Terraforma Church

The two trees mentioned in the Garden of Eden represent the dichotomy of choice. Created in the image of God, we have been entrusted with the incredible power to choose our course and shape the future. You are free to make a choice, so what will you choose? Your choices can either create chaos or build beauty. Choose life.

When we enjoy a sense of secure attachment to God and to one another, these relationships becomes a key that unlocks all kinds of great things for you in adulthood: the ability to form healthy friendships, intimate and fulfilling romantic relationships, resiliency for life‚as difficulties, and even things like the ability to take healthy risks. Look with us at the story of a father and his two lost sons through the lens of attachment theory.

Boundaries are the rules of engagement for all of our relationships. Boundaries help us to stay healthy as they provide structure that protects balance. The only way for unhealthy people to have healthy relationships is by establishing and maintaining boundaries.

The primary relationship in your home, the one that will impact all the others, is the relationship you have with your spouse. Learn with us about three streams of love that happy couples learn to enjoy. Grow in friendship, commitment, and passion - and begin to build the marriage you wish you had.

There is one specific skill that make the difference between healthy relationships and struggling relationships. Mature and balanced couples, families, and friendships can do this. Selfish and unbalanced relationships struggle to do this. It is assertive communication, and if you learn this skill your relationships will thrive.

We all have to deal with the fact that sometimes our momentary appetites can interfere with our ultimate desires. Focus can protect your progress. Focus can keep you from wandering off course. This is because as your focus becomes clearer, the distractions of momentary appetites decrease in power and pull.

Our stories suffer from a lack of focus. This is especially true when we see the world through the distorted lenses of fear and hate. This morning, we are talking about regaining our focus by seeing our stories through the lens of faith, where we allow the perspective of eternity to frame our beliefs and behaviors.

Every single one of us has limits. When we live up to and even try to live beyond our limits, our lives are frantic, anxious, and stressed. God invites us to recognize our limits and then take a step back from them so we can live with margin. He invites us to put some space between your load and your limit. We talk in this message about three ancient practices to help us structure our lives with margin.

Jesus talked about the danger of living for the approval and admiration of other people and giving other people power over your life and sense of worth and identity. Theologians call the opposite of this living “Coram Deo,” living “before God.” TThis means living for a singular audience; to live for the approval and for the glory of God alone.