That Sexciting

Did you know that 67% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their lifetime?

This week, Yancy is joined by Professor Dr. Laurie Mintz. Together they discuss the orgasm gap’s origin, how the current sex education system is failing us and tips on how to improve communication in the bedroom!

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Follow today’s guest Dr. Laurie Mintz!

Instagram: @drlauriemintz

Website: www.drlauriemintz.com

Dr. Laurie Mintz’s Book

Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/books-about-sexuality

ARTICLE CITED:

Sexual Revolution | Orgasm Gap | How to Pleasure a Woman

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexual-revolution-orgasm-gap-how-to-pleasure-a-woman

Four Techniques Women Use To Enhance Pleasure During Intercourse

https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexually

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Can you remember the first time that you heard gender and sex are distinct?

This week, Yancy is joined with Maya who breaks down what Gender Essentialism is. The theory suggests that a person’s essence is either feminine/female or masculine/male. Maya expands on how this concept is flawed and brings nuance to sexuality, gender, and sex through a sociological lens. 

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Instagram: @intimacywithmaya

Things mentioned

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/ 

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Gender Essentialism Is Flawed — Here’s Why

https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-essentialism

Information mentioned:

Becoming a Gendered Body: Practices of Preschools

https://observatorio.campus-virtual.org/uploads/21717_Martin_ASR1998_Becoming-gendered.pdf 

The Egg and the Sperm: How Science Has Constructed a Romance Based on Stereotypical Male-Female Roles

https://web.stanford.edu/~eckert/PDF/Martin1991.pdf 

LGBT+ Statistics

https://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspx

The future of sex and gender in psychology: Five challenges to the gender binary

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-32185-001 

Bilingual Glossary on Gender Identity

https://www.jurisource.ca/prj/phpnfzuAL1522955217.pdf

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This week Yancy is joined by queer dating coach Ariella Serur. Together they discuss dating in a fulfilling and healthy way, with a focus on the queer community.

Join us for a vulnerable conversation where Yancy opens up about her self-discovery, dating journey and engages in a conversation that forces one to examine their own boundaries, dating expectations and inner saboteur! 

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Instagram: @queerdatingcoach

Website: www.queerdatingcoach.com

Things mentioned

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Books mentioned 

Deeper dating - Ken Page 

The Ethical Slut - Janet W. Hardy

Mating In Captivity - Esther Perel

Unlonely planet - Jillian Richardson

Stay curious cause That Sexciting!

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Do you know what your attachment style is?

In this week’s episode, Yancy discusses Attachment Theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. The dive into its 4 distinct styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it can invoke!

Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.”

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Follow today’s guest Lucille Shackelton!

Instagram: @centredselftherapy

Website: www.centredselftherapy.com

Her Upcoming Podcast: Relationship Realities 

Content mentioned

Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram 

https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz

Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/

Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

Books mentioned: 

Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin

Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin

Your brain on love by Stan Tatkin

Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

* The Attachment Theory Workbook by Annie Chem

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Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly.

Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life.

Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. 

Let’s keep in touch on social media!

Follow your host @yancychery

Instagram: @thatsexciting

Twitter: @thatsexciting_

Facebook: thatsxciting

Email: [email protected]

Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

Instrumentals and loops: https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/

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Intimacy, relationships, and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly, and shamelessly.

Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life.

Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. 

Let’s keep in touch on social media!

Follow your host @yancychery

Instagram: @thatsexciting

Twitter: @thatsexciting_

Facebook: thatsxciting

Email: [email protected]

Support & Donate

https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

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