In this episode of The AHA! Moment Podcast, Angelina sits down with her close friends Kayla Mercuri and Amanda Whitham to unpack what they’ve been chatting about over the last week: what it really feels like to navigate life, money, and meaning in the final stretch of the year.
From consumer spending and holiday creep to weddings, boyfriends, and puzzles as therapy, this episode feels like stepping directly into their group chat—equal parts thoughtful, honest, and unhinged in the best way.
Together, Angelina, Kayla, and Amanda talk about how brands are pushing harder than ever for our attention and wallets, why out-of-home marketing and real-life experiences are becoming more powerful than curated feeds, and what it actually takes to build genuine community in a world obsessed with aesthetics and virality.
They also dive into the emotional side of Q4: holiday family dynamics, the pressure to “have it all together” by year end, the cost and reality of modern weddings, and the now-infamous Vogue take that it’s “embarrassing to have a boyfriend.” The trio explore how women are choosing to share (or not share) their relationships online, what authenticity really means on social media in 2025, and how to plan for a new year without rushing your own timeline.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why holiday spending feels more intense than ever—and how brands are engineering urgency and desire
- The rise of out-of-home marketing and why IRL experiences are the new status symbol for brands
- How athleisure fatigue, brand positioning, and smart rebrands (like Swarovski) reflect deeper shifts in what consumers want
- A surprisingly profound, puzzle-inspired framework for approaching your life, relationships, and creative projects piece by piece
- How to navigate holiday gatherings when family dynamics are… a lot
- A grounded take on Vogue’s “it’s embarrassing to have a boyfriend” discourse, and what it reveals about modern relationships, privacy, and social pressure
- What “authenticity” on social media really looks like now
- How to ease into Q4 and Q1 planning without rushing, forcing, or trying to figure your entire life out in one sitting
Substack:See Angelina’s full companion piece — including expanded highlights from this conversation, additional context around Q4 reflection and planning, and ideas to help you apply these concepts to your own life — by subscribing for free to The AHA! Moment on Substack.
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Episode Breakdown:
07:05 Early chat on consumer spending, holiday creep, and why Christmas now starts on November 1
11:12 Out-of-home marketing, pop-ups, and how brands like Park, Set Active, and Nitro Bar build real-life hype
18:36 Holiday family dynamics: surviving the dinner table, asking better questions, and creating neutral ground
24:43 Puzzles, slow living, and the metaphor of building life piece by piece
31:44 Vogue’s “it’s embarrassing to have a boyfriend” take — and a deeper look at relationships, settling, and privacy online
38:15 Authenticity on social media in 2025: what feels real, what doesn’t, and how creators hold boundaries
44:02 Gentle Q4 → Q1 reflection: taking inventory of your year, planning for 2026, and eliminating hurry
