In this Anchored in Christ conversation, Olushile and Latifat get real about a question they hear all the time from couples they mentor:

“How often should we be going on dates?”

They share honestly about their own journey—having kids in the first year of marriage, how children (and even good things like work and ministry) subtly became a wedge between them, and what it looked like to reorder their priorities: God first, spouse second, kids third, and everything else after that.

If you’ve ever felt like your marriage is on the back burner—because of kids, schedules, or just survival mode—this episode will gently challenge and encourage you to fight for time together, even if it feels awkward at first.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Kids are a gift, not your glue. 
• Distractions can look “good.” 
• Consistency beats intensity. 
• It might feel awkward at first—and that’s okay. 
• Somebody has to go first. One spouse may not be excited at the beginning. The question is: are you willing to lead in this area and fight for your marriage?

Reflection Questions for Listeners

• How often are you currently going on dates (or having intentional time) with your spouse?
• What tends to “get in the way” the most—kids, work, phones, ministry, exhaustion?
• Are you willing to be the one who goes first in prioritizing this, even if it feels awkward at the start?

🙌 Call to Action

We’d love to hear from you:

👉 How often do you and your spouse go on dates right now?
What rhythm has worked for you in this season?

Are you sitting on a spiritual gold mine without realizing it? In this episode, Olushile and Dr. Latifat dive into 1 Corinthians 12 to explore how every believer has been given gifts by the Holy Spirit — not for self, but for the profit of all. Discover how to identify, nurture, and use your God-given gifts in your church, family, and community.

 Key Takeaways

• Every believer receives at least one spiritual gift when they come to Christ.
• Your gift is designed for the profit of all, not just for yourself.
• Unused gifts leave gaps in the body of Christ — your presence matters.
• Even simple acts (like serving) can release miracles when done in the Spirit.
• God distributes gifts uniquely so no one can boast — only glorify Him.

💬 Memorable Quotes

In this episode, Olushile and Latifat offer a call to action for us as Christians families. 

Is it enough to go to church on Sunday, hoping the pastor entertains us?

Are we meant to be passive participants in church?

When more and more churches are failing, it is time for us to act. 

This is a call to action for all christians. 

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they talk about what it really means when couples say, “We’re not on the same page.” They unpack how differences in communication, priorities, and expectations can create tension—and how God’s Word calls couples back to unity, grace, and shared purpose in marriage.

Key Takeaways:

1. Misalignment in marriage starts with assumptions.
2. True unity comes when both partners seek God’s perspective first.
3. Being “on the same page” is less about agreement and more about understanding.

Timestamps:
00:38 When couples say “we’re not on the same page”
01:20 Identifying the root of misalignment
02:45 Why communication breakdowns happen in marriage
04:10 Shifting focus from blame to understanding
06:05 The importance of shared spiritual goals
07:22 What it means to submit to God together
09:15 Learning to listen before reacting
11:40 Real-life example of resolving conflict
13:10 How prayer realigns your hearts
15:45 Encouragement for couples in difficult seasons

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they explore the truth about the Holy Spirit — addressing common misconceptions, biblical foundations, and how believers can develop a personal relationship with Him. They share scripture-based clarity and practical understanding to help Christians truly know who the Holy Spirit is and what His presence means in our daily walk with Christ.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Holy Spirit is a person, not an “it.”
2. He was present from creation and still moves today.
3. Knowing the Holy Spirit deepens your relationship with God.
   
   

Timestamps:
00:00 Understanding the role of the Holy Spirit
01:32 Common misconceptions believers have
03:50 Biblical foundation from Genesis
06:15 How the Spirit moves in creation
08:42 Why the Holy Spirit is a “He,” not an “it”
10:25 The relationship between God, Jesus, and the Spirit
13:00 How to communicate with the Holy Spirit
16:22 The Spirit’s role in guiding daily life
19:40 Experiencing the presence of the Holy Spirit
23:05 How to invite the Holy Spirit into your life

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, the hosts encourage listeners to defy the natural tendency to lose momentum and get weary as the year ends. They discuss how to push through this fatigue and make the final quarter your most successful yet: in your personal life, marriage, finances, and spiritual walk by choosing action over feelings to achieve compounding growth.

