That Actor Couple

This week on That Actor Couple, Jesse turns down an audition… only to get it sent to him again.

What followed was a lesson in ownership, confidence, and creative bravery.

We talk about:
• Why callbacks aren’t about “good vs bad”
• What casting is actually testing in the room
• When to take a note — and when to take ownership
• The power of gratitude on your journey

No one can be you better than you. And that might be the edge you’ve been looking for.

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candace Malinowski talk about a part of the acting journey that rarely gets discussed: finding momentum during the mundane weeks.

They break down how most progress doesn’t come from big bookings or exciting wins — it comes from showing up consistently when the work feels repetitive, quiet, or uninspiring. Jesse shares how sitting in on a headshot session unexpectedly reignited his energy, while Candace talks about the importance of staying engaged even when things feel flat.

This episode covers:

• Why momentum often shows up after routine work

• How mundane weeks still compound into long-term growth

• Why actors can’t wait for motivation to strike

• How exposure to other artists can reset your mindset

• The danger of disengaging when nothing “big” is happening

• Why consistency matters more than excitement

This is a grounded conversation about discipline, perspective, and staying in motion, even when the work doesn’t feel glamorous.

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What helps you stay motivated during slower weeks?

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candace Malinowski talk honestly about something many actors struggle with: being called in over and over for the same shows.

Jesse shares that he’s auditioned for the same series dozens of times across multiple seasons and explains why that repetition isn’t a failure — it’s evidence that casting trusts you and sees your range. Candace challenges the idea that casting should “hold tapes,” and together they unpack how the audition process actually works behind the scenes.

They also discuss:

• Why getting annoyed by repeat auditions is often ego-driven

• How casting directors really view actors they keep bringing back

• Why not booking doesn’t mean you’re doing bad work

• How to mentally reframe auditions so they don’t drain you

• Why stability in today’s industry looks different than it used to

• Why switching roles or career lanes in the industry is not failure

• How age ranges and breakdowns are more flexible than actors think

This episode is a grounded conversation about longevity, mindset, and perspective in a modern acting career.

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Do repeat auditions motivate you — or frustrate you?

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candace Malinowski talk honestly about slow weeks, inconsistent auditions, and why actors should stop judging their careers in short time frames.Jesse shares that he had no auditions this week and explains why that was actually a positive thing, given other professional commitments. Together, they break down why looking at your acting career in three-month increments gives a more realistic and healthier perspective.The conversation also covers:

Why slow weeks often balance out later

The importance of having other creative outletsHow alternate income streams reduce pressure on acting

Why auditions can disappear for reasons completely out of your control

Why learning to self-tape independently matters

How to handle auditions during unexpected situations like power outages

Why actors should stop letting other people’s opinions dictate their decisions

This episode is a grounded reminder that progress isn’t measured weekly and that long-term consistency matters more than short-term fluctuations.

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candace Malinowski break down a powerful lesson for actors: trying to move faster can actually slow your career down.

Using a real-life analogy from Jesse’s recent agility competition with Maverick, they talk about how rushing, overloading yourself with auditions, and chasing volume can lead to mistakes, burnout, and missed opportunities. The conversation draws clear parallels between competing too fast in agility and actors trying to book too quickly without focus.

They also discuss:

Why fewer auditions done well can be more effective than high volume

Candace’s voiceover work and how repeat clients compound income

How investing in skills (like VO training) can pay off long-term

Why actors underestimate how little most working actors actually earn

The importance of supplemental creative income

Breaking income goals into smaller, realistic pieces

Why enjoying the audition process matters more than chasing bookings

This episode reframes success for actors as patience, focus, and sustainability, not speed.

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Do you feel pressure to move faster in your acting career—or are you learning to slow down?

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candace reflect on a surprising realization from the past year: not setting goals led to more fulfillment, growth, and career momentum than ever before.

Candace explains why traditional goal-setting didn’t work for her, how being overly committed to outcomes created guilt and burnout, and why following energy instead of obligation changed everything. Jesse shares his initial resistance to the idea of “no goals,” and how watching it play out reshaped his perspective.

