That Other Lifestyle
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That Other Lifestyle episodes

  • Spot!
    Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    34 min
  • I don't know
    Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety. This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder that the lifestyle can be a meaningful way to find community and connection. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    36 min
  • the mundane
    Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures. Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    33 min
  • Gifts, Pineapples & Pleasure: The Ultimate Lifestyle Present Guide
    Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    33 min
  • Hot Tequila
    In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community. He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    31 min
  • When the Party Ends
    (Reupload) Host Jason explores what happens when the swinger/lifestyle scene stops being fun — why couples consider breaks or endings, how to have honest conversations, and the toll of burnout, drama, and mental health. He shares practical steps for stepping back or leaving gracefully, what life can look like afterward, and reassurance that questioning or changing your participation is normal and okay.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    29 min
  • Bad Dates
    Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    31 min
  • When the Party Ends: Facing the Ugly Side of the Lifestyle
    Host Jason explores the moment the lifestyle stops being enjoyable — from bad experiences, burnout, and mental health concerns to the differences between taking a break and ending participation. He offers practical steps for stepping back, communicating with your partner, and handling social fallout. This episode reassures listeners they are not alone, discusses rebuilding life after leaving the lifestyle, and emphasizes boundaries, self-care, and the option to return on your own terms.   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    29 min
  • Splash Houston: Why we do this (Reupload)
    Welcome to the Other Lifestyle Podcast, hosted by Jason, where we venture beyond the vanilla world into the vibrant sphere of ethical non-monogamy. This episode dives deep into the exciting Splash Houston event, detailing the allure of lifestyle parties and the liberating feeling of self-expression among like-minded individuals. Jason reflects on the transformative experiences within this unique community, shedding light on the freedom and joy that comes from connecting with others and exploring sensual desires. Listeners are introduced to the thrills of hotel takeovers, clothing-optional pool parties, and the organized, secure atmosphere of Splash events. The podcast also touches on the personal challenges faced by Jason, offering a genuine perspective on mental health struggles and the importance of finding joy despite life's hurdles. For lifestyle enthusiasts and the curious alike, this episode is a captivating exploration of identity, community, and the pursuit of freedom beyond societal norms. www.Splashtakeovers.com   My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    28 min
  • Unveiling Splash Houston: Jason's Adventure into the Unknown
    In this episode of the Other Lifestyle Podcast, host Jason takes us on a journey to Splash Houston, a dynamic event celebrating the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. With vivid recounts of the event's unique ambiance, Jason reflects on the broader appeal of lifestyle gatherings. Discover the reasons behind leaving the vanilla world behind for a weekend of freedom, expression, and community in a safe and inclusive environment. Dive into discussions of personal revelations, facing questions of identity, and the joys found in new experiences. Jason also sheds light on the challenge of maintaining balance, both in personal life and mental health, amidst the exhilarating chaos of the lifestyle world. Join the conversation and explore what it truly means to partake in non-traditional connections and adventures. www.splashtakeovers.com My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.comhttps://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyleSingle Men's Guide to the Lifestyle CourseRisque Lifestyle PartiesSDC.comSTDHero.comHellowisp.com
    17 min

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Leave Vanilla Behind as we dive into the Lifestyle. We’ll share practical advice and explore the good, the bad, the ugly, and the weird sides of this wild lifestyle. For swingers, the curious and…