Arab proverbs can be tricky / Of sheep and wolves / Yin rises out of Yang and vice verse / A microphone glitch / No cookies allowed / Of cats and dogs / Accommodating a minority and stepping into the ugly field of politics.

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What we mean is also what we don't mean / Give the people more placebo / Toddlers can and will behave like toddlers / Buying a house in a crazy market / Special text box: "Ignoring the opposing view does not make it go away / Some absorbing examples / Monica seals it with a summary, not a kiss.

The book of Leviticus is not a fun read / Monica will not be mocked / The Aikidiot's "Extra" side/ Meanie and Slobby / Do instaed of fight / Absorbing as the part of the conflict we don't have to fight over / Meanie has a go at it / Slobby has a go at it / Make it, don't fake it / About the Butt / Monica has a go at it.

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Losing is not always optional / Still fighting with the driver / Uncle Harvey doesn't have all the answers / Method 1: Situating by describing / Situating cuts the scene short / Method 2: Situating by navigating from opinions to facts / Monica's friend is building weapons of mass destruction as a side gig/ What do we say when there's nothing to say / Monica puts some order in today's mess.

An army of Aikidokas / 3 is the magic number of components in an Eastern thought system / Inductive vs. Deductive/ Simple not Easy (again) / Situating, absorbing, redirecting. That's all / Situating is describing / The principles of Situating / Meet your opponent where they are, not where they are not / The smell of NAPLAM in the morning / Monica cleans up.

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As promised, a recap / The importance of being able to fit one's ego in something smaller than a football field / Wyatt Capulet vs. Hunter Montague / Billy Montague vs. Tammy Capulet / A gunfight at the Saloon / The artificial cannot be discarded / Thanks, and check out the additional materials in theaikidiot.com

The comic aspect of the Dao / Apologies to the listeners / From single cell to "Mom! I have consciousness!" / A better description of "Natural" and "artificial" / Drifting toward the artificial / Meeting a man in a dark alley

• Monica plans a prison break with Dr. Simon /
• When in doubt do Aikido /
• Stanislav Petrov saves the world (Really, he does. Twice) /
• Natural vs. Artificial balance (Not Tom Cruise!) /
• Life is complicated /

• Monica stages a coup.
• When we encounter ideas we dislike, we tend to stretch them ad-absurdum.
• Can Aikidoing deal with real bad people doing real bad things?
• Buying a gun in a very bad neighborhood.
• Why drug lords and and murderers find it difficult to switch occupation.
• The cycle of escalation in our bad neighborhood.
• The "rabid dog" - senseless, contextless violence.
• Moderate, not soft.

Let's talk about "the other guy", the opponent. / Tori and Uke in Aikido. / The high prices of disrupting the common space (even in self defense). / Learn the attack, control your defense./ Why screaming at a call-center representative (something the Aikidiot never, ever did) is not a good idea. / Wiley E. Coyote has no choice about chasing the Roadrunner. / Violence is predictable.

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