They also talk about:

Auditioning and self-taping while on vacation

Working through guilt, people-pleasing, and over-commitment

How flexibility changed their relationship with auditions

Why momentum can still exist without rigid plans

Disney+ introducing vertical content and what that may mean for actors

Why January pressure and “new year expectations” often hurt more than help

This conversation challenges the belief that success only comes from strict planning and encourages actors to consider what actually feels sustainable for them.

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Are you someone who thrives on structure—or do you need more flexibility right now?

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In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candice Malinowski record from vacation and break down a very real acting question: why do working actors keep saying yes—even when it’s inconvenient?They talk through recent auditions, self-taping while traveling, booking voiceover work, and the mindset shift that comes from experience. The conversation covers why “it’s slow” is often a limiting belief, how being on set builds confidence, and why saying yes doesn’t mean having no standards—it means understanding momentum.This episode touches on:Auditioning and self-taping while on vacationWhy experienced actors stop overthinking logisticsThe value of being on set, even for smaller rolesSelf-submitting and choosing projects strategicallyWhy booking out completely can work against actorsCommunity, support, and actively nurturing relationshipsHow hard things become easy through repetitionIf you’ve ever wondered whether it’s okay to say yes to work that isn’t “perfect,” or how working actors stay mentally steady, this episode offers a transparent look at how Jesse and Candice approach it.👇 Comment below:Do you usually say yes to auditions while traveling, or do you book out?📩 Join the Get Scene newsletter:https://getscenestudios.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7660af20fdb3c04d6b6516591&id=eecb804958

In this episode of That Actor Couple, Jesse and Candice Malinowski have an honest conversation about why so many actors burn out—and what actually creates longevity in an acting career.They talk openly about:Turning auditions down (and when it actually makes sense)Why slow periods can be healthy and necessaryThe pressure actors feel to be “full-time actors”Why financial stability matters more than people admitHow an outdated mindset leads to stress, burnout, and bad decisionsThe importance of building a full life outside of actingThis episode challenges the idea that acting should be the only source of income or identity—and reframes what success really looks like for working actors today.If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting stability, rest, or a life beyond auditions, this conversation is for you.👉 Share this episode with an actor who needs to hear this.👉 Comment below: What part of the actor lifestyle causes you the most stress right now?📩 Join the Get Scene newsletter:https://getscenestudios.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7660af20fdb3c04d6b6516591&id=eecb804958Join Our In Person Actors Summit: Use promo code PODSUMMIT2025https://www.getscenestudios.com/southeast-actor-summit

Welcome to Episode 2 of That Actor Couple with Jesse and Candace Malinowski — married working actors who run Get Scene Studios in Atlanta, Georgia and share the real version of their weekly acting lives through their A.C.T. structure:🎭 ACTING: Auditions, Mindset, and Set DaysThis week, they share:What it was like being on a Lifetime set for multiple days and why she values “reps” on set more than anything.How even one-liners or co-star moments can lead to multi-day contracts or recurring opportunities.🎬 SET BEHAVIOR: The Hard Truths Actors Need to HearCandace breaks down what she witnessed on set this week:Actors showing up without knowing their linesPeople scrolling their phones after being called to setActors arriving hours lateHow these behaviors delay production, cost money, and affect everyone’s overtime🌐 COMMUNITY: Casting Networks ChangesThis week’s actor-world topic focuses on the confusion surrounding:Casting Networks charging agents monthly feesSome agents shifting to Casting.comWhether actors should “boycott” Casting NetworksJoin our Southeast Actor Summit, a three-day in-person event featuring top industry professionals. Early-bird tickets are available now, and you can use promo code PODSUMMIT to save $20.https://www.getscenestudios.com/southeast-actor-summit

🎭 The reality of auditions— Why actors brag about busy weeks but never admit the dry spells— Jesse’s SAG Valley Bank commercial that turned into multiple spots and a print ad— Candace’s 11-year journey to finally book a Lifetime movie💼 The value of doing lower-budget, multi-day projects— Why they often build MORE confidence and better set skills than one-day co-stars📉 The community topic: Why actors constantly ask ‘What’s going on audition-wise?’— And why that question drives them crazy🧘‍♀️ The Takeaway: Protect Your PeaceCandace speaks on boundaries, social overwhelm, drinking, holiday energy, and knowing when to say YES or NO to events.This episode is the perfect mix of humor, real career talk, and genuine marriage banter — a must-watch for any actor who craves honesty about the journey.