In this episode Devin Physique and Dr. Ashley Contorno tackle the messy, emotional, and sometimes uncomfortable reality of cheating. From sex drive mismatches to unspoken emotional wounds, the two open up about their own experiences—being cheated on, doing the cheating, and everything in between. Ashley shares deeply personal stories from past relationships, including infidelity, emotional neglect, and the life-altering lessons that followed. Devin gets brutally honest about his own past as a serial cheater, unpacking the root causes behind his behavior, the lies he told, and how therapy helped him transform.
They explore the role of communication (or lack thereof), sexual needs, trauma, and how unhealed parts of us often drive betrayal. The conversation dives into toxic patterns, ethical non-monogamy, the difference between male and female cheating, and why some people never truly feel fulfilled in relationships. Vulnerable, powerful, and unapologetically honest—this episode will leave you questioning what loyalty, growth, and connection really mean in today's world.
Listen in to learn:
- Why people cheat—and what it really says about them
- The red flags we ignore and the truths we suppress
- How emotional immaturity and unspoken kinks sabotage relationships
- The healing that only brutal honesty can bring
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