Key Takeaways:

1. Lean in and push.
2. Have clear goals.
3. Get accountability.

Timestamps:
01:03 Losing momentum in the last quarter.
01:49 The last quarter can be the best quarter.
02:33 Why Christians underachieve.
03:11 The difficulty of finishing a race strong.
06:40 The meaning of "lean in" and pressing on.
09:22 Decision means cutting off other alternatives.
11:06 Imagining the celebration on December 30th.
12:44 Revisit and clarify your goals.
16:00 The necessity of accountability.
20:05 Daily prayer and reading God's word.
22:04 Connecting to the source of abundance.
26:52 Be strong and of good courage.

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they dive into what worship truly means in today’s world—beyond music, beyond Sunday services. They explore how modern distractions, culture, and technology have shaped our view of worship, and how we can return to worship that reflects God’s heart in every aspect of life.

Key Takeaways:

1. Worship isn’t limited to Sunday services
2. God does what He asks you to do first.
3. Worship like how you have seen others worship God.

Timestamps:
00:35 what it means to worship in 2025
02:10 redefining modern worship
04:05 worship beyond Sunday
06:22 making worship part of home life
08:50 removing performance mindset
11:40 creating a worship atmosphere
14:25 using technology wisely
17:00 culture vs true worship
19:45 worship through your work
22:30 raising worshipful children
25:15 worship as obedience
28:00 living anchored in worship

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they explore how chaotic seasons often bring unexpected blessings. They share why God allows tough times, how to recognize the good that can come from them, and ways to keep faith alive in the middle of uncertainty.

Key Takeaways:

1. Chaotic seasons increase your capacity.
2. Tough times prepare you for bigger challenges.
3. Fulfilment comes from alignment.

Timestamps:
01:30 Why tough seasons matter
04:15 Entering unexpected struggles
07:42 God’s bigger perspective
10:05 When prayers feel unanswered
13:20 Lessons hidden in hardship
17:40 Trusting God in the chaos
21:05 Finding purpose in pain
25:10 How faith grows in trials
29:15 Choosing surrender over fear
32:50 Seeing hope in suffering
36:40 God’s promises through storms
40:12 Encouragement for weary hearts

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they speak directly to the stress and overwhelm caused by today’s current events. Whether it’s the news, uncertainty, or the chaos of the world weighing heavy on your heart, they point to God’s Word as the unshakable source of peace and strength.

Key Takeaways:

1. Scripture brings peace.
2. Fear is not final.
3. God’s hope endures.

Timestamps:
00:01 Facing global chaos
02:15 Wanting to hide from fear
04:22 Overwhelm in daily life
06:10 Scripture that sustains
09:40 God’s word brings calm
12:05 Choosing faith over fear
15:20 Anchoring hope in Christ
18:34 Strength in difficult seasons
22:10 Trusting God’s promises
25:45 How to stay encouraged
28:15 Living with eternal perspective
31:40 Final encouragement in faith

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Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, they dive into the ongoing debate about whether the church should be tied to the state or remain separate. They explore how politics, faith, and personal convictions intersect, and how these conversations affect homes, marriages, and believers’ spiritual lives.

Key Takeaways:

1. God transcends politics. 
2. Christ belongs to no political party.
3. Love keeps marriages united.

Timestamps:
00:36 Separation of church and state debate
02:10 How politics enters marriages
04:22 Does Christ align with a party?
06:05 God is above politics
08:12 Misconceptions in Christian homes
10:44 Why unity matters in faith
12:18 Handling disagreements in love
15:01 Putting God before ideologies
17:40 What scripture teaches about authority
20:05 Avoiding division in families
23:12 Anchoring convictions in Christ

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