The Abundantly Expectant Marriage

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Stay When It's Easier To Go: Choosing Love That Doesn't Quit

⚠️ Note: If you are in an unsafe or abusive relationship, this message is not a call to stay. Please prioritize safety and seek support. Persevering love is not permission to endure harm.

In this powerful episode of The Abundantly Expectant Marriage, we’re unpacking what it means to live out a love that never gives up, never loses faith, and is always hopeful—even when everything in us wants to walk away.

Ron and Rachel open up about a time in their marriage when giving up seemed like the only option. Back then, they were box-checking Christians—going through the motions but missing the heart of real surrender to Jesus. Hear how their marriage began to turn around when they invited God into the mess and committed to love that doesn’t quit.

You'll also hear how the parable of the Prodigal Son reflects the perseverance of God’s love, and how that same steadfast love can transform our marriages.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Luke 15:11-32 - The Prodigal Son
• Romans‬ ‭5‬:‭3‬-‭4‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.”
• Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭21‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

Truth Over Triumph: Choosing What Love Celebrates

In a world that often cheers for “wins” at any cost, what does it mean for love to rejoice in truth instead of injustice? In this deeply honest episode, Rachel and Ron unpack what 1 Corinthians 13:6 means for real marriages—especially when trust has been broken or past baggage threatens to repeat itself.

They share personal stories of how concealing small truths—even with good intentions—can create division, and how choosing truth brings unity and healing. You’ll hear how past relationship trauma can fuel unhealthy patterns, and how surrendering to God’s truth reshapes how we love each other.

Through Scripture, humor, and practical wisdom, this episode will encourage you to become a couple that celebrates honesty, embraces vulnerability, and fights for truth in every season of marriage.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Proverbs‬ ‭24‬:‭17‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “Don’t rejoice when your enemies fall; don’t be happy when they stumble.”
• John‬ ‭8‬:‭32‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

No Grudges, No Grumbles: Letting Go to Love Well

When the little things stack up or a big betrayal rocks the foundation, irritation and unforgiveness can quietly poison your marriage. In this raw and honest episode, Rachel and Ron talk about how to break free from grudge-holding, release resentment, and love each other with the kind of grace God extends to us. From everyday annoyances to deep wounds like infidelity, this episode offers hope, healing, and practical tools to reset your heart and rebuild trust.
Let’s trade grumbling for grace and grudges for growth.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• James‬ ‭1‬:‭19‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”
• ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭103‬:‭12‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west.”
• ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭147‬:‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds.”
• Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭13‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.”
• Proverbs‬ ‭15‬:‭1‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

No Elbows on the Table—And Other Ways to Stop Being Rude in Marriage

What does rudeness look like in marriage—and how do we stop doing it? In this episode of The Abundantly Expectant Marriage, Rachel and Ron unpack what it means that “love is not rude and does not demand its own way.” From snappy tones to power struggles over who gets the final say, this episode is full of real-life stories (including one about the wrong coffee order 😬), biblical truth, and practical ways to cultivate honor, humility, and mutual respect in your marriage. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about table manners!

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Philippians‬ ‭2‬:‭4‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.”
• Proverbs‬ ‭15‬:‭1‬ ‭NLT‬‬ - “A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

When Pride Gets in the Way: Learning to Love Without Ego

In this week’s episode of The Abundantly Expectant Marriage, Rachel and Ron continue their series on 1 Corinthians 13 with a conversation around the next characteristic of biblical love: Love is not proud. Whether pride shows up in subtle ways—like refusing to admit you're wrong—or loud ones—like needing to win every argument, it has the power to divide and destroy intimacy. The good news? God gives us the tools to trade pride for humility, and ego for unity. With personal stories, practical advice, and scriptural truth, this episode will challenge you to take an honest look at your heart and choose the better way in marriage.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
• Proverbs 16:18 - “Pride comes before destruction, and an arrogant spirit before a fall.”
• Romans 12:3 TPT - “God has given me grace to speak a warning about pride. I would ask each of you to be emptied of self-promotion and not create a false image of your importance. Instead, honestly assess your worth by using your God-given faith as the standard of measurement, and then you will see your true value with an appropriate self-esteem.”
• Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 - “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.”
• Psalm 25:9 - “He leads the humble in doing right, teaching them his way.”
• James 1:19: “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”
• 1 Peter 4:8 - “Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

Drop the Mic: Why Love Doesn’t Need to Boast

In this powerful episode, Rachel and Ron unpack the next truth in their 1 Corinthians 13 series: Love does not boast. With honest storytelling, a bit of humor, and a whole lot of heart, they explore how pride and competition creep into marriage—and how humility, encouragement, and teamwork can transform your connection. You’ll hear real-life struggles, scriptural wisdom, and practical steps to shift from scorekeeping to championing each other. It's time to swap boasting for blessing and let love speak quietly but powerfully.

