Today we’re talking about how to have a good life in the new year.  One of the best ways I know to have the best year ever is to mind our “nows”. Every moment is there to be lived fully and savored, but our minds usually get in the way of enjoying life.  We tell […]

You aren’t a victim.  You really and truly are not. In any problem circumstance, the real problem is that you feel you have no control.  You FEEL at the affect of your life and the people “pulling the strings”. But this isn’t really the case.  You are always responsible for how you respond.  There’s always […]

Let it suck.  Just get in the habit of making it mean you need practice and that’s all. In today’s episode we’re talking about sucking and getting better.  I’m talking to new servers, servers who have recently changed jobs, and/or anyone who is practicing anything in life (but still kind of sucks at it!!). Did […]

Alright, this is the final episode of a three part series on making and keeping more money in your life.  In the last two, we talked about making an income and an outgo plan and coming up with a why for our saving efforts.  Then, we discussed evaluating ourselves (rather than getting upset and beating […]

Last week we discussed making a plan and starting small.  Today, in the second part of this series, we’re talking about staying in the realm of things we control, making (inevitable) mistakes, and evaluation of our progress. When we’re trying to work more and spend less, it’s easy to get discouraged.  In the moment it […]

In this episode, we’re talking about making and keeping more of our money.  There are lot’s of reasons why we may want to uplevel our money situation: more financial stability, travel, more shoes…whatever it is.  That’s part of the beauty of serving.  It’s good money and it’s FLEXIBLE. But the flexibility is also part of […]

Today’s cool shit episode features Jordan Peterson!!  Love listening to Jordan Peterson on the Joe Rogan Experience.  I don’t recommend listening to him on The Waking Up podcast with Sam Harris because it’s really hard to follow (and kind of annoying). Dr. Peterson has two books out, one of which is directed at young men […]

Have your emotions become absolutely unbearable??  That’s a really shitty place to be.  And we think no one understands.  We believe that no one feels as much pain as we do.  We think something’s wrong with us and that makes the pain worse. Trust me.  You’re not the only one. In my podcast today, I […]

David Hogg, right after his high school got shot up, said the following, “I thought to myself, if I die today, I want to tell a good story…and to do that I’ve got to take action.”  That’s exactly what he did that day, and that’s what he’s done everyday since. He’s gone all over this […]

I’m putting this out a little early to focus on my Patreon reward podcast called THE UNSTUCK PODCAST which comes out on Saturday–with a sneak preview on this podcast next Thursday!!  ANYWAY… In this episode, we’re talking about writing shit down to change your life.  If we want to add or drop a habit, make […]