The Alexis Perspective

This week on Ask Alexis, we’re covering it all — from messy boy drama and workplace friendships, to the struggles of balancing confidence with insecurity. I also dive into how to deal with flaky friends and share my take on dating someone with different values. It’s a mix of advice, perspective, and a little bit of real talk you didn’t know you needed.

✨ Don’t forget to follow along on Instagram @thealexis_perspective and let me know your thoughts!

This week on The Alexis Perspective, I’m unpacking what it feels like to get “cancelled” — and how PMDD played a much bigger role in my story than I even realized at first. I open up about losing my job, the fallout of feeling like people were trying to ruin my life, and how living with PMDD shapes the way I think, act, and process everything around me.

If you’ve ever felt like two different versions of yourself, or like your worst moments got put on display without the full context, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down what PMDD is, how it shows up in my life, and my perspective on cancel culture, compassion, and moving forward after a really tough week.

The sky turns red tonight under a powerful Blood Moon. In this bonus episode, I explore the spiritual and astrological meaning of this eclipse, how it connects to my personal journey, and how scripture has unexpectedly woven into my reflections. I’ll also share what I’m doing to honor the full moon energy—and invite you to craft your own ritual for release and renewal.

This week’s After Hours is raw and heavy — I’m unpacking the final piece of the puzzle about getting fired and the shocking betrayal that came with it. I share what I’ve learned, how it hit me, and the messy emotions that come with realizing just how deep it all went. Of course, in true me fashion, I veer off into a few side rants here and there, but mostly it’s me being real about where I’m at and what I’ve uncovered.

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This week’s episode is a little different, Cherry Crew. Instead of “Ask Alexis,” I’m giving you a real-time life update — I’ve been fired from my job. I open up about what happened, how I’m processing it, and the whirlwind of emotions that come with sudden change. I also pull up my birth chart to see if the stars can offer me any clarity or perspective on why everything feels so chaotic right now. It’s raw, it’s honest, and it’s me trying to make sense of it all while sharing the journey with you.

In this episode, I’m sharing my own story of betrayal and how it shaped the way I see trust, boundaries, and relationships. I talk about the red flags I ignored, the difference between betrayal and simple misunderstandings, and the emotional stages you go through when someone you care about hurts you. I also get into whether trust can ever be rebuilt and the lessons I’ve learned about self-respect and protecting my peace.

We’re back for Part 2 of my First Date Disasters story — and if you thought Part 1 was bad, buckle up. In this After Hours edition, I’m spilling the rest of the chaos from one of the worst dates I’ve ever been on. From awkward moments to the final straw that had me questioning everything, this story proves that sometimes the best thing you can get out of a bad date is a funny story to tell later.

Follow along and share your own date disaster with me on Instagram @thealexis_perspective — maybe your story will make it into a future episode!

This week’s Midweek Crisis kicks off a brand-new series: First Date Disasters. And trust me, my story is one for the books. What I thought would be a simple first date quickly turned into a chaotic, drawn-out disaster — so much so that I had to split it into two parts. In Part 1, I’m breaking down the beginning of this wild ride, from the first red flags to the moments that had me wondering why I didn’t just stay home.

Stay tuned for Part 2 next week… because if you think it starts bad, just wait.

👉 Got your own first date disaster? DM me on Instagram @thealexis_perspective and it might make it into a future episode!

In this episode of The Alexis Perspective, I’m diving into the world of workplace romance. From my own personal stories of dating a coworker to the pros and cons of mixing business with pleasure, I’m breaking down what happens when the office becomes more than just work. I also get into the difference between dating versus just hooking up with someone you work with, and share my perspective on whether it’s worth the risk.

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It’s another late-night, unfiltered Alexis After Hours! Tonight I’m spiraling a little about getting blown off, opening up about what it’s really like being single and wanting a boyfriend, and sharing some random bits about work and life in between. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s exactly what After Hours is all about.

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