that is the question

I asked my audience to send me their responses to a series of questions including: what is your relationship to your body hair? How do you feel about body hair in the context of intimacy? What factors do you think have influenced your relationship to body hair?

Following on from part one of this episode, I continue to deep dive into a diverse range of audience insights while also offering my own take on the topic.

For more content from me you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

How do you feel about your body hair? Do you remove it or not? How do you react to seeing body hair on others?

These are some of the questions that I asked my audience for this solo series episode about body hair.

Join me to unpick all of your thoughts and feelings about why body hair is such a gendered topic, how people's relationship to body hair ties into sex, and what men feel about their body hair.

You can find me on Instagram @that.isthequestion.

Ever wondered if the guy you were dating wasn't quite who he said he was?

In this episode I am joined by journalist, TV presenter and radio host, Mary Mandefield to delve into the complicated world of online dating, and whether it is possible to have honesty and accountability in our increasingly digital lives.

You can follow Mary's Instagram here and for more information on her recent and upcoming projects, check out her website.

You can also find more content from me on my socials @that.isthequestion!

Joining me for this episode is writer, content creator, and voice behind the highly popular substack 'Bad Asian': Katy Ho.

In this conversation we delve into the complexities of pop culture representations of Asian women, the trend of the 'performative male', and the issues surrounding male loneliness and the crisis of masculinity.

You can find Katy on Instagram @katyho_ and check out her substack here!

And for more content from me you can also find my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

We are kickstarting 2026 with a conversation with the spectacular Reed Amber.

Reed is a sex educator, adult content creator, and co-host of the award-winning podcast ‘Come Curious’.

You can follow Reed on Instagram @reedamberx

Check out her podcast with Florence Bark, Come Curious, here.

And for information and links to more of Reed's work, check out her Linktree.

For more content from me you can also follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

Two years since my last reflections on the year episode, so I thought it was time to look back on what 2025 has taught me, with a little help from my audience.

You can find more content from me on my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

Can women be empowered by choosing to undergo procedures to change or enhance their appearance? Is there such thing as an entirely free decision? What do we mean by a feminist choice?

In this episode, we unpick all of the above as I discuss your responses to my question; 'Can cosmetic procedures ever be a feminist choice?'.

For more content from me and to contribute to future episodes you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

This week, I asked my followers, 'What makes you feel safe and unsafe?'.

In this episode, I explore female safety in public and private spaces, male allyship, and the power of empathy.

For more content from me and to contribute to future episodes you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

For this next addition to my solo series, we are diving into the sex myths and misconceptions we were taught as children, and the subsequent unlearning we had to do as we grew up!

For more content from me and to contribute to future episodes, you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.

It's week three of my solo series, and this time we are talking about gendered expectations in dating.

Are gender binaries inhibiting our love lives?

How have dating apps changed the way that we date?

And can I be a feminist and let a man pay?

For more content from me and to contribute to future episodes, you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion.