:23:54)
Consequences of H.R. One votes, Thom Tillis’s retirement, and potential for Democrats to flip Senate seats.
Energy Tax Credits Rollback (00:24:41)
Repeal and phase-out of clean energy tax credits, impact on projects and jobs, and Republican debates over phase-outs.
Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP) (00:30:42)
Trump’s attempt to eliminate LIHEAP, bipartisan support for the program, and congressional efforts to preserve funding.
FEMA Elimination Proposal (00:34:11)
Trump’s proposal to eliminate FEMA, congressional resistance, and prospects for FEMA reform and rebranding.
Epstein Controversy and Congressional Avoidance (00:41:03)
House adjournment to avoid Epstein file vote, political chaos, and implications for Trump and Speaker Johnson.
Midterm Election Strategies and Redistricting (00:44:17)
Impact of H.R. One and Epstein on midterms, Trump’s push for mid-decade redistricting, and potential consequences.
September Legislative Deadlines and Shutdown Risk (00:47:14)
Upcoming appropriations deadlines, risk of government shutdown, and lack of bipartisan cooperation in Congress.
Conclusion and Outlook (00:49:27)
Summary of political climate, anticipation for August recess, and closing remarks.
Host Barry interviews Michael Crowl, CEO of University Federal Credit Union (UFCU). Michael shares his unconventional career path, leadership philosophy, and the importance of member satisfaction in the credit union industry. He discusses UFCU’s focus on consumer banking, strategic decisions, and adapting to trends like digital transformation and AI. Michael emphasizes the value of authentic leadership, member engagement, and continuous improvement. The episode also features personal insights, Michael's book recommendations, and advice for young professionals on building relationships, understanding values, and embracing intentionality in both career and life.
Michael’s Career Path and Lessons Learned (00:00:27)
Michael discusses his unexpected path to CEO, early roles, and key leadership lessons.
Background and Early Career (00:02:14)
Michael shares his CPA journey, finance background, and transition from investment banking to credit unions.
Becoming CEO and Strategic Planning (00:04:00)
Michael explains his transition to CEO, overlap with predecessor, and involvement in strategic planning.
The Responsibility of Being CEO (00:05:12)
Michael reflects on the weight of leading a member-owned cooperative and balancing multiple stakeholder needs.
Focus Areas as CEO (00:09:13)
Michael identifies member satisfaction, loyalty, and membership growth as his primary focus areas.
Gathering and Responding to Member Feedback (00:10:29)
Discussion of UFCU’s survey system, focus groups, and how member feedback is collected and analyzed.
Sharing Feedback with Staff (00:12:15)
Michael describes how survey results and member sentiments are communicated to staff for continuous improvement.
Handling Negative Feedback (00:13:25)
Michael outlines internal processes for responding to dissatisfied members and the importance of follow-up.
Culture of Member Service (00:15:09)
Emphasis on organization-wide commitment to member service, including back-office staff.
Aspirations and Member Love (00:17:22)
Michael discusses UFCU’s aspiration to be “loved by millions” and the correlation between love, NPS, and performance.
Michael’s Childhood Ambitions (00:18:39)
Michael reflects on his childhood interests, love of math, and early analytical tendencies.
Balancing Analytics and People Skills (00:20:46)
Michael talks about evolving from a numbers focus to valuing people and relationships, influenced by his wife.
Community Engagement and Relationship Building (00:21:37)
Michael explains the importance of external engagement and relational culture at UFCU.
Leadership Journey and Development (00:23:03)
Michael shares insights on leadership growth, coaching, and the importance of being worthy of being followed.
About UFCU: Products, Services, and Value Proposition (00:26:05)
Overview of UFCU’s history, member-centric approach, and focus on omnichannel consumer banking.
Exiting Commercial Lending for Focus (00:28:14)
Michael explains the decision to exit commercial lending to focus on consumer banking and organizational strengths.
The Importance of Focus and Bold Moves (00:30:44)
Discussion on strategic focus, making hard choices, and UFCU’s “bold moves” inspired by McKinsey research.
Trends in Credit Unions and Business: AI and Digital Transformation (00:33:43)
Michael discusses the impact of AI, digital transformation, and the need for responsible innovation.
Applications of AI in Member Service (00:37:08)
Barry and Michael discuss practical uses of AI, such as chatbots and improving customer experience.
Personal Interests and Work-Life Balance (00:38:31)
Michael shares his hobbies, like running and spending time outdoors, for mental reset and perspective.
Book Recommendation: The Geek Way (00:39:45)
Michael recommends “The Geek Way” for insights on mindset and organizational value creation.
Favorite Foods (00:40:38)
Michael mentions his love for barbecue and Tex-Mex cuisine.
Personal Values: Integrity and Authenticity (00:41:05)
Michael highlights integrity and authenticity as his core values and leadership principles.
Best Advice Received: Know Your Values (00:42:37)
Michael emphasizes the importance of understanding and living by one’s true values.