Scripture References:

• ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬-‭7‬ ‭“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
• Philippians‬ ‭2‬:‭3 - “Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.”
• Psalms‬ ‭139‬:‭23‬-‭24‬ - “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.”
• Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭3‬-‭4‬ ‭TPT‬‬ - “But when you demonstrate generosity, do it with pure motives and without drawing attention to yourself. Give secretly and your Father, who sees all you do, will reward you openly.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

Love Is Not Jealous: Letting Go of Comparison in Marriage

Jealousy can quietly creep into a marriage—especially in today’s world of blended families, social media comparisons, and unmet expectations. In this episode, Ron and Rachel share honestly and tenderly about their early struggles with jealousy, particularly navigating the complexities of a second marriage, ex-spouses, and blended family dynamics. With warmth and wisdom, they unpack what 1 Corinthians 13 really means when it says “Love is not jealous” and how God’s love helps us lay down comparison, insecurity, and old baggage so we can grow in unity and freedom. Get ready for an honest, hope-filled, and healing conversation—rooted in truth, grace, and God's goodness.

Scripture References:

• ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬-‭7‬ ‭“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
• John‬ ‭10‬:‭10‬ - “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.”
• James‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬‬‬ - “For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.”
• Proverbs‬ ‭14‬:‭30‬ - “A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body; jealousy is like cancer in the bones.”
• Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭2‬‬‬ - “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”
• Psalm‬ ‭139‬:‭23‬-‭24‬ - “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

Love Is Kind: Embracing the Gentle Power of God’s Love in Marriage

What does it really mean when the Bible says, “Love is kind”? In today’s episode of The Abundantly Expectant Marriage, Ron and Rachel take a heartwarming and practical look at how biblical kindness transforms a marriage. They’ll share honest stories, biblical truth from 1 Corinthians 13, and tangible ways you can reflect God’s kindness in your relationship. You’ll laugh, reflect, and walk away ready to love your spouse with fresh tenderness and intention.

• Discover the impact of kind words and patient actions
• Be inspired by the way God shows kindness to you
• Learn how small, everyday acts of love make a big difference

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Romans‬ ‭5‬:‭8‬ - “But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• Renewed Legacy: A 30-Day Journey to Save Your Marriage and Become a Spiritual Leader: By Ron Cool
  • This journal and study plan have been crafted with a deep sense of purpose, a heartfelt dedication, and a commitment to transformation. It's a journey that goes beyond the words on these pages; it's a journey to renew and reclaim your legacy.
• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

Download Free Couple Connection Guide 

Love is Patient: Slowing Down to Love Well

In this episode of The Abundantly Expectant Marriage, Ron and Rachel kick off the deep dive into the famous “Love Chapter” by unpacking the first truth: Love is patient. With humor, honesty, and Scripture, they explore how biblical patience isn’t passive—it’s powerful. Discover what it means to practice patience in your marriage, even when things feel frustrating, slow, or just plain hard. Ron and Rachel share personal stories, God’s perspective on patience, and practical ways you can live out this fruit of the Spirit every day in your relationship.

Whether you’ve been married six months or sixteen years, this episode is your invitation to slow down and love well.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• Galatians 5:22-23 - “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!”
• James 1:19 - “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”
• Ecclesiastes 7:8 - “Finishing is better than starting. Patience is better than pride.”
• Ephesians 4:2 - “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.”

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)

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What Is Love, Really? (1 Corinthians 13: A Love Worth Living)

What does it actually mean to love your spouse the way God intended? In this kickoff to our new series on 1 Corinthians 13, Ron and Rachel dive into the famous "love chapter" to explore what love is—and what it’s not. Through real stories, lots of laughs, and deep biblical truth, they unpack why love is at the heart of every strong marriage. Whether you’re newly married, in a tough season, or just looking to grow closer, this episode will encourage and equip you to love your spouse in a way that lasts.

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
• 1 Corinthians 13:1–7
• John 3:16
• Romans 5:8
• Ephesians 5:25
• Matthew 22:37–39

Remember: Marriage takes intentionality, and small actions lead to big changes! Keep God at the center, and watch your love grow deeper than ever before.

Resource List:

Here are some excellent Christian marriage books that you can recommend to your listeners, complete with links for purchase:

• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
  • This bestseller focuses on understanding and expressing love through five key "languages" to strengthen emotional connections in marriage.
• Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
  • This thought-provoking book emphasizes how marriage can help individuals grow closer to God while growing together as a couple.
• Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Based on biblical principles, this book explores the dynamics of love and respect in building a thriving marriage.
• For Women Only / For Men Only Series by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
  • This series offers gender-specific insights into the needs and perspectives of spouses, helping couples understand each other better.
• You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis and Lisa Chan
  • This book challenges couples to see marriage as a way to glorify God and focus on eternal perspectives.

You Connect with Us:

• Website: aemarriage.com 
• Get Invloved - SUPPORT AEM 
• Follow AEM on Instagram: AEM on Instagram

Connect with Ron Cool:

• Website: www.newpathnewyou.com
• Follow Ron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rcooljr/

Connect with Rachel Cool:

• Website: www.rachelmcool.com
• Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcool/

Links to Focus On The Family: 

• Website: www.focusonthefamily.com
• Dr. Danny Huerta's Book: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting by Dr. Danny Huerta (VP of Parenting & Youth)