That Bitch

She went from broke baby bitch victim energy to $500K cash in a year — with only 1,000 followers. This episode, Kim gets radically honest about the belief systems she had to rip apart, burn down, and rebuild from scratch before the money, the dream cars, the European trips, and the fully booked business could show up.

This one's part spiritual deep dive, part business origin story, part kick in the ass — and it's exactly what you need to hear if you're still letting your inner critic run the show.

HIGHLIGHTS
→ From woe-is-me victim to $500K cash: the origin story Kim doesn't sugarcoat
→ What a spiritual awakening in COVID had to do with building a multi-six-figure business
→ The 'house of cards' belief system that was keeping her broke — and how she pulled it all down
→ Why God (the universe, source — whatever you call it) doesn't actually care if you suffer OR if you succeed
→ The exact mindset flip: what happens when you decide to play the story where you win
→ Human design reflectors, energetics, and why Kim studies female spiritual teachers
→ Spiritual belief #1: You were not put on this earth to suffer
→ Spiritual belief #2: God loves you and wants you to win — and what that actually requires of you
→ The books that changed everything: Conversations with God, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, Ram Dass
→ Why self-judgment, shame, and your inner critic are the biggest business blockers nobody talks about

0:00 Intro — Are you ready to be that bitch?
1:30 Kim's quick stats: $500K cash, 1K followers, 14 solo trips, dream cars
4:00 Who Kim was before: broke baby bitch, victim energy, woe is me
7:15 The 2008 recession, nannying, and feeling like life was over
9:30 COVID forced her to lay herself off — and ask the hardest question of her life
11:45 Who the fuck are you? The identity crisis that started everything
14:00 Sitting in nature for hours and why it wasn't enough
15:30 Seeking support and reading everything on purpose, joy, and fulfillment
17:00 Human design: being a reflector and what that actually means
19:30 Conversations with God — the book series that changed Kim's entire life
21:45 Dr. Joe Dispenza, Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, Ram Dass — the teachers she studied
23:30 Why she started seeking out female spiritual teachers specifically
25:00 Everything on this planet is neutral — the realization that pulled the house of cards down
27:15 If God doesn't care whether you're rich or broke, what's your choice?
29:30 Living in a meat suit: witnessing yourself vs. being your circumstances
32:00 Spiritual belief #1: You were not put on this earth to suffer
34:30 Deciding to play the story where you win — and what that actually looks like
37:00 Spiritual belief #2: God loves you and wants you to win
39:15 Seeing yourself with the reverence God sees you with — no shame, no self-judgment

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Vasavi Kumar has never been quiet — and she's built her entire business on teaching women to stop being quiet too. As the author of Say It Out Loud and founder of the Out Loud School, Vasavi is on a mission to train women in business to use their voice everywhere. Not find it. Use it.

Kim and Vasavi get into the real shit: what it means to grow up in a household that told you to shrink, why God can't reward what's being hidden, and how Vasavi went from manually emailing strangers she met at a 50,000-woman conference to getting a call from a VH1 producer three years later — because she showed up and let herself be seen.

HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why showing up small attracts insecure clients — and drains you dry
→ The first-generation immigrant conditioning that teaches women to disappear
→ Vasavi's origin story: from manually emailing 50,000 women to landing a VH1 reality show
→ Why God can't reward what's being hidden
→ The identity shift that has to happen before the money and opportunities follow
→ How to be that bitch even when life has knocked you down more than once
→ The fear that your power will make you "too much" for your spouse — and what to do about it

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Rich girl energy isn't about your bank account — it's about self-respect. And Kim is not sugarcoating it today.

In this episode, Kim breaks down what rich girl energy actually means: knowing who you are, holding standards, protecting your energy, and respecting the vision that was put on your heart. If you've been playing small, tolerating disrespect from clients, or feeding the narratives other people created about you — this one's gonna hit.

HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why rich girl energy is really just self-respect in disguise
→ The real definition of richness (and it goes way beyond money)
→ How self-pity and victimhood mentality are literally keeping you broke
→ The one question to ask yourself when you're not showing up as that bitch
→ Why Kim stopped being around people who can't own their own value
→ What it means to respect the vision that was put on your heart
→ How to call yourself out and call yourself forward — without the spiral
→ The client moment that reveals exactly where you're disrespecting yourself

0:00 Intro
1:20 What rich girl energy actually means
4:10 Richness beyond money — the real definition
6:45 Kim's story: losing her workout habit and calling herself back
9:30 Self-pity, victimhood, and the addiction to feeling like shit
12:15 The question that triggers people: do you actually respect yourself?
15:00 What you'd do differently if you fully respected yourself
17:45 Firing clients, raising prices, and taking up space
20:00 The soul contract — respecting the vision you were given
22:30 Are you feeding the narratives other people created about you?
24:45 The rich girl check-in: how to shift your state when you're off

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Melanie Peralta walked into a studio at 15 and walked out with Atlantic Records interested. She was also raving, doing ecstasy, and living a complete double life — all while carrying the weight of two addicted parents, incarceration, domestic violence, and generational trauma in a small Arizona mining town.

She's a pattern breaker in every sense of the word. And she went on to become head coach for Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi and impact thousands of lives globally. This episode? It's a whole lot of real.

Kim and Melanie get into:
• Growing up in Superior, AZ with two addicted, incarcerated parents — and how her dad became her greatest champion
• The fourth-grade choir solo that changed everything (yes, it's very much a Selena moment)
• Getting signed into artist development with Atlantic Records at 15 while living a secret raver double life
• How chasing fame was really chasing worth — and when that finally cracked open
• The moment Melanie knew she had to break the generational cycle for good
• What it actually looked like to go from music to becoming Tony Robbins' head coach
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Your niceness is not a virtue — it's a tax you're paying on your potential.

In this episode, Kim gets real about the sneaky way that people-pleasing, sugarcoating, and "keeping the peace" is literally robbing you of millions — whether you're an entrepreneur, a corporate VP, or anywhere in between. This isn't about being harsh. It's about being honest enough to actually help people grow — and being bold enough to show up the same way for yourself.

Kim also shares a raw, unexpected story about a baby bird, a tornado warning, and what it reminded her about life, loss, and why chasing your highest potential isn't optional — it's the only response to how hard life already is.

HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why "be kind" culture is actually keeping women small and broke
→ The difference between real kindness and toxic pacification
→ How staying quiet in the boardroom (or DMs) is costing your team real money
→ Why the hardest things you've ever heard made you who you are
→ Kim's baby bird story — and what the circle of life has to do with your income
→ Why chasing your potentiality isn't selfish — it's survival

0:00 Intro — Are You Ready to Be That Bitch?
1:30 The concept: your niceness is costing you millions
3:45 What "being kind" actually looks like vs. what we've been told
6:00 Why sugarcoating someone's situation is robbing them of growth
8:30 Kim's kink: watching people become self-actualized
10:15 The corporate angle — how staying quiet tanks your team and your career
13:00 Service providers and entrepreneurs: the injustice of not speaking up
15:30 Life is harsh — the storm, the nest, and the baby bird
21:00 Circle of life — and why Kim cried anyway
24:30 What hardship actually has to do with chasing your potential
27:00 More money = more choices when life gets hard
29:30 Pacifying people is an epic disservice — the real cost of niceness

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Remi Gutteridge is the founder of Disruptive Studios and a brand strategist for high-level female founders who want to be respected, remembered, and in demand. Over eight years she scaled two multiple six-figure businesses and in the last year alone hit upwards of £400K, became an international speaker, and took her brand to the US stage.

She turned down every uni offer, bet on herself with zero roadmap, and ended up sitting beside one of the UK's biggest entrepreneurs before she even knew what she was building. Now? Remi Gutteridge runs Disruptive Studios, hit upwards of £400K last year, flew to the US multiple times, and made her international speaking debut — all from a brand she built from scratch.

Kim and Remi get into the real that bitch moments — not just the highlight reel ones, but the ones that happened years before anyone was watching. The decision to skip uni when everyone around you is going. The internship that dropped you next to a Dragon's Den entrepreneur. The overnight thought that finally got you out of your own way.

This episode is for the woman who knows she was never meant to be employed by anyone — she just hasn't fully claimed it yet.