Advice for Young Professionals (00:44:13)
Michael advises young people to maximize 401k, build relationships, be curious, and engage actively in their careers.
In this episode, host Barry Moline and Vladimir Bushin discuss the importance of making connections and fostering engagement in group settings. Barry introduces the concept of a "huddle," where participants introduce themselves by sharing their name, role, and company to reduce anxiety and create comfort. Vlad highlights the role of psychological cues and vulnerability in building connections, especially in negotiations. We share anecdotes illustrating how small acts of openness can lead to meaningful interactions. Our conversation emphasizes the significance of human connection in both professional and social contexts, encouraging listeners to be proactive and intentional in their engagements.
Vlad offers a free coaching session on negotiation, building relationships, handling difficult conversations. Contact him at [email protected]
The Huddle Concept (00:00:08)
Barry explains the importance of a "huddle" for introductions in group settings to foster comfort.
Origin of the Huddle (00:01:27)
Barry shares insights from Atul Gawande's "The Checklist Manifesto" about huddles in surgical teams.
Reducing Anxiety through Introductions (00:03:01)
Barry discusses how introductions alleviate the anxiety of not knowing others in a room.
Personal Experience with Huddles (00:04:21)
Barry recounts using huddles during a pickleball game to enhance social comfort.
Negotiation and Friend/Foe Dynamics (00:05:20)
Vlad connects the huddle concept to negotiation, emphasizing emotional cues in forming connections.
Active Vulnerability in Negotiation (00:07:05)
Vlad explains the importance of vulnerability in negotiations to create a friendly atmosphere.
Cues for Friend or Foe (00:10:16)
Barry asks about cues that indicate whether someone is a friend or foe in interactions.
Columbo Effect in Vulnerability (00:11:25)
Vlad describes the "Columbo Effect" and how vulnerability can foster connection in negotiations.
Asking for Help and Connection (00:12:47)
Barry discusses how asking for directions can create a bond and establish trust.
Ronald Reagan's Hearing Aid Story (00:13:58)
Barry shares a story about Reagan showcasing vulnerability during a meeting with future in-laws.
Importance of Vulnerability (00:16:34)
Barry reflects on how vulnerability fosters human connection in various situations.
Embarrassment vs. Confidence (00:17:06)
Vlad emphasizes that feeling embarrassed can lead to successful connections rather than needing confidence.
The Story of the Hat (00:19:07)
Vladimir shares how a conversation about a unique hat led to a deeper connection.
Identity Communication (00:20:25)
Discussion on how personal items reflect our identity and facilitate connections.
The Connector Patrick (00:21:09)
Barry describes Patrick as an easygoing connector who engages others effortlessly.
Cultural Differences in Connection (00:22:02)
Vlad contrasts connection styles between Russian and American cultures.
Tom's Connector Skills (00:23:26)
Barry recounts Tom's ability to connect with others, even moving tables to engage.
Observing Connection Mechanics (00:25:26)
Barry reflects on learning from Tom's approach to engaging conversations.
The Liking Gap (00:27:41)
Barry explains research on why people hesitate to connect, highlighting self-perception.
Overcoming Connection Barriers (00:28:52)
Discussion on how to bridge the liking gap through simple engagement efforts.
Courage to Connect (00:29:29)
Vlad emphasizes the courage needed to initiate conversations despite past anxieties.
Questioning Beliefs About Connection (00:31:53)
Vlad discusses how unverified beliefs hinder connection and need to be questioned.
Breaking the Connection Pattern (00:33:48)
Vlad suggests questioning the belief that deeper conversation requires extensive dialogue.
Engaging in Small Talk (00:34:55)
Barry and Vlad discuss the importance of starting conversations with small topics.
Deepening Conversations (00:35:21)
Vlad explains how to transition from small talk to deeper discussions.
Responsibility for Connection (00:36:54)
Vlad asserts that connecting is a skill, and individuals must take responsibility to improve.
Responsibility for Connection (00:37:40)
Discussion on the importance of taking responsibility for making connections in life.
Leadership and Connection (00:38:28)
The role of leaders in fostering connections among new team members.
Cialdini's Principles of Liking (00:39:52)
Exploration of how asking about others fosters deeper connections.
Understanding Clients in Negotiation (00:40:24)
Vlad shares insights on how understanding clients builds rapport.
Reflective Listening in Negotiation (00:41:00)
Importance of listening and reflecting in negotiation practice.
Value of Silence (00:43:10)
Discussing how allowing silence aids self-reflection and understanding.
Dopamine and Small Connections (00:43:23)
Connecting initial interactions to feelings of happiness and dopamine release.
Weak Ties and Engagement (00:45:16)
The significance of brief interactions in creating a sense of community.
Overcoming Anxiety in Interactions (00:48:04)
Vlad shares how small acts can help overcome social anxiety.
Changing Belief Systems (00:49:16)
Discussion on how small actions can alter one's belief system over time.
Addressing Anxiety in Connections (00:50:39)
Encouragement to question the source of anxiety in social situations.
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