We cover:
• Why Remi turned down every university offer — and what happened because of it
• The internship that put her in the room with one of the UK's top entrepreneurs
• How she scaled two multiple six-figure businesses over eight years
• Why some people are just born to be entrepreneurs — and what to do when you know you're one of them
• The expander effect: how proximity to the right people rewires what you believe is possible
• The overnight mindset shift in February that unlocked everything
• Why "no one is coming to save you" is actually the most liberating thing you can hear
• What it means to build a brand that doesn't just look disruptive — but moves people and drives revenue

0:00 Intro
1:45 Meet Remi Gutterage — creative director, brand strategist, founder of Disruptive Studios
3:00 The that bitch moment that changed everything (and why it wasn't actually the first one)
4:45 Born to be an entrepreneur — why no job ever felt right
5:30 The decision to skip university when all your friends are going
7:10 What the butterfly effect actually means for your business decisions
8:00 The once-in-a-lifetime internship with a Dragon's Den entrepreneur
9:45 Getting bossed around, having no voice — and why it was still worth it
10:20 Soul path decisions and how the universe rewards them
10:50 Expanders: how proximity to the right people rewires your brain

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That bitch doesn't limit herself. Full stop.

In this episode, Kim breaks down the exact mindset shift that separates the women who have everything on the table from the ones who keep hitting invisible walls — and why your brain's obsession with linear thinking is the thing quietly killing your results.

This one hits different if you've ever talked yourself out of an opportunity before it even had a chance to show up.

HIGHLIGHTS
→ Why your brain is a limiting machine — and how to override it
→ The difference between linear thinking and living in the land of potentiality
→ The real story of how Kim sold an in-person VIP experience she never even posted about
→ Why the coaches and mentors around you either expand you or cap you
→ What it actually feels like to live with nothing off the table
→ How energetic barriers form when you decide something isn't available to you

0:00 Intro
1:20 What it means to live in the land of potentiality
3:45 Why your brain defaults to linear thinking — and why that's the problem
6:30 How limiting beliefs act as energetic roadblocks
9:00 The in-person VIP story: How Kim sold an offer she never posted about
13:15 Why you don't need bells and whistles to make it happen
15:40 That bitch doesn't follow a script — she stays open
18:00 Who you surround yourself with either limits or expands you
21:10 Holding tried-and-true business practices at arm's length
24:00 What it actually looks like to live your dream life right now

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Sumaya Ahmed was supposed to become a doctor. She had the degrees — undergrad in Psych and Bio, a master's from Harvard — and the work ethic of someone who'd been adulting since age three. As an eldest daughter to Bangladeshi immigrants in Queens, she wasn't just a kid. She was a translator, a caretaker, a proxy for her parents in every room that mattered. And then she burned out so hard she was hospitalized three times with heart attack-like symptoms in her twenties.

The wake-up call? Watching a 42-year-old man — healthy by every measure — die of a stress-induced heart attack in the hospital bed next to her. That was the moment Samaya stopped performing the life she was supposed to want and started building the one she actually needed.

Now she's a hypnotherapist and manifestation mentor helping thousands of high-achieving women break free from generational survival cycles through her signature Renaissance Method. She's 32. And she's just getting started.

Kim and Samaya get into:

• What it actually means to be parentified as an eldest daughter — and how it secretly shapes your relationship with money and achievement

• The moment in a Boston hospital that completely rewired Sumaya's vision for her life

• Why high-achieving women are often the most stuck — and how survival mode masquerades as ambition

• How Sumaya pivoted from eight years in medicine to building a business rooted in purpose and healing

• The generational patterns that keep first-gen women overworking, over-giving, and undercharging

• What the Renaissance Method actually is and why it works when nothing else has

This one is going to hit different if you've ever felt like you've done everything right and still feel trapped.

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0:00Intro — Meet Sumaya Ahmed, hypnotherapist and manifestation mentor

1:00Growing up as an eldest daughter to Bangladeshi immigrants in Queens

2:00Being parentified at age 3 — translating, adulting, and earning love through achievement

3:30The NYC specialized high school grind and the pressure to achieve from day one

4:00Kim's take: how your hardest childhood moments made you that bitch

5:10Sumaya's reflection on her young self — and what she sees now as a mom

5:50The pivot point: heart attack symptoms in her 20s while working 60-hour weeks

6:30Harvard, a full-time hospital job, part-time shifts, grad school at night — all at once

7:00Her mother's breast cancer diagnosis and traveling Boston to New York every week for 2.5 years

7:50Hospitalized three times — and the moment that changed everything

8:20The 42-year-old man who died of a stress-induced heart attack in the next hospital bed

9:10Kim's breakdown: why that bitch moments have nothing to do with your degrees

9:40Recognizing what was really happening in medicine — and why Sumaya had to leave

10:30The real reason she stayed so long: a genuine drive to help people heal

Stop putting successful women on a pedestal — because Kim's about to tell you what's actually on the other side of that highlight reel. In this episode, Kim gets brutally honest about what 'that bitch moves' really look like: the six months she dicked around and made only $700, the $40K/month she was earning while her energy was completely tanked, and why seven and eight-figure entrepreneurs are still scared, still struggling, and still figuring it out — just like you.

This is the sermon you didn't know you needed before you could actually make moves.

HIGHLIGHTS

→ Why romanticizing someone else's success is literally keeping you broke

→ The pedestaling problem: how putting other women above you creates a disconnect your brain can't close

→ Kim's real talk: making $40K/month while in a full-on rut

→ What actually separates 7-figure women from where you are right now (it's not luck)

→ The six months Kim spent dicking around — and the moment she called herself out

→ Why 'just be authentically you' is incomplete advice and what you actually need

→ How to quantum leap your timeline by putting yourself on the same playing field

→ The $20K month that came from finally getting her head out of her ass

→ Why your existing business acumen is worth more than you think

0:00 Intro — Ready to Be That Bitch?

1:30 The caveat: what you're actually seeing online vs. reality

4:15 Kim's confession: making $40K/month in a complete rut

7:00 Stop pedestaling success — here's what it's actually costing you

10:30 The truth about 6, 7, and 8-figure entrepreneurs (fear, shame, and all of it)

14:00 They didn't have it easier — they just made different choices

17:15 That bitch move #1: get your head out of your ass

19:45 Kim's first 6 months online: $700 and a lot of dicking around

23:00 The group investment that reactivated everything

26:30 The $20K cash month and what actually caused it

29:00 Remembering your own business acumen

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Anna Rodgers on Delusional Self-Belief: How to Build a Business When the System Isn't Built For You

Scheduled May 20•E4

She Was Told She Wasn't White Enough to Teach — Then Became the Principal: Anna Rogers on Delusional Self-Belief & Building Millions Online

She worked four years for a teaching degree, walked into her boss's office ready to level up — and was told she'd never be hired because of the color of her skin. Most people would have accepted it. Anna Rogers quit, moved to a tiny island, and became the principal of a different school a year later. Then saved $10,000 over six years, bought a one-way ticket, and never looked back.

Anna is a storytelling expert, soon-to-be published author, founder of four businesses, and someone who has made millions online, sold one company, and traveled to over 52 countries. She helps women unlearn the good girl conditioning that keeps them playing small — and this conversation is one you need to hear.

Kim and Anna get into the defining moments that could have broken her, why hard work alone isn't the great equalizer, and what it actually looks like to take radical ownership when life is not handing you a head start.

HIGHLIGHTS

→ The moment Anna was told she wasn't white enough to be hired — and what she did next

→ Why hard work alone isn't the great equalizer (and what actually is)

→ How she went from $320/month to becoming a school principal at 23

→ Saving $10,000 over six years while working 13-hour days — and spending it all on one year of travel

→ Life happens FOR you, not TO you — what that actually means when you're in the thick of it

→ What good girl conditioning looks like and how it keeps women stuck

→ The delusional self-belief that built Anna's multimillion-dollar life

0:00 Intro & Anna Rogers' background

2:10 The moment Anna was told she wasn't white enough to teach

4:37 Why hard work isn't the great equalizer — and the choice Anna made

6:12 Quitting her job and moving to a tiny island in the Philippines

7:28 The plot twist: becoming the principal at 23

8:17 Life happens FOR you — Anna's philosophy explained

9:14 Kim's story: from destined-to-be-broke to choosing something different

10:23 Saving $10K over six years on $1,000/month and buying a one-way ticket

13:00 What good girl conditioning actually is and how it shows up

16:00 Traveling 52+ countries and discovering a different way to live

19:00 How Anna started her first online business

23:00 Making millions, selling a business, and what she knows now

27:00 Storytelling as a business superpower — why your story is your strategy

32:00 Unlearning the 'graduate, marry, buy a house' script

36:00 What delusional self-belief actually requires of you

40:00 Anna's advice to the woman who feels stuck right now

44:00 The That Bitch question: when did you know you were her?

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